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There is this really sweet, funny, and cute guy who I kind of like. I think he may like me back. Sometimes though he acts immature. Should I look for a different guy or take a chance on him?

You’ve probably heard that boys mature more slowly than girls, and it couldn’t be truer. At this age, it’s tough to find guys that aren’t immature, but before you date one, you have to ask yourself how much you can take.

If you can deal with his immaturity and laugh at his sense of humor, then you should totally go for it. Lots of guys who act immature in public are just putting on a front for their friends, so he might be a different person when it’s just the two of you. But don’t expect him to automatically turn into Prince Charming. If you’re gonna give him a chance, you have to accept him for who he is.

On the other hand, if you think his immaturity is too annoying to handle, but you date him anyway, you’ll end up resenting him more than you like him. So figure out if it’s worth it to you, and then decide if you want to date him.

BY RACHEL NUGENT ON 12/24/2011 12:00:00 AM

Hey SnowBoarders88, yeah he defintely likes you. Just start a convo about anything, maybe about the dance or class you're in. Being friendly and calm will show him you don't freak out. Hope this helps! Xoxo

MOD MOD!! Theres a guy i lyk nd my friend said tht when they were n class they were talking abt 8th grade banquet last friday nd they askd him who he was gonna take nd he sed me! He thinks i freak out when hes around me or when he talks to me which i dont but idk maybe he thinks freaking is different then what i think?? But i mean if u say you want to take someone to banquet does tht mean u like them? Thts also the second time hes sed he wants to take me,one of his guy friends told me he sed that a few months ago. I have a rlly hard time tryin to tlk to him because im really shy nd quiet nd we got a new seating arrangement and in science i sit at his table nd i really want to talk to him to show him i dont freak out. Plus when we got moved to the new table he was smilin nd lookin at his friend nd then he sed hey to me nd i sed hey me nd i sed hey.So duz he like me? Wht shud i say to him n science and sho him i dont freak out? Help please!! Lynae P.

If your friends think he's immature, ignore them.If you think his immaturity is over the top, get over him and move on. If you think his goofy-ness is just plain adorkable, keep crushingand hoping that he'll like you someday, somehow.

by GlitterHearts on 5/5/2012 2:03:48 AM

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Ok, so theres this guy i like in my class. I think he likes me. So my friend told him that i like him and shes trying to get him to ask me out, but she also likes him too... Then a lot of my other friends say "its soooo obvious he likes you..." and hes so sweet and funny and cute (which is a bonus ;)) but IDK what to do..... Please help!!!!!!!!!!!
<3, Mypeeps112

Hey girl,

I think I'd try to get someone to help you who DOESN'T also have a crush on the guy! That's a recipe for disaster Keep trying to talk to him, joke around, compliment him, tease him a little...basically, flirt and give him the chance to flirt back. The closer you grow to him, the more likely it'll be that he asks you out

Lauren C.

by mypeeps112 on 1/27/2012 9:56:56 PM

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by gracieb123 on 1/13/2012 10:44:59 PM

by SnowBoarder88 on 1/11/2012 8:11:13 PM

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Okay... so with valentine day coming up i really wanted my crush (riley) to talk me more than a friend. We used to chat all the time but he got "in trouble" and had to sit by himself. Any way riley and i could get some time to talk???
P.S. I was think of making some cookies to give to people and I could offer him some maybe. :0 I'm lost...

Hey girly,

I think that the idea to give him cookies is a great one! Good Luck!

Catie C.

by madisonk714 on 1/3/2012 4:18:03 PM

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