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I'm a bit of a slut, but I'm OK with that, and so are my friends. But since this started, guys treat me differently. They flirt with me in private, but in public, nothing. Does my rep have anything to do with that?


Yes, you’re reputation has everything to do with that. Guys talk just as much as girls do, so if you hook up with one guy, chances are, lots of guys know what to expect from you. You’re setting yourself up for getting all the wrong treatment from guys, so it’s time to make some changes.


Even worse than guys thinking you’re a slut is you thinking you’re a slut and being OK with that. When you were little, did you think, “When I get older, I want guys to use me?” No, you probably wanted to be in a healthy and loving relationship, which you won’t ever get if you don’t have respect for yourself.


Start finding new things to be proud of, and think about changing your circle of friends. You should be surrounded by people who make you feel better, not by people who want to bring you down.

BY RACHEL NUGENT ON 1/7/2012 12:00:00 AM

POSTED IN guys, GL's best guy advice, how to get a BF, sexuality, identity, bad habit

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Okay,I need to talk to you,as a friend. There is nothing good about being a slut,or being OK about being one. Honey,guys will now just use you because they know that they can um,play you with no problem. Also,I'm sorry but it's kind of obvious that some guys think of you. I think you shouldn't sell yourself short like that. I'm wishing the best for you,and I'll pray for you also♥

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by iluvmusic♥ on 1/7/2012 6:39:23 PM

 
 

maybe you could try something different like maybe not girly girl or tom boy but somehting rigght in the middleSmile

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by miamac01 on 1/7/2012 5:25:13 PM

 
 

Hang in there, girl! I'm sure this ISN'T the kind of reputation you want to have as you go into high-school and beyond, as you want to start getting serious with boys and all they want to go is hook up, so it's never too late for a new beginning! And 2012; year of the dragon is DEFINITELY the year to start(:
I am honestly praying for you.<3

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by Malgal22 on 1/7/2012 4:44:33 PM

 
 

"when i get older, i want guys to use me!!"
^^^^^ SEEMS LEGIT

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by jennifer0709 on 1/7/2012 4:19:36 PM

 
 

Huh... She calls herself a slut, but doesn't understand why guys think less of her... Also, I feel like the photo is extremely inappropriate for a site called GIRLSlife.com (Hint on GIRLS) I suggest you take this down...

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by nosynewt on 1/7/2012 4:16:28 PM

 
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