MOD MOD MOD Ok so I have this really good friend and when we are hanging out together, she is a great friend. But sometimes (and lately) she ignores me....A LOT. Its because her other friend and I can't stand each other and she is pressuring my friend into not hanging out with me and not talking to me. Today I asked if we could hang out and she just shook her head and walked away. I really do not want to lose this friend since we have so many good memories. I try to hang out with other people ( I do have other friends) but it isn't the same. We are completely fine when we are hanging out. Sometimes she respects me and acknowledges me in public but not lately. We were besties before the other girl came around. I want to confront her but I am afraid that will push her away even more. She also isn't responding to my texts. So....What should I do???! Not text her? Leave her alone for a while? I have no idea what to do! Thanks so much!

Hey babe! 

I think you need to talk to your friend and let her know how her hot-n-cold behavior is making you feel - I don't think anyone who would convince other people to hang out with you is a good example of a  great friend.  Even though she was a good friend to you in the past, something's changed, and she might not be the kind of friend that you need now. Just in case she doesn't come around, start hanging out with your other friends, but I hope everything works out the way you want it to! xoxox