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How can I get over my ex?


 
I haven't been able to get over my ex for the longest time, longer then a year, and sometimes I just tell myself that it's impossible. I don't want to like him. He has a GF, he's a player, he cheated on me and won't admit it, and he is always cheating on his current GF. She and I are friends, but he flirts with me all the time, and I flirt back. But he also flirts with everyone. I want him out of my head, and I want to move on. Any tips?
 
It’s definitely not impossible – you’ve already taken the first step by admitting you want to move on. You’ve already recognized all of the characteristics you don’t like about him (reasons which are totally valid, by the way!), so figure out what’s keeping you from moving forward. If you can pinpoint what’s holding you back, you’ll be able to plan the best way to stop dwelling on the past.

Are you having a hard time moving on because you two share a past together? While it’s tempting to like someone because it’s comfortable or because he already knows you, you’re still young, and you have so many more people to meet. It’s better to move on now than to keep stringing yourself along only to end up unhappy later. Do you find him good-looking? Physical attraction is important in a relationship, but trust is important too, and your guy sounds like he doesn’t deserve your trust (or his girlfriend’s). And if you’re friends with his girlfriend, you shouldn’t risk ruining that friendship for a chance at a relationship with someone you know isn’t a good guy.

If you’re still having trouble drawing yourself away from your ex, make an effort to talk to at least one new guy every week. Your friends will be more than happy to help you scope out some cuties at school. Once you realize how sweet that guy in your chemistry class is, you’ll wonder why you ever wanted to be with your ex in the first place.

 

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my ex and i broke up about three months ago. we are still friends but he sends me mixed signals. he talks to me on the phone for an hour one day and then a different day he ignores my texts. idk whats going through his mind. any ideas?

by TTRockz on 12/23/2011 4:44:30 AM

 
 

ok I'm like 10 am i have like one pimple on my head, will i ever get a boyfriend again my friends say I will but I'm just not sure,I need dating tips and fast.

by darkdevildiva10 on 12/17/2011 3:51:06 PM

 
 

I just broke up with with my old bf, I still like him and I like another guy, should I try with him or go back to my old bf.I'm sooooooo confused and I need help.

by darkdevildiva10 on 12/17/2011 3:47:54 PM

 
 

ok heres my problem, he got tied up with this girl and now he wants to be in a relationship, and i do too, but he talks about her and he says that their just friends and i believe him but this girl like broke his heart, but he says that hes over her, good or bad choice to go out with him

by meganballs on 12/8/2011 6:27:30 PM

 
 

I have a huge problem; I like two guys and I think they're both gonna ask me out soon! Should I drop the one and focus on the other? What if I do that and then the other asks me out first? What should I say?!?!

by horseyluver on 12/6/2011 7:46:07 PM

 
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