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Does my bad rep make guys think less of me?

Yes, you’re reputation has everything to do with that. Guys talk just as much as girls do, so if you hook up with one guy, chances are, lots of guys know what to expect from you. You’re setting yourself up for getting all the wrong treatment from guys, so it’s time to make some changes.

Even worse than guys thinking you’re a slut is you thinking you’re a slut and being OK with that. When you were little, did you think, “When I get older, I want guys to use me?” No, you probably wanted to be in a healthy and loving relationship, which you won’t ever get if you don’t have respect for yourself.

Start finding new things to be proud of, and think about changing your circle of friends. You should be surrounded by people who make you feel better, not by people who want to bring you down.

BY RACHEL NUGENT ON 1/7/2012 12:00:00 AM

Hey FigureSkater08, yeah I think he was just nervous too. Not all guys are confident in making the first move and talking to girls. So you'll probably have to start some of the action with this guy girl. Maybe next time you can go up to him. Hope this helps!! Xoxo

MOD MOD! yesterday the friend of the guy I like said the guy I like is having his bday party tonight and we shud ding dong ditch him so I said ok! And then me my two friends my brother and his friends drove to his house and they were outside playin ball so my brother nd his friends went up to them and they started talkin and the guys ended thinking my brother was cool and then me nd my friends walked out there too but the guy I like and his other friend were kinda standing off to the side just watching us and I was wondering y he didnt come over to us and my mom said she thinks it's bc he might have been nervous to come over to us bc my brother was at this school event w his gf and he was nervous to talk to her. Why do u think he might have just stood there and he didn't look mad he was just kinda there but he was like walkin w us but n the backish help pleasee! Thank u! Lynae P.

oh and i forgot to warn u that u might catch something from that ;)

by jennifer0709 on 1/7/2012 4:14:31 PM

oh yeah because being a slut is totally cool. *sarcasm*
self respect; u have none
u did this to urself

by jennifer0709 on 1/7/2012 4:13:25 PM

Wow. Why would you be proud of being a slut? Girls these days....

by biffo on 1/7/2012 3:30:38 PM

by FigureSkater08 on 1/7/2012 1:33:31 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD
So there's this guy that I've like for a while. The other day, he was texting my friend and he asked her if he should ask me to the Spring Formal which is like 5 months away. Naturally, I got super excited. But then yesterday, my friend asked him why he wanted to go with me. Like if he liked me or what, and he wouldn't look at her and mumbled" well she doesn't talk to much guys(which totally isn't true) and I don't talk to much girls(which isn't true either) so I didn't think either of us would get a date, so I figured I'd just ask her". That made me pretty upset, but my friend thinks that he was just being shy about liking me. Do you think he actually does like me and is just shy?

Hey girl,

There's no real way to know if he likes you without asking him, but if you like him, why not go to the formal together and see how things go? You might have fun!

Meghan D.

by crazydreamer16 on 1/7/2012 11:44:56 AM

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Does my bad rep make guys think less of me?

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