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Does my bad rep make guys think less of me?


 
I'm a bit of a slut, but I'm OK with that, and so are my friends. But since this started, guys treat me differently. They flirt with me in private, but in public, nothing. Does my rep have anything to do with that?


Yes, you’re reputation has everything to do with that. Guys talk just as much as girls do, so if you hook up with one guy, chances are, lots of guys know what to expect from you. You’re setting yourself up for getting all the wrong treatment from guys, so it’s time to make some changes.


Even worse than guys thinking you’re a slut is you thinking you’re a slut and being OK with that. When you were little, did you think, “When I get older, I want guys to use me?” No, you probably wanted to be in a healthy and loving relationship, which you won’t ever get if you don’t have respect for yourself.


Start finding new things to be proud of, and think about changing your circle of friends. You should be surrounded by people who make you feel better, not by people who want to bring you down.

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Thanks for helping! My crush is in my gym class, which is a semester coarse, i dont think we have any classes together next semester and he's a 10 grader, should i just find a new crush to think about? We've talked once on facebook but that was to only ask me a question

Hey girl,

It's your call -- if you want to stay in touch, you can certainly chat on facebook, but there's no harm in checking out some new guys, too!

Meghan D.

by elevenbailey on 1/7/2012 8:48:51 AM

 
 

MODMODMOD.I just figured out on Tuesday that me and my best friend like the same guy.She's told a lot of girls in our classes and I'm okay with it because shes my best friend I ever had except for one thing. I don't want to sound mean or anything but she told the two biggest gossips in my ELA class,and one of them sits right next to the guy we like in geography.Please help me and reply.

Hey girl,

Ouch -- things can be tricky when you and a friend like the same guy. Don't be afraid to tell her that she hurt your feelings by spilling your secret and that you like to confide in her because you trust her. Check out this post for more tips on liking the same guy as a friend! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/12/02/Boy-or-bestie.aspx?cp=all

Meghan D.

by snowver11 on 1/7/2012 8:39:47 AM

 
 

Whoa, I thought this site was appropriate, my mom would NOT want me to be reading the word "slut" on a website like this, in fact, I'm not even allowed to SAY the word "slut", wow, just wow

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