My BGF, who also happens to be my ex, has a new GF named Shyanne.
I'm pretty sure she hates me. Do you know a way to help me get along
Uh-oh, girlie, this could be just a tad trickier than normal.
Chances are, since he's you ex and also you BGF that she may be
automatically suspicious of you. She's likely to be wondering why the
friendship continued on, or if there's still some feelings there on
Lucky for you, girls open up to their friends. If you want to get on
Shyanne's good side, you may have to take some time out to get to know
her, without him tagging along. Throw out some conversations
starters on Facebook, anything to let her know that you have nothing
but good intentions.
Bring it up to your BGF, as well, he may be able to help you out.
If she doesn't already know that you'd like to befriend her, he could
casually toss that out to her. Or maybe he has the inside deets
on why she seems so standoffish to you.
All in all, it's a really good idea to take this step. It shows
some serious dedication to your friendship, and what makes him happy.
Pat yourself on the back, babe!
BY JORDAN SARNOVSKY ON 12/11/2011 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, GL's best guy advice, guy friend Q & A, ex boyfriend Q & A, dealing with jealous dudes