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My bestie and I are crushing on the same guy!


 
My best friend and I like the same guy. I think he might want to go out with me, but I don’t want to hurt my best friend.
 
Dear Crush Confused,
I’m glad your crush might like you back and that you’re sensitive to your BFF’s feelings. Make sure that you give a lot of thought as to whether going out with him is work risking your relationship with your friend. To ease the awkward situation, you could say to her, “Let’s make a pact that whatever happens, it won’t mess up our friendship.” And if you end up with him? It’s okay to talk about phone calls or going out, but not okay to give her the play-by-play or say he’s a great kisser. And make sure that you spend time with her without him.
 
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I have a prob like this exept my bff crushes on a guy and my bff says he likes me and that is completely untrue.

by char char on 4/24/2012 6:23:25 AM

 
 

I have the same exact problem. I fell so bad. I know he like me because he shows ALL the signs, and ALL of his friends say he like OR loves me and he tells them. I fell really bad becuase he wants to wait until we are teenagers to go out, with is totally ok, I understand. I really don't want to hurt her feelings. AND I don't know what to do when we start going out?

by charlotte12sky4 on 4/11/2012 9:07:41 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!
Okay so my boyfriend's mom's best friend is visiting from Washington and she has a daughter. Her daughter is the same age as me and my boyfriend. She keeps lying to my boyfriend and said I want to ask her a question and those questions turn into something like "UR stealing my man! I want proof. Who loves you?" This been going on for a while and I can't talk to my boyfriend without her in the way. What should I do?




Hey girlie,

This is one of those tough situations where you have to take a deep breath, trust your boyfriend, and hope for the best. I know it's hard, but any strong relationship is built on trust! Nothing bad will happen if your BF is respectful, cares about you, and wants to be with you. Try to have a normal relationship with him by going out on dates without her around, texting/calling him, and being honest about your feelings. It might be hard while she's around, but I know you can do it if you really care about him! <3 
Lauren C.

by Hawaiikearybear16_luvshula3 on 12/17/2011 12:39:27 AM

 
 

I'm over weight.  I look at a bunch of people and there all skinnier than me. I look in the miror and i feel depresse. my parants and a couple of other people say i'm beautiful but i don't see it. I know a bus load of guys but i can't seem to find a bf. iv been single for 2 years.  Devin A.

by rww29 on 11/21/2011 3:55:00 PM

 
 

 i'm homeschooled and live in the woods. there's a 3 guys i like. I really like one but he's 16 and im almost 14. he's always nice and talks 2 me on facebook but when we talk in person he dosn't talk much. how can i b sure he likes me or not? help Devin A.

by rww29 on 11/21/2011 3:48:48 PM

 
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