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Does my bad rep make guys think less of me?


 

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I'm a bit of a slut, but I'm OK with that, and so are my friends. But since this started, guys treat me differently. They flirt with me in private, but in public, nothing. Does my rep have anything to do with that?


Yes, you’re reputation has everything to do with that. Guys talk just as much as girls do, so if you hook up with one guy, chances are, lots of guys know what to expect from you. You’re setting yourself up for getting all the wrong treatment from guys, so it’s time to make some changes.


Even worse than guys thinking you’re a slut is you thinking you’re a slut and being OK with that. When you were little, did you think, “When I get older, I want guys to use me?” No, you probably wanted to be in a healthy and loving relationship, which you won’t ever get if you don’t have respect for yourself.


Start finding new things to be proud of, and think about changing your circle of friends. You should be surrounded by people who make you feel better, not by people who want to bring you down.

BY RACHEL NUGENT ON 1/7/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, sexuality, identity, bad habit

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Ok so one of my best guy friends,i don't have any girls who i am really friends with, he asked for a pic of me in my thong or bra i told him no. So he went and told all his friends. Should i just send a pic so it will clear things over with him? I need help respond please!!!

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by caroline;* on 2/10/2012 6:14:45 PM

 
 

theres this girl in my grade whos been called a slut and it really bothers her but she also cant help who she is and she deffinetley isnt changing anytime soon so reallly all i have to say is that if ur going to act like that around guys u have to be able to pay the price

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by kpecina65 on 2/9/2012 4:10:04 PM

 
 

no offense, but u shudnt b "ok" with being a slut

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by girlsjustwannahavefun333 on 1/31/2012 5:57:23 PM

 
 

I hate how guys can act all horny and be rewarded for being a "man" but if girls dress provocatively or act promiscuous they are labeled sluts. It's a double standard and it's just wrong. And to answer this question, First of all don't think of yourself as a slut. Second of all, If you like a guy, try to channel your attention to him and only him.

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by earthyartist on 1/18/2012 8:21:06 PM

 
 

My friend thought she was pregnant once...... She wasn't though ......Smile

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by favcolorgreen on 1/18/2012 5:21:52 PM

 
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