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I used to hang out with my crush all the time. It was an equal effort, and we were constantly laughing and joking around. But when he found out that I liked him, he's kind of awkward now. I want to tell him that nothing's changed and that I still feel the same way, but that's not something I'm comfortable saying. What should I do??


His Answer: “Guys get weirded out very easily and can make things very awkward because they don’t know how else to act,” says Tyler, 15. “Also, guys get more awkward when they have to talk about feelings so it is better to show them.”

Decoded: Since guys are much more visual learners and are not huge fans of confrontation, don’t feel the needed to have a deep chat with you crush. He may just be freaked out, but it is nothing you can’t fix.


Your Move: If you are okay with being just friends, invite your crush to hang out with you and your usual group of mutual friends to show things are still the same. But, if he's still weirded out, give him some time to ease his awkwardness while you distract yourself with schoolwork, other friends or even a new crush.
 
 

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MOD I have this same problem. But I think I'm to late! One time we made eye contact in the hall, like 2 months after he found out I liked him. It was reallllyyyy awkward. Am I to late to fix things up?

 

Hey thulina, it's never too late to go after your crush. Who knows he could be feeling the same way, so give yourself another chance and see what happens! Hope this helps! Xoxo

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by thulina on 2/22/2012 8:05:43 PM

 
 

in water at a football game and stay by him tell me what you think plz and i'll try to help you if u want go to my advice queen page bdarrough98 thanx and good luck!

by bdarrough98 on 1/21/2012 4:48:16 PM

 
 

@reshegole-- sorry its been a while so mods plz hurry this, i did the same thing lol I'm be sties with my crush and i really think he likes me too but you'll never know if you don't ask. ask a friend to ask him out for you and don't be depressed if the answer is no. maybe the time wasn't right I'm still praying hoping and wishing with my whole soul my bestie feels the same to me and i hope you're in the same stich I'm gonna tell u my story and plz c if u can help and do the same for u... ok I'm just gonna do today's he chose to sit by me over another guy,let me lean on him, sat by me all day,let me kiss his cheek, text me until he got home (cause he doesn't get service at home), and i told him i missed him and he told me to play the game we played earlier to remember him... and that's just today! He also magically came over and helped me when we went iceskating when nobody saw i'd fallen and danced with me a billion times and the dance.. and made everyone scoot so i didn't have to sit

by bdarrough98 on 1/21/2012 4:46:57 PM

 
 

So I became "besties" with this guy and i kinda like him, i asked him who he likes, and he didn't tell me unless i told him. i kinda want him to know, but only if he likes me back. what should i say?

by reshegole on 1/17/2012 7:17:26 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!MOD! MOD! MOD!MOD!MOD! MOOOOODDDDDD!!
Hiya... So my crush, he's also one of my best friends. We always play fight and pick on each other. I used to get him in trouble with the teacher when we were younger and we HATED each other.He is annoying as mess, and Im usually mad at him. He knows I like him, but he doesn't really seem to care. He's also kinda 'touchy-feely' always trying to hug me(which I reject). When I told him that I liked him I told him it was going to be as awkward as HE made it. I think he really took it to heart because he acts like I never even mentioned it. I dont know if he likes me back because he's always flirting with me... When I told him my dad thought he was my BF, he said ew.I have no clue if Im too far into the friend zone to get out. He treats me like one of his guy friends. What should I do about him?
THANKS!!

 

Hmm that sounds like a hard one. He may just be hiding that he likes you too, or he really thinks ew. I would keep talking to him. Share secrets nad get him to open up. See where that gets you. xoxo kerra 


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by sushirox5678 on 1/10/2012 5:47:26 PM

 
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