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My boyfriend is really sweet, funny and hot. But he barely talks to me in person, and he flirts with other girls. Online, he tells me I'm the only one he likes. I don't want to break up with him. But we don't talk, we only IM or text.
 

Dear Silence Isn't Golden,

Some couples are better at typing or texting than talking. But it can be frustrating if you can't seem to make conversation face-to-face--especially if he's flirting with other girls. Can you plan topics ahead (movies, holiday plans, that upcoming English presentation) and power through the shyness? If not, having a BF you can't talk to isn't as fun as gabbing with girls, is it? If this romance isn't working, you can try to change it or end it.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 11/4/2011 7:00:00 AM

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hey thanks @Lynae P. hope this info will help

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by Hawaiikearybear16_luvshula3 on 12/4/2011 6:13:34 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Okay so recently I'm always texting this guy (lets call him Steven). One day I asked him do you believe in 11:11? He asked What is that?I told him the whole wish thing and everything and he said i do that all the time. He asked what i'm going to wish for I said for him to know my secret.My secret was that I liked Steven. He guessed it right and he was like will you go out with me?I said yes right away, but now it seems like we have a phone relationship. We try to meet at school but it seems akward in front of Steven's friend. I wanted to know, how can i just talk to him at school without making look and seem akward? I wanted the news that we are going out to spread so it wont seem weird but how do i talk to him without a phone and in person? THANKS!!!

 

Hey girl, think of all the ways talking to him in person is better than being on the phone. You actually get to see him in person and touch and be around him. If you continue to think of talking to him as akward it will be. But, if you approach him smiling, confident, and happy, he will feed off your energy and act the same. It may be better if you guys hang out in private first, instead of in front of all his friends, to get more comfortable around each other. Hope this helps!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

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by Hawaiikearybear16_luvshula3 on 12/3/2011 8:22:25 PM

 
 

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I need help..
Soo i like this guy and I'm pretty sure he likes me. But I don't want a bf yet because everybody does and I don't wanna date just to date ya know?! But I wouldn't want to hurt his feelings because we've been friends for about 4 years. And recently my friend told me that this guy likes me. He's so nice and sweet and i can tell him anything and he won't tell anyone. Thinking back on our coversations I think he might like me. But idk! Any ideas? (: thanks soso much!
~Amanda

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by ilovepiano15 on 11/16/2011 9:01:37 PM

 
 

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 weeks and texting nonstop and and we hang out too. But now hes started to become less texty and we havent hung out in a while because we've both been so busy.(But were planning on hanging out tomorrow) Should i be worried that hes becoming distant from me or is it normal not to text often when u have a boyfriend?

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by candycheerio22 on 11/12/2011 7:58:21 AM

 
 



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lAURE C. Thank you sooo much(: I really appreciate everything!(:




Anytime! <3 Always here for ya, babe! 
Lauren C.

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by purpleorchid on 11/5/2011 10:57:11 PM

 
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