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Boy or bestie: What to do when you and your BFF like the same guy


 
My friend and I like the same guy, and she won’t stop talking about it! Do we have to stop being friends?

Hey girl! Crushes can be super tricky, especially when you share them with your friends. But as your mom has probably told you, guys come and go, but friends last forever. So even though it might be tempting to compete with your friend for that cutie from math class, it isn’t worth losing a friend over! So, what can you do?
 
Talk to your friend. It’s a sticky topic to bring up, but both of you will benefit from a little honesty. She might tell you that she’s moved on – in that case, great! You can pursue your crush without hurting her. Has he told her he likes her back? In that case, you should leave the two of them alone, and do your best to be happy for her – she is your friend, after all!
 

And what if you both don’t know if he likes either of you? Agree to both play it cool, because your friendship isn’t worth the trouble. If he says he likes either one of you, you can decide with your friend whether you’ll go for it or whether you’ll both agree not to date him since you value each other over a guy.

 
Whatever you do, don’t try to outdo your friend to impress your crush, and don’t say or do anything mean to her to get his attention! You’re still young, babes – there are plenty of guys you’ll meet down the road, but the friends you make now could be yours for life, so give them the respect they deserve and they’ll do the same for you.
 
 
 

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by SoccerBabe07 on 1/14/2012 8:03:32 AM

 
 

OMG this helped so so so much!!!

by lucky25 on 1/5/2012 10:55:41 PM

 
 

Mod mod mod!!
I think I might like my BFFs crush! I really don't want to say anything to my other friends because they'll go tell her anyway! I have him in all of my classes and we talk a lot. He's really sweet and nice to me. I don't know what to do!
Also, my other crush and I don't really talk anymore, we used to be really good friends. One of my other friends is always talking about how he's like one of her best friends and they talk all the time. It really bothers me! How can I tell her nicely to stop?
Thanks in advance!! Smile

 

Hey girl,

You need to decide how much you like your BFF's crush. Do you like him enough that you would risk the friendship you have with your BFF to be with him? Because if you start dating him, your BFF will most likely be very upset. And to deal with your friend who's always talking about your former crush, you have several options here: you can change the subject every time she brings him up (after awhile she should get the hint that you don't want to hear about it), you can choose to ignore her, or just as you said,you can tell her nicely to stop.

Kathryn S.

by peaceluvhappiness711 on 12/29/2011 2:05:30 PM

 
 

MOD! MOD! MOD!! ok i think my guy friend likes me. well he makes it pretty obvious. we were talking a couple weeks and he kept saying im gorgeous and its not hard to dream about a girl like me and how im beautiful. and he constanly flirts with me in school. does he like me? thanks in advance!




Yes. He likes you. Very much so i would say. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by polkadot2312 on 12/27/2011 5:26:10 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD Theres this guy I like and when ever I talk to him I act like a complete idiot! I don't do it on purpose but I can't help it! I act like more bubbly than my personality usually is..This never happened before with any other guys I liked...

 

Hey girl, I completely understand where you're coming from and so do a lot of other girls. There's always that one guy we're so nervous around that we act comletely different than we usually do. And it's never intentional.  It just means you like him a lot. I haven't found a solution yet. I've always taken a few deep breaths before talking to them, or have just tried to calm down. Hope this helps!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by swazyelover2497 on 12/23/2011 8:34:08 PM

 
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