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My crush is moving!

 
 
There’s this guy that I REALLY like, but he is going to move away in May!! Also, two of my friends overheard that he likes one of my best friends, but she doesn’t like him at all. Should I ask him out before it’s too late or just move on?


Imagine if you do ask him out, and he says yes. Will you be able to deal with his moving away? If yes, then go for asking him out. What your friends overheard may not be the total truth, so you have nothing to lose by asking him out. You won’t be forever embarrassed if he rejects you because he’s moving away!


But it might be harder to move on from him if you actually do date and he leaves. While you can get over a crush by just finding someone new to like, getting over a boyfriend is more difficult. And long-distance relationships are possible, but a phone call or Skype chat isn’t the same as seeing someone in person. Plus, you might consider that he might not want to start a relationship before he moves.


Go ahead and ask him out if you think it could work, but be realistic. It might be better to just move on now, just make sure you know what you want before you jump into anything.
 
 

BY RACHEL NUGENT ON 12/10/2011 12:00:00 AM

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HELP!!
my crush is in my math class and that is my very worst subject. math is his strong subject and my weak one but ELA is my strong one and his weak one. that would be awsome but im only in his math class and he thinks im a total idiot!
PLEASE HELP!!
thx Smile

by rachelbutterfly155 on 12/27/2011 3:21:56 PM

 
 

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So my church's youth group went to a mall for christmas shopping. My crush is in the youth group so he came. While we were there he showed all the right signs that he might like me. My 2 besties kept telling me that he probablly likes me. So i ws gonna ask him out when we got back to the church. On the car ride home 1 of my besties told me and my other bestie that she like the guy i liked now. I was upset. I didnt show that i was upset but i was. And then at the end of the car ride she said she doesnt like him anymore. She jumps around guys so often. When i got out of the car i asked one of my crush's friends where my crush went and he had already left. His friend also told me that he is moving in the summer! I wanna ask him out. got any advice? thnx Smile Ana D.

by oboe_cow on 12/23/2011 8:35:01 AM

 
 

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My church youth group went to this mall for christmas shopping and my crush is in the youth group with me. i even have his number because we text. but i thought it would be a good time to see if he likes me at the mall. So we ate at the food court and when he went to go get his food my 2 besties pulled me along. We talked in the food line and he had to go to another place in the food court and so i brought him his food when it was ready. he told me i was the best. i bought some mango frozen yougurt to eat on the way to hot topic and he took a bite with my spoon and said it was good. i laughed and we ended up sharing it. at the end i gave him a reindeer lollipop that had alot of detail and he hugged me and said that he loved me but i think he meant as a friend. i was gonna ask him out but we were all in a hurry so it wasnt the right time. thought it would be good to do it when we got back to the church but he left to early. AND EVERYBODY TOLD ME HE WAS MOVING! any advice?




Hey girl! If he is moving then it may not be the best time to tell him that you like him. It will just make him feel bad and than make things awkward between you too for the rest of the time that he has left. When you are a teen, long distance relationships are too hard and just arnt worth it. 
Ana D.

by oboe_cow on 12/23/2011 8:10:11 AM

 
 



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PLEASE HELP!!!!
My BGF used to be my real best friend. When I went into 8th grade, and he went to high school, we saw each other less and less. Now here I am, in middle school, still crushing on him. I mean like, on 11/11/11, he joked with me about the stuff about asking girls out for luck. Then he said that he still has 12/12/12 and winked at me suggestively. But his facebook shows him with another girl the status doesn;t say anything about a relationship and yet he says I'm beautiful and flirts! I am so confused1




Hey girl, well all you can do at this point is just keep on flirting with him! Tell him maybe you'll ask someone out on 12/12/12 and wink. You have to subtly hint that you like him! 
lauren r.

by KaleidoscopicDreams on 12/17/2011 1:54:46 PM

 
 

@ Lauren C. THANK YOU SOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!




You're welcome!! 
Lauren C.

by coldplay12 on 12/16/2011 9:23:38 PM

 
 



MODMODMOD I think I am starting to like my BGF! I'm too scared too tell my friends or him. We have pretended to be going out to pull a prank on our friends before but told them right after. He was about to ask me out a couple weeks ago but the day before I just got a boyfriend Frown I am still together with my boyfriend but we hardly talk and we live in different time zones and far apart. He really likes me and I don't want to break his heart. Also since I am starting to like my BGF and if I do manage to break up with my current BF, I don't want to ruin my friendship with my BGF. Help??




Hey girlie,

First off, you definitely need to break up with your BF if you want to flirt with/date your BGF. It's not fair or moral to pursue another guy while you have a BF, even if he lives far away. So do the right thing! (Plus, you don't really talk anyway - that's not a relationship!) Then, you have to weigh the pros and cons of making a move on your BGF. Read this article - I think approaching it this way might really help Smile
Lauren C.

by peaceluvsmile on 12/15/2011 11:21:06 PM

 
 



MOD MOD!!! My mom wouldn't let me get a facebook and all my friends except one friend have one!!! how can i convince her!!!!!!!! thank you!!!




Hey girl,

Instead of whining and giving the old "But everyone ELSE has one!" argument, try to approach it from a more mature angle. Go on Facebook with a friend's account and read their privacy information. Print it out or write down some notes to show mom that you have total control over your account: you can make it 100% private to anyone who isn't listed as a friend. And promise her you will only add friends that you KNOW from real life and trust - and promise that you will never post inappropriate things/photos, because that's just not how you roll. Show her you're thoughtful, mature, and classy about this. She might not agree right away, but keep trying Smile
Lauren C.

by coldplay12 on 12/15/2011 11:07:05 PM

 
 

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HELP!! So, I was texting my crush last night and I asked him what do you think of me? He replied I'm not gonna say so I asked him why? with a sad face and he replied Because ;)
What does that mean? I am soo confused! My friends said maybe he likes me! Do you think he does?




Hey Girl,

I think he likes you too! He probably wouldn't say why because he was too nervous, so keep texting him for more clues so can be sure. Or, if you're feeling brave, tell him that you like him. Believe it or not, boys are just as scared of rejection as girls are, so telling him how you feel could take away his nerves and get him to ask you out! Good luck! 
Rachel N.

by JaliceFan01 on 12/14/2011 5:59:01 AM

 
 

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I just moved recently, but right after we moved out this really cute guy, Eric, moved into the area. My dad still lives at my old house, so whenever I go to visit my dad I always see Eric. He is really funny and seems interested in me. I am friends with him on facebook and I see him once a month. I also plan on moving back to where I used to live for my junior year(I'm in eighth grade now). Do you think we could still go out? P.S. We only live two hours apartTong (sorry if its confusing!!!)




I think thats always possible. Try to get to know him and see where it goes! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by Bornagain on 12/13/2011 6:43:10 PM

 
 

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I'm in a really messed up state right now. I'm in high school and EVERYTHING is changing. People are changing. So many of them are going on the wrong path. This guy has been liking me too long, so I have no idea why, but I just started dating him. I have no feelings for him, but i'm still dating him. he was one of the guys who started smoking, and i told him to stop. he said he would stop, but only for me. I was considering breaking up with him cuz it really wasn't doing me any good. And i have been having dreams of my best guy friend, who left earlier this year. We were really close, and once he told me he liked me. I didnt handle the situation well, and that day i thought about it and I actually fell for him. But he never mentioned it again so i kept quiet. now, after those dreams, i realised that i still love him. and i'm dating a guy i have no feeling for. my crush is not coming back. What do I do?
xoxo
Kuku




Hey Chica,

You should break up with the BF you have now. It's never good to be in a relationship when you don't have feelings for someone, and you're just leading him on by pretending. But don't try to start things with your best guy friend just yet. As you said, he moved away, so it's probably better to move on. We often dream about people we are missing, but have you thought that maybe you just miss having a guy friend in your life? Love is a big step, and if you haven't seen your crush in a while, you can't know for sure if you're in love with him.

You should take some time to be single before moving onto another guy. Do things you love and work on being the best you you can be– and don't date guys just because they're available! Try contacting your BGF again, but as a friend. Having him back in your life not as your BF might make you happier than you think.  
Rachel N.

by *zaina*all*te*way* on 12/12/2011 8:07:34 AM

 
 

I know how you feel, girl. My guy is graduating and moving to Phoenix, Arizona in 2 weeks. It's sad, but sometimes you gotta move on.

by kasiadances on 12/11/2011 6:31:02 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD So, please answer my question. The guy I like is one of the populars and he knows I like him. I am one of the dorks, am very smart, and I always have my nose in a book. He is so not like me, but I like him anyways. Do you know of any ways to get him to notice me. P.S. We go to a very small Catholic school and updating my uniform is out of the question, and my parents won't let me wear make-up. We also don't get many dress down days and the clothing we can wear is very limited when we do. Thanks and sorry for this bing so long.




Just talk to him! If you find something  in common with him and talk about it youll get to know him better. If he gets to know the real you he may just start to like you! Smile xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by HungerGamesRox99 on 12/11/2011 6:08:21 PM

 
 

thank u so much Lauren C.
you give the best advice; thank u!

by piedude on 12/11/2011 6:08:03 PM

 
 

I would advise you to not spend the next few months pining over someone who is no longer going to be around in the flesh. But, even if you are not going to be BF/GF it doesn't mean you can't stay friends. Get his cell number and his skype and see if u two can chat every once in a while.

by basketballcutie11 on 12/11/2011 7:44:28 AM

 
 



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so my bff is going out with my bgf. My bgf talks to me more than his gf and I feel bad. I asked them if they talked in person at all, and they said they did a lot. My bgf doesn't seem to like my bff anymore, but is constantly reminding everyone how much he likes her. My bff told me that she didn't really want a boyfriend, even though she still liked him. What can I do? I don't want them to break up, but should I tell my bgf what my bff said?? Thanks!




Hey girlie,

It's their business whether they stay together or break up, so try to stay neutral. If your BGF or BFF says anything hurtful about each other (or if you hear of any hurtful things going on, like cheating), that is totally a time when you should speak up. But let them sort this out for themselves. If they decide they don't like each other anymore and want to break up, they'll decide to make that happen. Just be patient and be a good friend to both of them while they figure this out Smile 
Lauren C.

by Nmun2000 on 12/10/2011 11:57:12 PM

 
 



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so i broke up with my bf, and my parents got pissed cause they thought i was thoughtless when i did it. but they dont know why i broke up with him: we didnt really talk, at school or online, but we usually stayed after school to hang out for a bit, and he'd just touch me, like my legs and butt. i didnt tell him it made me uncomfortable cause i didnt know how. but then on a school trip he started touching my breast, and it made me feel slutty...
so i ended it with him. then i started liking my bgf, and he likes me, but my parents dont like him and wont let me date him. the frustrating part is that they dont know him, or how much greater he is then my ex. should i tell them about the touching? or will it not help my case? please help




Hey girlie,

It will definitely help your case to be honest with your parents. It is YOUR decision and yours alone, so you don't have to explain yourself if it makes you feel uncomfortable. But if they're keeping you from dating other people because they think you dealt with this in an immature way, show them that your decision was totally mature by confessing the reason why. Just tell them you wanted to move slower and he didn't make you feel respected or safe - you felt uncomfortable, disconnected, and like you were moving way too fast. But tell them that you have learned more about what you want in a BF and, through getting to know your BGF, you really feel like he's a good guy who will respect you and your wishes. Telling them this will make them realize that you are taking care of yourself and starting/ending relationships for mature reasons <3
Lauren C.

by piedude on 12/10/2011 11:16:38 PM

 
 

aww i'm sorry, i wouldn't know what to do either.

by gldiva98 on 12/10/2011 10:05:12 PM

 
 



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Hi how r ya? ok so my best guy friend lives in Florida and i see him every spring and winter break and every summer and i think i kinda like him but he has a gf in Florida and every time i see him we end up knowing more about each other and closer so what should i do???
Thx,
Keziyah Laughing




Hey chickie,

I'm good, how are you? Smile 

Tough sitch. If he has a GF in Florida though, that means he has a GF when you see him too. So you know the rules there...he's off limits! You can get to know each other even better as friends, but no flirting out of respect for his GF. Try to approach this as a "BGF" situation - you get to see one of your best friends, you get to swap stories and catch up on each other's lives, and it's ok to be interested in him/his life. It's even ok to crush a little bit. But he lives far away, so actually dating him would be impractical! It could happen if he moved back in the future but, for now, treat him as a best friend. You can't force yourself to let those feelings go but, over time, you'll see how great you are as friends...and also will probably meet someone crushable who lives wayyyy closer Smile 
Lauren C.

by Princess Keziyah on 12/10/2011 9:03:28 PM

 
 



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Ok so yesterday at skool my friend and I asked my crush what he looked for in a girl. Btw his name is C. He's also my BGF. Lately C and I have been spending slot of time together and talking on the fone and doing HW 2gether and stuff. When he described his dream girls he said tall (which I am) and funny. He said it all while looking at me with this "yea u" look on his face. He knows I like him and that actually helped our friendship. We have no secrets. Je knows about my period and my life overall. But lately he's been getting kinda sad when I say things about how we would prob never b a couple cause it's 2 risky for our friendship. I feel bad but I Thought he felt the same way. Does it sound like he likes me?




Hey girlie,

It does sorta sound like he sees you as more than a friend - or hopes you could become more than the friend in the future. It's hard to say for sure unless you hear it straight from him, but these do seem like hints of a crush! So if you really believe that stuff about "not dating to save your friendship," be honest about it. But if you're just doing that to test him, try not to! You want to be honest about your feelings and plans so you don't play any games/confuse him <3 
Lauren C.

by Stormynow on 12/10/2011 9:02:13 PM

 
 

I am SO sorry girly...I would die if my crush moved.

Btw girls if you ever need advice about boys or absolutely anything else...I'm your girl!! No seriously, feel free to comment on my profile any time and I will get back to u ASAP! No question is to weird or personal and I promise to give well thought out detailed advice to any one who needs it (: I love giving advice so much so if you've got a tough sitch and don't know where to turn...my profiles the answer Smile haha

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by maggie183 on 12/10/2011 8:07:36 PM

 
 


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Hi! So there's this guy in my classes, lets call him A. A lot of people don't really like him, because he gets angry sorta easy, and can be a bit smart-alecy. A gets kinda bad grades, but he really is smart, he just doesn't turn stuff in. Im more of the goody2 shoes striaght A student that never talks. It seems like I sit next to him in all of our classes, and I'm pretty sur eit's because my teachers want me to rub off on him or something, right? A's actually pretty nice, I mean, we always work together and it's really fun and all. I could def see him as a good guy friend. But would people judge me if I did? I know my BFF isn't too fond of him, b/c he can be weird sometimes if u don't know him. And sometimes, I can't really help it, and I flirt with him when we're working together. The strange thing? He seems to work a heck of a lot better when I'm flirting with him. What's with THAT?


Hey girl, I responded to you, so I'm sure why it hasn't posted. I think A likes you as much as you like him. Sometimes kids will act out or behave badly because they need some attention. Maybe A has never had anyone be nice to him or take the time to get to know him before you. So I think you should be his friend. People will always have something to say, so you just have to ignore them. Hope this helps!!! Smile Smile


Lynae P.

by uni301 on 12/10/2011 7:19:33 PM

 
 


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OK PLEASE REPLY!! well my boyfriend and i have plans tomorrow but my period came today....and its really bad. i know that i will not feel like going tomorrow:/ its just a play at his church so i don't think that he would care if i didn't go but ummmm i kinda need an excuse cause i don't want to say "hey i can't go" and then he ask "why" and i refuse to say "cause i'm on my period and don't feel lik e it" but i don't want to lie to him either.


Hey girlfriend, I think you should just tell him the truth. Let him know you're on your period and don't feel good. I'm sure he'll understand. And with most boys, after you say the word "period" they don't want to know anymore. Hope this helps! Smile Smile


Lynae P.

by Alykat18 on 12/10/2011 7:11:15 PM

 
 


MOD MOD MOD! Please help me! I'm a total tomboy, and I have these two best guy friends. I'll call them Tom and Logan. So we all balance each other out. We're all kind of nerdy geeks, and we all have star-wars themed names and all. I know it seems lame, but we think it's kind of cool. Anyway, we're all different kinds of nerds. I'm a well-rounded person, meaning I like sports, acedemics, etc: Logan is a physics/chemistry geek and Tom is in special ed only because he has epilepsy. (He gets seziers.) Anyway, with all of our different personalities, we could easily argue a lot, but when two of us fight, the other calms us down. The problem is that Logan is moving to Canada in late January, meaning that Tom and I will be "alone" in a sense. Because of his epilepsy, he sometimes has major mood swings, and can be really sensitive. Sometimes if I'm having a bad day I can be a little snappy towards him cuz he an be annoying. Without Logan there, I think we might fight. Anyway to prevent it?


 


Lynae P.

by soccerbeagle98 on 12/10/2011 7:03:21 PM

 
 


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I posted a mod question earlier and It didn't come up. It was appropriate and everything, so why didn't it show?


 


Lynae P.

by scooby239 on 12/10/2011 5:45:14 PM

 
 


MOD!MOD!MOD! MODMODMOD!!!
At my school we have these "Candygrams" where you can pay 25 cents to send a person of your choice a candy cane with a personal message. I was considering sending one to my crush, but we aren't really close (yet). Would it seem awkward or pushy to send one to him?


 


Lynae P.

by AlwaysDreamer on 12/10/2011 5:13:35 PM

 
 


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I am caught between 2 guys who apparently both like me.Guy 1 is funny cute and complements something about me almost everyday.Guy 2 is cute funny tries to comfort me when I'm sad and offers to carry my books. How do I pick? Thank u for helping!


Hey missy,


Lynae P.

by artistchic99 on 12/10/2011 5:10:57 PM

 
 

Move on. Trust me. Just let him go now.. Sorry girl. Frown

by Goldfish123 on 12/10/2011 3:45:38 PM

 
 


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So my crush told my friend he likes me and he wants to kiss me, but he doesn't know if he is going to ask me out. Why doesn't he want to ask me out?


 


Lynae P.

by Alliecat1010 on 12/10/2011 2:48:43 PM

 
 

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by da:DaeSHINES on 12/10/2011 1:58:12 PM

 
 

That stinks. Frown

by sweetooth on 12/10/2011 1:36:34 PM

 
 


MODMODMODMOD!!!
Hi! So there's this guy in my classes, lets call him A. A lot of people don't really like him, because he gets angry sorta easy, and can be a bit smart-alecy. A gets kinda bad grades, but he really is smart, he just doesn't turn stuff in. Im more of the goody2 shoes striaght A student that never talks. It seems like I sit next to him in all of our classes, and I'm pretty sur eit's because my teachers want me to rub off on him or something, right? A's actually pretty nice, I mean, we always work together and it's really fun and all. I could def see him as a good guy friend. But would people judge me if he was? I know my BFF isn't too fond of him, b/c he can be weird sometimes if u don't know him. And sometimes, I can't really help it, and I flirt with him when we're working together. The strange thing? He seems to work a heck of a lot better when I'm flirting with him. What's with THAT?


 


Lynae P.

by uni301 on 12/10/2011 1:17:09 PM

 
 

HELLO! Listen,I need some help! I'm 13 and going out with someone.... I feel like I dont really want to b dating anyone right now, and I want to break up with him. But I cant do it by text or person! I'm so scared and nervous! The only time I see him is at church, and that would b a horrible time to break up! Please, anybody help! Thanks

by jigglyjello456 on 12/10/2011 11:49:42 AM

 
 

FIRST COMMENT! MOD MOD MOD So, the guy I like is one of the populars and he knows I like him. Anyways I am known as one of the dorks, am very smart, and I always have my nose in a book and he so is not like me. I like him anyways. Do you know of any ways to somewhat notice me. P.S. We go to a very small catholic school and updating my uniform is not possible and we don't get very many dress down days. Thanks and sorry for this being so long.

by HungerGamesRox99 on 12/10/2011 11:41:06 AM

 
 

If I were you, and I/you didn't ask him out, then I'd constantly regret it. I mean, what if?

by fudgemonkey on 12/10/2011 11:29:31 AM

 
 

Sorry for your situation!

Join my club, 'Orchestra Nerds and Band Geeks.' It's a loose and fun club where we talk about anything and everything- But especially music Smile Go to my profile to join!! svds

by svds on 12/10/2011 10:48:42 AM

 
 

my crush moved too... tear, and i never said anything. at first i kinda regretted it. But i couldn't deal with a long distance relationship, and i moved on pretty quickly. But when he comes back a visits i still get butterflies.

by purpleorchid on 12/10/2011 2:15:40 AM

 
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