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How to get that jerk to stop harassing you


 
There’s this guy at my school who always “accidentally” grabs my boob when I walk by. I don’t want to get him in trouble, but I want him to stop.

Dave: This “accidental” act is a total no-no, so you’ve gotta stop the grabby guy in his tracks. If your personality is strong enough, call him out on his actions right in front of his friends. He’ll be humiliated, and hopefully back off. If that doesn’t halt his heinous move, or if you’re too shy to deal with him one-on-one, talk to a teacher or parent about the situation.
 
Bill: I’ll give you the advice my mom always gave my sister: Your body is yours. And this guy does not have the right to touch it, no matter how harmless he may seem. Whatever you do, do it soon: He’s not going to stop until you let him know that his “clumsiness” is so not cool.
 
 

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hey i know how you feel i had that happen to me a few times and by the guys ive been friends with since like preschool and it was hard cause thier my besties i got over it bye telling my crush beleive me he freaked he told his girlfriend and she told aal her friends and none of them have dated a girl since believe me you dont have to feel sorry for them and get mad at youself they brought on themselfs.

by lailae on 8/12/2012 9:28:25 AM

 
 

Thanks! Laughing

by LilacBallerina on 11/11/2011 3:31:14 PM

 
 

Mod,
I was in class making a joke where you walk in place and a boy came up behind me and sniffed my hair with a smile, I didn't notice until all the girls I was telling a joke to said you better slap him, and I was like: "huh?" ... does this mean he likes me or was he trying to be funny? im only in 7th grade but people still date.. and me and this boy sit next to each other in class and everytime he starts singing i just chime in - jokingly, but now nothing seems right! Frown help!




Hey girl! 

Besides this, does he treat you differently from other girls? Does he go out of his way to make fun of you?  If so, he probably likes you Smile 
Devin A.

by LilacBallerina on 11/11/2011 3:20:59 PM

 
 

omg! that sicko! that is sexuall harassment it is no joke. tell the pricipal, your parents (if your dad will kick the crap out of that boy) or anyone you think can help. dont ignore it because it will just get worse. something like this happened to my friend. this stuff just makes me sick.

by starry~55 on 11/6/2011 12:53:33 PM

 
 

MOD:MOD:MOD: Okay so there is this one guy i like. He is one year older. I am in 6th and he is in 7th. Our paretns r BEST friends. One problem though. The only things i know about him is that he likes bowling (only sport he does!) and his name. I really really really like him. More then i have ever liked anyone else. I see him every day after I come out of one of my classes.. Should I just smile and maybe wave some days? i do not wanna seem like idk... And my mom thinks im too young to go out. but she really Likes him she even says he is cute. so i bet if he asked me out and i ran it by my mom she would be okay with us going out. i just need to like get to know him and stuff!! or get him to notice.. he is shy btw Thank you so much! You all rockSmile

 

Hey girlfriend, yeah you should defintely try waving and smiling sometimes. Because he's so shy, you will have to make the first move.  Maybe chat with him sometime and ask how his mom is doing. Continue talking to him more and more and when you're ready ask him out. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by taylorswiftfan1233 on 11/5/2011 5:26:17 PM

 
 

1. Say your name 10 times. 2. Say your mom's name 5 times. 3. Say your crush's name 3 times. 4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

 

Hey girl, we like that you're posting, but we ask that you don't write anymore chain letters. Thankx Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by cleopatra300 on 11/5/2011 1:55:35 PM

 
 

That is disgusting. She should know better than that.

by flyaway99 on 11/4/2011 7:02:52 PM

 
 



hey mod mod mod,
Here's a question for ya. My BF has a guy who asked her out. She said no, but the guy pretended they were dating. Then she tried to get rid of him ( he was stalking her) and he still won't leave her alone. How can i get this creep to stay away from her?
Thx.




I suggest you talk to a teacher about it. Theyll be able to help with that situation at school. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by flyaway99 on 11/4/2011 7:01:48 PM

 
 

Hey sorry he's harrassing you but personally since I'm uber short I'd just turn around slightly and elbow him

by StupidChick on 10/29/2011 10:14:30 PM

 
 



Mod mod mod mod mod
I like my ex guy friend. He is dating a girl to be popular ad her likewise. They have both said this to oneanother. I eas teasing my new bgf and him out of the front of the school cux my new bgf did that to me. Then after my exbgf pulled the door open we were walking down the hall he said he loved me. I am confussed cuz he says this to my friends but never me. Ive likedhim for three years, and upuntill last year we were bffs and he still never said that to me. He calls me funny all the time and laughs really hard when i say somethung funny. I miss him but cant really hang out cuz of his gf and he hangs out wth people i dont like. I just like him so much! Please help ASAP




You should try and talk to him about your feelings and his statement to you.




Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by massieb on 10/25/2011 10:52:58 PM

 
 

One day one of my best friends who is a guy hung on to hands. I just liked him as a friend and a little more on and off. but know i really do like him. also now all of a sudden we will hang on to hands for like 5 seconds and i konw he likes me but im really confused.

by gymnast21 on 10/25/2011 6:42:34 PM

 
 

One of my friends has this same exact problem. I'm glad I read this because now I can help her and give her advice. THANKS!!! She put me in a tough spot when she asked me what to do. Quite frankly, I don't know what to do. Guys make fun of me all the time for not having big boobs. My friend is busty and they turn to her and say: "What bra size are you? Oh, no you (now they're talking to me), you're probably a 1A." I had no clue what to do, and now I can help her, and hopefully get myself a confidence boost by reading more articles. Smile

by Snow_White39 on 10/25/2011 5:25:22 PM

 
 

What a jerk! Who would do that?

by caligirl99 on 10/25/2011 11:27:51 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
ok so this guy i had/have a huge crush on just randomly started msging me on FB. He is in 9th and im in 8th, so we go to different schools. I haven't seen him since last year.He came to my schools choir concert and watched. Later he msged me saying that i did a really good job on a solo i got. We have been msging back and forth since and its been almost a week. Do u think he likes me? cuz befor this, i dont think he even remeberd my name...
Thanks a ton!




Hey girl! Seems that you may have a new possible love interest in your life, lucky you! He may just be chatting you up as a friend or it may be more. Since it has only been a week, wait and see if you all continue to message. After a while you will begin to feel what kind of vibe he is sending: a just friends or i want to be more than that. 
Ana D.

by pottergirl135 on 10/25/2011 8:22:32 AM

 
 

I would not put up with that! I Would tell a teacher right away!! I Hate it when boys do that.

by amanda16 on 10/24/2011 11:54:32 PM

 
 

I would never put up with that, I have small boobs so it almost never happens to me but my friends with bigger boobs sometimes get touched or rubbed there by accident and maybe sometimes on purpose.

There is a girl at our school who sometimes grabs guys in there down there parts and its gross and funny at the same time, but she shouldnt be doing that either.

by luckykel on 10/24/2011 10:02:13 PM

 
 

My guy friends are always tazzing me (digging their hands into my waist) and doing this weird nerve thing to my knee cause I react weird. I jump and scream. It doesn't hurt, it just freaks me out. They do it all the time. It's funny.

by spunkygirl03 on 10/24/2011 8:35:05 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD
ok so this guy i had/have a huge crush on just randomly started msging me on FB. He is in 9th and im in 8th, so we go to different schools. I haven't seen him since last year.He came to my schools choir concert and watched. Later he msged me saying that i did a really good job on a solo i got. We have been msging back and forth since and its been almost a week. Do u think he likes me? cuz befor this, i dont think he even remeberd my name...
Thanks a ton!




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by pottergirl135 on 10/24/2011 8:26:50 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD
Im in a bunch of higher up classes and TAG. A LOT of people make fun of me for it! I have cried myself to sleep bcuz of it! It got so bad that one day our teacher was going to announce the only person in the class who got an A+. But, then she said that she wasn't sure she wanted to bcuz some people don't like it, and then someone blurted out " Whats the big deal in getting a good grade!? Nothing bad is going to happen!" so i yelled back saying " O YA, well i have been made fun for getting a good grade 10000 times!" and I proceeded to cry! HELP! and don't just say approach them bcuz there r too many, and I have told a bunch of teachers and they never even care! HHEELLPP!!!1




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by georgetownroad on 10/24/2011 7:44:31 PM

 
 



MODMODMOD!!!
So my sis raided my diary, and long story short, she told my crush's sis (which she is friends with, which could be a plus in the near future) that I like her bro, and she probably told my crush. That was on Friday, before the weekend, and now it's Monday. I had gym with my crush (the only class I have with him), and he didn't act differently or say anything. But then again, when I get to my squad, in which he stands next to me, and his buds are around, it goes DEADLY silent, and I see them talking before I get there. And I'm really shy, so that doesn't really help - at all. But you still think that he would do SOMETHING. My BFF is in his classes, and she said he acted like, completely normal and all. And she's always saying how outgoing and funny he is, like he was today. So what's up? Does he not like me or something? Or is he just choosing not to do anything? Or does could he care less? I can't seem to phantom why. Can you? Thanks! Laughing




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by uni301 on 10/24/2011 6:52:52 PM

 
 



MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD (Deep breath) MOOOOOOD!!!!!!!!!
I reaaally like this one guy. He's funny, smart, cute, nice, and we have EVERYTHING in common. The only problem is he's a HUGE flirt. I find that whenever we talk, i think he likes me. Except I never see him, and he sometimes doesn't respond to my texts and I don't always want to be the one to text him. Recently I've been hearing bad things about him and girls, like that he brings them to parties they weren't invited to and things like that. Not huge deals, but it hurts me at the same time. I think that if we got talking, he would like me again. Please help!!!!




Hey girl, be careful: players don't really make good boyfriends. I'd cautiously talk to him again: compliment him, ask him about a school assignment, use any ice breaker. But I'd still be wary.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by reesesgal16 on 10/24/2011 6:49:31 PM

 
 



MOSMOSMOS!!!
Hi! So my sister told my crush's sister that I like him, and when I had gym with him today (my only class with him - ugh), he didn't really say anything about it. My sister told his sis right before the weekend, and it's Monday now, so since he didn't really do anything, and my BFF, who's in his classes, says he didn't act any differenly. Does this mean that he doesn't like me? Because my BFF is always saying how funny and outgoing my crush is, but when I get to my squad line in gym, he like, stops talking to his buddies, (who stand near me, along with him, who stands right next to me), and everything goes DEADLY silent. So does he just not like me, and so he's not saying anything, or is he just choosing not to say anything? Thanks SO much!!




Hey girl, it's probably awkward for him right now. Whether he likes you or not, it's hard to tell, but his view of you is different now. I wouldn't get your hopes up that he's about to confess romantic feelings, but it's hard to call specifically what way he's going now. If he continues to avoid you, chances are he just isn't into you like that.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by uni301 on 10/24/2011 5:08:47 PM

 
 



mod mod mod So I'm like 98 percent sure this guy likes me sometimes he does this fake yawn thing where he reaches behind to my desk (I sit behind him) I was thinking I could put my number on a piece of paper into his hand. Good move?




Hey girl, you could totally give it a shot, but if the yawning thing is the only sign you've got, it may not be that big of one, especially because he isn't interacting specifically with you.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by pandagirl12 on 10/24/2011 5:04:13 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD. My ex-bf had 3 great months together..and I ended it. Now, he doesn't talk to me and ignores me. I DON'T WANT THINGS TO BE AWKWARD! I want to talk to him and at least be friends. He doesn't answer my texts and sometimes talks to me. What should I do to get a friendship with him? Thanks! <3




Hey girl, give him some space. He's trying to get over you, and he's just not ready to spend time with you right now. It's too painful. So instead, tell him you still want to be friends and to let you know when he's ready to be. Let him know you'll be there whenever. Respect his need for space and give him time to heal.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by birdgirly11 on 10/24/2011 4:42:29 PM

 
 

**MOD**
Okay so whenever my crush and I text, we have some really great conversations, but sometimes we have those awkward pauses between topics. What should I do about that?? Thanks in advance! Smile
XOXO~Courtney <333333




Hey girl! 

That's just what naturally seems to happen over texts, no matter what. I'd just stop texting, pick up your phone itself, and dial his number - real calls lead to real conversations! xoxox 
Devin A.

by cmn5297 on 10/24/2011 3:53:20 PM

 
 

O my gosh! There is this 8th grade girl at our school who lets boys touch her boobs and it is nasty!

by nerdisthewurd26 on 10/24/2011 2:45:03 PM

 
 

mod mod mod
answer my question!




Hey babe! I just did Smile  
Devin A.

by Pugglegirl1008 on 10/24/2011 1:31:36 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!
I'm in high school now and classes are good and I have made a lot of new friends, but I fell like one thing is missing. A boyfriend. I felt like that once I got to high school I would meet a lot of new new people and meet a boy that I would connect with and start going out with. I know there's nothing wrong with me, but still I ask myself why haven't met a boy yet. I mean if I see a boy I try to flirt, get his attention, and then decide weather or not I feel a spark, but somehow I never feel anything and I don't think the by does either. I just feel like my life would be so much better and positive if I had a guy who loved and cared abut me. I was just wondering is there something I need to change in myself to be open to more guys? Is it just that I haven't met a good guy yet? Or is it just that the guys at my school aren't romantic, sweet, and nice?




Hey babe! 

I think instead of focusing your attention on a boy, you should focus on yourself - what do you love to do? Who do you love to hang out with? When you're living the best life you can, lots of great guys are going to want to be included in it. And even though it's corny, it seems as though guys always come into the picture when you're happy with yourself first. Good luck! xoxox 
Devin A.

by Pugglegirl1008 on 10/24/2011 12:47:14 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!
I'm in high school now and classes are good and I have made a lot of new friends, but I fell like one thing is missing. A boyfriend. I felt like that once I got to high school I would meet a lot of new new people and meet a boy that I would connect with and start going out with. I know there's nothing wrong with me, but still I ask myself why haven't met a boy yet. I mean if I see a boy I try to flirt, get his attention, and then decide weather or not I feel a spark, but somehow I never feel anything and I don't think the by does either. I just feel like my life would be so much better and positive if I had a guy who loved and cared abut me. I was just wondering is there something I need to change in myself to be open to more guys? Is it just that I haven't met a good guy yet? Or is it just that the guys at my school aren't romantic, sweet, and nice?




Hey babe! 

I know how it feels to think that, but I think you just haven't met a good guy yet. Instead of waiting for a boy to make your life so much happier, work on changing that yourself -find something to do you're passionate about, and have the best time on the weekends with your girls. When you stop looking, someone great will come around (Even though it's cliché, it's true.) xoxox 
Devin A.

by Pugglegirl1008 on 10/24/2011 12:47:05 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!
I'm in high school now and classes are good and I have made a lot of new friends, but I fell like one thing is missing. A boyfriend. I felt like that once I got to high school I would meet a lot of new new people and meet a boy that I would connect with and start going out with. I know there's nothing wrong with me, but still I ask myself why haven't met a boy yet. I mean if I see a boy I try to flirt, get his attention, and then decide weather or not I feel a spark, but somehow I never feel anything and I don't think the by does either. I just feel like my life would be so much better and positive if I had a guy who loved and cared abut me. I was just wondering is there something I need to change in myself to be open to more guys? Is it just that I haven't met a good guy yet? Or is it just that the guys at my school aren't romantic, sweet, and nice?




Hey babe! 

When I was in high school, I felt the same way - I think you just haven't met a good guy yet. However, don't be on a constant search to find him - instead, try to fill that void by doing things you love, whether it be playing lacrosse or debating your heart out. When you're living a life that you love, trust me, lots of boys are going to want to be included in it. xoxox 
Devin A.

by Pugglegirl1008 on 10/24/2011 12:35:29 PM

 
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