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ADVICE | DEAR CAROL

Change your image right now

 
I’ve created an image for myself that I don’t like. I wear gobs of makeup. I smoked so a guy would like me. I stole my best friend’s boyfriend, and now I like her new boyfriend. I’ve tried to change, but it’s hard.

 

Dear Bad Girl,

You feel lousy, right? But behind that makeup and smoke is a good person. Come on out! Change is hard—for you to do and others to recognize. But since you no longer want to play rough-and-tough boyfriend stealer, find healthy ways to feel confident. What are you good at? Soccer? Singing? Science? Spanish? Build on those strengths.

 

As for changing your rep, lose the makeup and put a positive attitude on your face—even if it feels kind of forced at first. Ask guys and girls friendly questions such as, “What did you do during vacation?” It may take a while to replace the old image, but congratulate yourself on having the guts to change.

 

Oh, and hands off the cigarettes and friends’ boyfriends! Your health and friendships are far more important than getting a guy.
 
 

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MOD!MOD!MOD! Ive been kinda of crazy, and outgoing and loud but in a bad way, I want to be quiet, and cute, so how do I change my rep?




Hey girlie,

There's nothing wrong with being outgoing and bold - but if you want to tone things down so you don't come across quite as "crazy," try putting sticky notes on your mirror at home, notebooks, in your backpack, on your cellphone, etc. reminding you to relax. They can all say something different, but the point is the same: they'll be reminders to reel it in, think before you speak, and act a little more poised Smile
Lauren C.

by miz99 on 12/30/2011 12:26:39 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD
Would it be bad if I unleashed my inner gothic self after new years?
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Of course not! I think it's a great plan to explore different sides of yourself and try new things in 2012 - as long as you're safe and not hurting yourself, that is. So if you want to express yourself with clothes/makeup, do it Smile 
Lauren C.

by novlist1307 on 12/30/2011 12:03:15 AM

 
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