Web Toolbar by Wibiya

Taeler L.

is modding

 
 
 

GL PROFILES

More Friends = More Fun

 
 

GL
Tweets !

AN HOUR AGO Mmmmm watermelon peach sorbet! This #GLgirl recipe is a hit: http://t.co/e6IKurD84k

2 HOURS AGO #DreamJob! @FoxNews meteorologist @FoxMariaMolina gave GL the scoop on how she reached her goals: http://t.co/EexQFA22gk

4 HOURS AGO Will fining bullies' parents make the bullying stop? http://t.co/5UToik9vvp

 

sponsored links

ADVICE | FRIENDS | DEAR CAROL FRIENDS

I think my friends are talking about me

 
I have three best friends. I’m closer to one than the others. Sometimes she and I talk about the other two. But she and one of the others always ride bikes to school and hang out at each other’s houses. And I’m worried that they talk about me, too.

 

Dear Upset,

They probably do. But, oh well, you can’t have it both ways. And while they may indeed gossip, I doubt they’re vicious. Don’t worry. As Oscar Wilde said, “There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about.”
 
 

SERIOUS STUFF? For serious issues, don’t wait. Visit our HELP! page now.


For more on Carol Weston, visit her website: carolweston.com or like her Facebook page.

 

To order Girltalk: All the Stuff Your Sister Never Told You, click here.

To order The Diary of Melanie Martin, click here.
 
 

BY CAROL WESTON ON 9/27/2011 4:13:00 PM

POSTED IN , , , , , ,

< PREVIOUS   NEXT >   

1…45678910…12
59 Comments | Add Yours
SORT: OLDEST FIRST | NEWEST FIRST
 

Thanks this helped a lot!

by earthygirl on 11/16/2011 6:19:03 PM

 
 


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOM MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
My friends have been like "talking" about me like we share the seat on the bus and both of them thought it would be funny to see me fall on my butt in the aisle and slide into the back of the bus! They also kept on whispering to each other and not including me, and my pants where a little too small and my "fly" was down and they didn't tell me. They also planed a sleepover after the movie we are going to and they didn't invite me over. I asked my mom about it and she thinks i should leave my old friends kinda behind. I don't want to leave them behind because we have been friends scene kinder garden! Please Help me!


Hey girly, you may not want to let them go but do you really want to be friends with people like this. Sure true friends will joke around, but not try to intentionally make you feel bad.


Lynae P.

by earthygirl on 11/16/2011 6:11:41 PM

 
 

I am freaking out!
1- My best friend who lives across the country found out her boyfriend (they have been dating for almost a year) was cheating on her. I’m wanting to help her but we don’t get a chance to talk as often as we use to and plus I can’t help but be scared that it might happen to me. Help!
2- I have missed a MONTH of school because I was in the hospital and I might be going back to school after Thanksgiving. I am so scared! You see I’m a quiet girl, invisible in a way, but now I want to come back different, tougher. I have changed a lot and I want people to relize that.
3- My best-friends brother and I have been talking a lot recently, he was in the hospital too, and I can’t help but wonder if he might like me. Which brings me to the fact that this boy who I’m “dating” and am too shy to try and break-up with him. What do I do?
Please help me!




Hey Chica,

1. Give your BFF a call– chances are, she could really use a pal to talk to during this sad time. You don't really have to talk about what happened to her, but just let her know that you are there if she needs you. Don't let her situation scare you. Your friend's boyfriend was a jerk, but that doesn't mean all guys are, so don't stress unless you're really worried your guy is cheating.

2. The best way to make people see you differently is to act differently. You don't have to change who you are, but make an effort to talk to more people in school and make plans to hang out outside of school. The more open you are to talk to others, the more responsive those people will be. Plus, some new clothes never hurt! Try getting an accessory or cute top that makes you feel super confident, and rock it when you go back to school. 

3. Before you find out if your BFF's brother likes you, you have to figure out what you want to do about your BF. It doesn't sound like you're head-over-heels for him, so think about being single for a little bit and then consider the new guy. He might be better for you, but you have to break up with your BF before you can do anything.  
Rachel N.

by emmyie11 on 11/16/2011 1:45:48 PM

 
 



MOD!MOD!Please,and thank you!Im in Marching band.And every few years we go on a trip My section was going to room together since only the two oldest girls have gone on previous trips.So the four oldest girls roomed together(7 of us are going)and I was going to room with the two girls a year ahead of me and their friend.Well there is this one girl(I'll call her Y)who is freinds with the other girl who is my age in my section(I'll call her X)Y isn't always very nice to me,and sometimes I think she only hangs out with me because X, and I are friends.Well I got to the sign up sheet last, and Y had signed up before me(Today was the last day to sign up)and Y took my spot in the room with them. Y is always talking about how she wants to join our section next year and stuff.she is always trying to be with the older girls in my section constantly, and kind of annoys them.Now I have to room with a girl and her friends that bullied me at our old school last year.What should I say to our teacher?




Hey girlie,

You don't necessarily want special treatment here, but since you don't have a great past with the girls in your room, it's definitely worth talking to your teacher about this. After school, tell him/her that you don't want to cause a scene, but you had a lot of problems with these girls in the past. Tell him/her that you feel like YOU have grown a lot since then, but that you just don't feel safe being in a room with them since they bullied you before. Obviously you want to enjoy the trip, but you won't if you are constantly being beaten down. Be honest, girl! 
Lauren C.

by MidnightMockingbird on 11/3/2011 6:54:41 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMOD
Hey,
I get invited to all these things with my friends, problem is i carnt get there cause my mum doesnt drive.
My friend just txt me to say that a person that was going to pick me up couldnt, and it is for her birthday party thing, now i am not sure i can even go because we need to be there for 8:30.
Also, apparently i like this boy, and now my friend is gettting like sarcastically flirting with him. Finally, another one of my friends is taking my best friend away from me, she buts in, holds hands and is obsesive about her. The rest of us dont like it, but we dont know what to do!
MODMODMODMODMOD please help

 

Hey girl,

Try to plan a little bit further ahead next time. Don't wait til the last second to get a ride - instead, if you have to be somewhere in the morning, plan a fun sleepover at a friend's house the night before. Or make plans the day before so they don't have as much of a chance of falling through! As for the friend who is flirting with your crush, tell her to knock it off. Tell her it was funny at first but it's really getting old. If she's a good friend, she'll realize you're not joking around and she'll cool it. As for your other friend, that's a situation where your bestie needs to step up and tell her to back off. But if your bestie likes they attention and isn't bothered by it, you might not be able to do much. Just try to hang out with all your other friends and enjoy the company! I'm sure your bestie will get annoyed soon that your other friend is hogging all her time - and she'll be back with you guys quick <3

Lauren C.

by samiq on 11/3/2011 3:44:22 PM

 
1…45678910…12
You must be signed in to post a comment. SIGN IN or REGISTER

ADD A COMMENT

 

 

 
Which swimsuit style is your summer go-to?



 
 

Be a GL Buzz Babe!

 
Exclusive deals. Instant updates. Special surveys. Free swag to try, share and review. Sound amazing? Welcome to GL Buzz Babes.
CLICK HERE to join!
 
Posts From Our Friends

sponsored links