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'Cause we all have days when we need a little ego-jumpstart, we're giving ya 10 things that'll boost your mood in 10 seconds flat.

1. You're your own worst critic, right, girlies? So nobody is better to boost you than yourself.  Throughout your day, give yourself mental pats on the back whenever you do something just right.

2. Tend to the senses by spritzing on your fave perfume that makes you feel oh-so lovely. Mmm...

3. Be a body language expert. Your opinion, and those of people around you, is affected by tons of things, including open body language. Stand up straight, uncross those arms, and just let it happen.

4. When you force a smile, your brain can't tell if it's real or not.  Guess what it does in times of doubt?  A simple grin sends out some feel-good chemicals called seratonin to zoom your mood all the way to the top.

5. Keep your fave photos of you and your crew handy for those times when you're feeling less than perfect. Good memories will jolt ya back into happyland.

6. Acknowledge your favorite features and give yourself some credit where credit is due. Love your eyes? Your butt? Your freckles? Your laugh? Recognize!

7. Pick an idol. Find a person you admire a great deal, be it a do-gooder celeb, family member, friend or teacher. What is it you admire about them? Look for similar qualities in yourself, or strive to reach them.

8. Treat your bod right by finding just 30 minutes a day for a brisk walk or quick indoor workout routine. You deserve it, and it'll battle pent up stress.

9. Take time out every day to treat yourself--and don't always plan it. Bake cupcakes after school, go for a bike ride with your sib, or watch a fave old cartoon from when you were a tot.

10. Start noticing the beautiful little things in others and you'll start to see them in yourself.
 
 
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BY JORDAN SARNOVSKY ON 11/20/2011 12:00:00 AM

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This post is sooooooooooooo true!!!!!!!!!!!

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by ColosalMascara on 11/20/2011 9:46:12 AM

 
 



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Ok, So my best friend is having a lot of troubles. she is really stressed out this school year and the other dasy she randomly told me she had a boyfriend. I thought it was wierd that i had heard nothing of him but i told her i was happy for her. then, later that night she texted me telling me that since i accepted the dfact that she had a boyfriend, i should know the truth about him. He is imaginary, theyve been "dating" for over a month, and she said that "he is the best thing that ever happened to me" she then said that "he" was having an identity crisis and needed her friends to know about him. i am very worried about her. she said it was because she was lonely and needed someone to talk to. But i told her she can talk to me at any time if she needs to. Any advice? I told my mom about the whole thing and she said to just watch what she does for the next few weeks and if it gets worse, we will go to her parents. what do you think?




Hey girl,

SO, SO GLAD you told mom, babe. During these years, it's normal for girls to be a little confused about who they are, to get stressed with all the pressures facing teens now, and to feel as if they have nowhere to turn. But inventing imaginary things and letting them progress to such a vivid, "real" state is not as normal. As mom said, keep an eye on her and reach out to her (in person, on the phone, via text) to see how she's doing. If she says anything else that seems a little "off," tell mom immediately. It's so great she has someone like you to watch out for her! And don't be afraid to tell her parents about this - it'll only help her deal with her emotions, sort things out mentally, and get back to normal <3
Lauren C.

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