I used to
hang out with my crush all the time. It was an equal effort, and we
were constantly laughing and joking around. But when he found out
that I liked him, he's kind of awkward now. I want to tell him that
nothing's changed and that I still feel the same way, but that's not
something I'm comfortable saying. What should I do??
“Guys get weirded out very easily and can make things very awkward
because they don’t know how else to act,” says Tyler, 15. “Also,
guys get more awkward when they have to talk about feelings so it is
better to show them.”
Decoded: Since guys
are much more visual learners and are not huge fans of confrontation, don’t feel the needed to have a deep chat with you crush. He may
just be freaked out, but it is nothing you can’t fix.
Your Move: If
you are okay with being just friends, invite your crush to hang out
with you and your usual group of mutual friends to show things are
still the same. But, if he's still weirded out, give him some time to
ease his awkwardness while you distract yourself with schoolwork,
other friends or even a new crush.
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BY ANA D’AMBROGI ON 12/16/2011 11:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, GL's best guy advice, crush crash course, guy friend Q & A, weird guy stuff