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There was a holiday dance, and I was with my BF as usual. He took me into a dark room, where he tried to touch my chest and other inappropriate places. It made me uncomfortable. Should I tell someone?
 

Dear Uncomfortable,

I hope you told him! You could have said, “I don’t want to be in this room,” or “Don’t put your hands there,” or “No, stop, I don’t want to do this. Let’s go back to the dance.” You might have felt uncomfortable saying this, but you felt even more uncomfortable not saying anything, right? It’s important to express your feelings out loud, and just as important for him to listen and respect them. As for telling someone what happened, that’s up to you. Would you feel better talking to your mom or a counselor? Is this romance even right for you? You need to make your BF understand that you felt uneasy by his actions. Make this clear so there won’t be any confusion in the future. If he still attempts to touch you inappropriately after you’ve told him, he’d be most ideal as…an ex-boyfriend.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 12/14/2011 11:00:00 AM

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So I like a guy and I swear he likes me back. Some people say he 's gonna ask me out, but I'm not allowed to date until I'm in 10th grade and my grade doesn't understand what dating is, they sit with each other every now and then and change themselves. What do I do?


 


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Yesterday I went to watch try outs for our schools musical when my crush grabbed my hand, put his arm around me, and made me try out. He told me he believes in me, he'll hold my hand the whole time, will give me a hug if i do it, and to focus on him the whole time.. All my friends say hes a total D-Bag but He's beyond sweet to me (: A lot of people hate him but I really like him.. He also suposivly has a really big ego and he told me that he wasnt that good. And I guess he's never said that to anyone else. And when my friends asked him how i did cuz he was the only one in the room besides the judges and he said i did amazing. he also like when he sees me in the halls he'll always say sup and do the little nod thing and he asked my best friend if i liked him. Does he like me? and if he does why won't he just ask me out? Thanks (:


 


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by Dancing Queen 14 on 12/14/2011 5:50:11 PM

 
 


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Thanks Lynae P. you always seem to know what to say to help Smile Guys can be a bit clueless sometimes...and its impossible to figure them out, thanks again


 


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