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I really like this guy, and we are good friends. But when I’m not around, he says awful things about me to my friends. What’s that about?
 
Bill: That ain’t good. This guy is the meekest of mice, since he rags on a person he supposedly cares about. Tell him his behavior really hurts your feelings. Give him one chance to change his ways. If the dissing continues, it’s time to re-evaluate this so-called friendship.

Dave: I have more respect for a person who says something negative to my face than one who pretends to be a friend while secretly bashing me. Trash this relationship.


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BY BILL AND DAVE ON 12/12/2011 9:00:00 AM

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How do I sumit one to Bill % Dave??




Hey babe,

To submit a question online, click here and select "Bill & Dave" from the drop-down menu. To send it via regular mail, click here for the address!
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by sunnybubbles on 12/29/2011 10:25:42 AM

 
 



MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD!!!!!!!!!!!! There's this boy who im pretty sure likes me but hes dating one of my friends. the other day he hugged me right in front of her! so now shes not talking to me! do i choose boy or bestie? help1

 

Hey girl, always choose your bff over the guy. Guy's come and go unfortunately, but best friends are forever! 


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by omggirl5 on 12/24/2011 4:22:31 PM

 
 



MODDD MOD MOD!!!!!
so my ex says he is in love with me but he also said that he loved my best friend, another one of my friends, and this girl he just met. This was all in the same two weeks. I told him that we were all waiting for him to make up his mind on us now he wont talk to me or any of the rest of us and i think that he might be thinking about killing himself. How can I get through to him?




Hey girlie,

Give him a little bit of space. Guys don't react well to pressure. Putting pressure on him and forcing him to make a final choice won't help him make it - it'll probably make him shut down emotionally and be unable to make any decision. So just tell him you understand he's confused and would like to be just friends for now. Then follow through with that - be supportive, be friendly (and not flirty right now), and let some time pass. Just use this time to grow closer and more comfy around each other first - all that "love" stuff can come later. If he's throwing around the word "love" so freely, chances are he isn't actually in LOVE with any of you. He's just figuring out how to express his feelings (of "like," of "crush," etc.) and getting a little overwhelmed <3
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by volleyballgirl7799 on 12/18/2011 12:58:22 PM

 
 



MODMODMODMOD!!! Okay, so I'm really good friends with a guy who is a year older. We talk a lot and i think I like him. He always tries to hold my hand and stops me in the hallways to hug me. Does he like me back? Thanks! Smile




Hey girl, most definitely! Any guy who tries to hold your hand and take time to hug you in front of people is crushin'! Go girl! ;) 
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by smiling4ever14 on 12/17/2011 1:35:27 PM

 
 

My crush used to like me and we almost dated but he was too scared to ask me out and I took him for granted and the none random night i found out he was dating this girl who bullied me for years and for some reason he hated me for a while then we became friends for a like a week but ast friday he said i wasnt awesome at all and that i was ugly and he wouldnt care if i shot myself or died...and all i was thinking was well u didnt seem to think that this summer.

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by zumba on 12/13/2011 7:36:05 PM

 
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