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How to land that first kiss with your shy guy


 

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I really want to kiss my BF, but he is super shy. Should I ask him first or just kiss him?
 
Bill: Sure seems easy in Humphrey Bogart movies, huh? Usually someone says, “Kiss me, you fool,” then Bogey makes his move. Life is easier in black-and-white. This dilemma is like asking if you should give him a million bucks or make sure he wants it first. Either way, he’s a lucky guy. Unless he has some rare form of lip-phobia, he should be flattered. Let the mood dictate the moment.
 
Dave: Hmmm. Imagine yourself as him. Wait! Don’t go running out of the theatre screaming, “She tried to kiss me! Yuck!” Seriously, if he were going to kiss you, would he ask you first or would he just do it? Whatever the answer, I would approach kissing him in the same manner. If the whole thing is a disaster, you can always pull the “I just did what I thought you would do” line. Usually works for me.
 
 
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BY BILL AND DAVE ON 10/31/2011 7:00:00 AM

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MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!! ive been dating my bf 4 a week now and im super shy and im not sure if ill embarrass him on the bus in front of his friends if i hold his hand (btw, hes my first bf so obviously i dont know what to do when it comes to dating) and im also afraid 2 hug im 4 the same reason but not only on the bus, any where. and also were both not very good at planning and ive been trying 2 get him 2 meet my parents ever since we started dating. is there any way to help me plan the intro of my bf 2 my parents better? sorry if this is too many questions 4 ya...



Hey babe,

Holding hands certainly shouldn't embarrass him.  Hugging won't either.  They're both just cute 'nd simple ways to show affection.  If his friends had girlfriends, I'm sure they'd do the exact same thing.

When it comes to meeting the fam too, it's best to just do a simple family dinner.  It's a casual environment and as long as he's polite, he really can't go wrong.  Good luck,  babe!
Jordan S.

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by Soupah_Gurl on 3/3/2012 3:25:06 PM

 
 

my crush said we were going out but then he walked up to me and said in front of my ex [who i had told i was not single anymore] that we were not going out and then the next day he asked if i was mad at him and then said he would think about it and then he watched me all day even during lunch when i was sitting across the room from him. is this weird????

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by lailae on 12/4/2011 12:46:19 AM

 
 

un ya i think i do love him, we are engaged.

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by rollerskate27 on 11/19/2011 12:16:15 AM

 
 



MODMODMOD
I've been goin out with this guy,neil for almost 9 weeks when i realized i liked this other guy levi. so i dumped neil and asked out levi but he said no and now im trying to win neil back but he thinks im just going to use him again but i know i really love him now. HOW DO I WIN HIM BACK!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????




I dont think you love him. I think you just want a boyfriend. If you "loved" neil you wouldnt have wanted levi or dumped neil for him. So i suggest you do both you and neil a favor hon and leave him alone. xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

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by rollerskate27 on 11/18/2011 6:53:46 PM

 
 



mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My bgf and I have been friend for 3 yrs, I really like him, but I'm homeschooled and he's in public school. He's really shy and I've been dropping hints about dances for a little while. I know he wont ask anyone else, but I'm not sure he will ask me... My mom says that I'm not allowed to date until im 18. I'm 15 now, but I think my mom would letme if it was him who asked me. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!! <3<3<3<3<3<3




Hey girl! I would double check with your mom first, just to be extra sure. Then, try dropping a few hints to your guy about wanting to go to a dance and see how he responds. Good luck! 




xo 
Taeler L.

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by teenangel2009 on 11/10/2011 6:43:46 PM

 
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