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I'm a bit of a slut, but I'm OK with that, and so are my friends. But since this started, guys treat me differently. They flirt with me in private, but in public, nothing. Does my rep have anything to do with that?


Yes, you’re reputation has everything to do with that. Guys talk just as much as girls do, so if you hook up with one guy, chances are, lots of guys know what to expect from you. You’re setting yourself up for getting all the wrong treatment from guys, so it’s time to make some changes.


Even worse than guys thinking you’re a slut is you thinking you’re a slut and being OK with that. When you were little, did you think, “When I get older, I want guys to use me?” No, you probably wanted to be in a healthy and loving relationship, which you won’t ever get if you don’t have respect for yourself.


Start finding new things to be proud of, and think about changing your circle of friends. You should be surrounded by people who make you feel better, not by people who want to bring you down.

BY RACHEL NUGENT ON 1/7/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, sexuality, identity, bad habit

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You can do what you want but if you want to change your image just be a slut with one guy and not a bunch of them. We are looked at differently than guys, they can sleep around but if we do we are labeled slutty. Thats the way it is so if you want to change, think about being with just one guy you like and not a bunch.

We all have friends like you, and we have heard about the talk shows that have had teens on who are doing things with multiple guys, so if you dont want to be like that then just make that decision. I know its hard, I have a cousin who is kind of like you. She tells me she wants to stop but she cant, I think you can stop if you really want to.

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by luckykel on 1/7/2012 7:59:53 PM

 
 

It said you made your reputation like that.... Don't be okay with that. Guys shouldn't blow you off... You need to not only change your image but your confidence and how you think of different things. Respect yourself.

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by amileofroses on 1/7/2012 7:00:00 PM

 
 

@nosynewt The photograph pertains to the subject, so it makes sense. And this is pretty awesome advice.

Join my club, 'Orchestra Nerds and Band Geek.' It's a loose and fun club where we talk about anything and everything- But especially music Smile Go to my profile to join!! svds

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by svds on 1/7/2012 6:49:19 PM

 
 

I agree with nosynewt. Find a different pic!!!

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by DaNcInGQu33N9812 on 1/7/2012 6:47:21 PM

 
 

um, hello? OF COURSE it has something to do with it!!!! No guy want's to be seen with a slut. Sorry, gotta face da facts

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by DaNcInGQu33N9812 on 1/7/2012 6:42:33 PM

 
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