I'm a bit of a slut, but I'm OK with
that, and so are my friends. But since this started, guys treat me
differently. They flirt with me in private, but in public, nothing.
Does my rep have anything to do with that?
Yes, you’re reputation has everything
to do with that. Guys talk just as much as girls do, so if you hook
up with one guy, chances are, lots of guys know what to expect from
you. You’re setting yourself up for getting all the wrong treatment
from guys, so it’s time to make some changes.
Even worse than guys thinking you’re
a slut is you thinking you’re a slut and being OK with that. When
you were little, did you think, “When I get older, I want guys to
use me?” No, you probably wanted to be in a healthy and loving
relationship, which you won’t ever get if you don’t have respect
Start finding new things to be proud
of, and think about changing your circle of friends. You should be
surrounded by people who make you feel better, not by people who want
to bring you down.
BY RACHEL NUGENT ON 1/7/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, sexuality, identity, bad habit