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I met this guy two summers ago. After the summer, we e-mailed and kept in touch, but we always argued and then I would be the one to beg him to come back. Last summer, we became very close. But when he broke up with me, I called him names. I haven’t talked to him in eight months, but I miss him. He is on Facebook. Should I try to add him as a friend and see if he accepts? Or should I not, since I’m always the one begging him to come back?
 
Dear Heartbroken and Stuck,
Good news: There are billions of other boys on the planet. Rather than be the one “begging him to come back,” let him go and get to know the guys near you. There are more relationships in your future, especially if you stop the begging and name-calling. Your ex is a thorn in your side. Remove it and move on.
 
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HELP!

So, I dated this guy for about a month and he broke up with me, so I was kind of in a depression mode. This other guy told me he has a crush on me about a month later, I was getting over the older guy, and i had a little crush on the new guy too. After a few days, in a friend's party, I burst out crying because i missed the older guy. Now after about 5 months of not talking to him, I really miss him, but hes such a jerk and is always surrounded by girls. I think I like him, and Im scared of being rejected by him if I talk to him, what should I do?

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by swagmeupyo on 6/3/2012 8:30:01 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD I do not know what to say to my crush!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please give me some tips i'm just so shy.Oh and in relation to my other 'Mod' i'd like to let you know that one of my friends like him too, but that is beside the point, IDK what to say to him. Can you give me tips on flirting or something? Please and thank youSmile




Hey babe,

No sweat! It can seem super scary to talk to your crush...but the more you do it, the easier it becomes! Try to think about things your crush enjoys - a certain sport, school subject, club, band, etc. Try asking him a question about one of those - it gives you a smooth reason to talk to him, then actually requires him to reply with more than a yes/no answer! Then let that convo progress naturally. Take your time, keep your ears open for ways to continue the convo (things you can share with him, more questions you can ask him, etc.), and relax! <3 You can do this! And remember you're supposed to be a little nervous...that's part of the fun!
Lauren C.

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by drama_mama12 on 11/12/2011 10:01:20 PM

 
 

Thanks, Lynae!!!

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by drama_mama12 on 11/12/2011 2:47:09 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD (take a breather) MOD MOD MOD Okay so there is a boy i like and he isn't known to give girls compliments and he complimented me and he smiles and stares at me and he talks to me but like one day a week in art when he sits by me and not in the halls. Does he like me? I am having trouble figuring out. please help b/c without help i have a major case of confusion. Pleez help. Thanks in advance. ps if it helps i'm in seventh grade.

 

Hey girly, I think he's interested in you. Keep talking to see if he drops anymore hints of liking you. Smile Smile

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by drama_mama12 on 11/9/2011 8:10:27 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD! i want to text/call my BGF but i don't know when to. What are some good times of the day to text/call your BGF?




Hey girlie,

Right when you wake up and when you go to sleep are NOT good times to text - they're very BF/GF times to text, to say Good Morning or Good Night. Make sense? Instead, I'd try just after you get home from school, just after dinner, or around noon on the weekends. Try not to plan it out too much though - don't constantly text him at 3:05 every day! ;) 
Lauren C.

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by girlygirl/tomboy on 11/6/2011 10:56:18 AM

 
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