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My boyfriend and I have an 11-year age difference. Everyone says I should break up with him, but I like him a lot. I don't know what to do. Help!!


Whoa! An 11-year difference? One or two years is fine for someone your age, but a guy that old dating someone your age is eyebrow-raising at best and law-breaking at worst. Depending on the state, it's illegal for a person 18 years or older to be involved with a person younger than 18.

Legal issues aside, it also raises another question: Why isn't he dating a girl his own age? That seems pretty strange in my opinion. Think about it, girlie, when you get to be his age, would you ever consider being with somebody 11 years younger if you didn't have some creepy ulterior motive in mind?

Not only is it odd and illegal, but a lot of things change the situation when a person is that much older than you. He will undoubtedly expect a lot of you at some point, perhaps more than you're ready to give. Though he may not pressure you for it, he very well might.

Your friends are speaking the truth, babe. There are many things about this that ring "uh-oh" bells. Sometimes you have to go against your feelings to do what you know is right.
 
 
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BY JORDAN SARNOVSKY ON 11/23/2011 3:00:00 PM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, pressure to get physical, long distance love, too far too fast

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I agree with the others, if you are adults it doesnt matter what the age gap is but 11 years is too much if you arent. Thats not to say we dont have crushes and cant love older guys but they are into doing their thing and we are into ours. And even if its illegal only if you are doing sexual things with each other, I would think by his age guys would need to have that to be in a relationship.

Just try to find a guy closer to your age, yes they are not as mature and may not be ready for things like we may be but at least our parents can accept them.

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by luckykel on 11/28/2011 3:02:45 PM

 
 

Wow that's a really big age difference! If its illegal he should know it and he still wants to be with you? Sorry but that is weird

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by sharkheart4ever on 11/28/2011 9:02:54 AM

 
 

There was a book i read that was just like this, only the guy turned out to be a vampire...... 0.O

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by broadway97 on 11/27/2011 8:29:37 PM

 
 

11 years OLDER WOOOOOOOOWZER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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by merrymerry22 on 11/26/2011 10:19:57 PM

 
 

Wow, that is crazyy;!! If I were u I would definitely be careful! :/

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by AliKatt on 11/26/2011 3:48:07 PM

 
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