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Is my crush too immature?


 
There is this really sweet, funny, and cute guy who I kind of like. I think he may like me back. Sometimes though he acts immature. Should I look for a different guy or take a chance on him?


You’ve probably heard that boys mature more slowly than girls, and it couldn’t be truer. At this age, it’s tough to find guys that aren’t immature, but before you date one, you have to ask yourself how much you can take.


If you can deal with his immaturity and laugh at his sense of humor, then you should totally go for it. Lots of guys who act immature in public are just putting on a front for their friends, so he might be a different person when it’s just the two of you. But don’t expect him to automatically turn into Prince Charming. If you’re gonna give him a chance, you have to accept him for who he is.


On the other hand, if you think his immaturity is too annoying to handle, but you date him anyway, you’ll end up resenting him more than you like him. So figure out if it’s worth it to you, and then decide if you want to date him.
 
 

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Hey madelinej8, start texting him. If you text him, he'll being texting you back. Hope this helps!! Xoxo



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ok, so ive recently got to know a guy from another school. he and his friend broke my friends heart over the summer, and she still kinda likes him. hes a MAJOR flirt and a bit of a player, and he likes one of my friends. he frted with me and everything even though he has never eve met me when we text..... i dont have feelings for him and ive liked this guy at my school for over a year now, and i think he likes me too. but i cant get him to even text me. and i want to have a relationship.... what do i do? Lynae P.

by madelinej8 on 12/31/2011 6:33:36 PM

 
 



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How do I get rid of my crush? The guy I like has a girlfriend, and I NEED to get rid of my crush, it's too big. And I think of not having a crush on him and it kind of breaks my heart. It's like accepting that I have no chance with him, which I don't... He makes me so happy just seeing and talking to him, I kind of think I'll get REALLY sad if I don't like him, he's completely perfect for me. No, he isn't, he has a girlfriend. I have had this crush for way too long and I need to forget about it. Please tell me how to, I really need help!
Thank you so much if you help.




Hey girlie,

Instead of trying to talk yourself out of crushing on him, work on branching out and having new life experiences. Join a new club or sport, take up a new hobby, hang out new places with your friends, talk to new people and even give old classmates another chance. Surround yourself with people you love who make you laugh. Exercise daily and make better choices with your food (healthy snacks, well-balanced meals, skip the junk food, etc.). Keep an open mind and take chances to broaden your horizons - you'll feel happier, more productive, and will even have the chance to find new guys (and new potential crushes). <3 You can do this!!
Lauren C.

by caseyf13 on 12/31/2011 12:47:28 AM

 
 



MODMODMOD i really like this guy that i have in three of my classes but i have to problems 1) i have no clue if he likes me and2)sometimes he can be really sexist. should i just forget about him?




Hey girlie,

You're going off assumptions and reputation right now, so personally I'd try to get to know him a little better before you give up totally! Try talking to him and see how he treats you. If there are major moral differences between you and him (basically, if you don't feel respected), it's probably not worth pursuing. But he could turn out to be a great guy that makes you feel really happy! He deserves at least one chance Smile 
Lauren C.

by oneoftheodd on 12/30/2011 9:49:11 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! two of my close friends just started dating which is great because im really happy for them and they make a really cute couple. the problem is that well, one of them (lets call her M), never stops talking about him ever. when i hangout with them, i just feel like a third wheel and i feel like im losing two great friends. plus, when im hanging out with M without her boyfriend, all she does is text him. i was fine with it at first, but it has been almost two months and im kinda tired of talking about THEM, all the time. its just weird for me because im a third wheel and i can't talk to them because all they do is hug. -for hours. PLZ HELP!!! i don't know what to do!!!




Hey girlie,

Even though two months sounds like forever for you, their relationship is still in that "new" phase. They're still all lovey-dovey because everything feels new and exciting for them! Try to understand that and be happy for them...as much as you can, anyway. Then, try to hang out with them one-on-one instead of always together. Or have a girls night out with M and your other gals - out to the movies and diner, NO boys allowed! This will give you time to reconnect with her without having him hanging all over her. Let her talk about him a little, then change the subject of the convo to other things, like sports, movies, celebs, your crush, etc. It's all about balance and reminding her that, sometimes, a little time away from him will be healthy! Smile 
Lauren C.

by gigglegirlcorky on 12/29/2011 9:43:33 PM

 
 

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So recently, I just stopped liking a guy, cuz, well, he wasnt worth it. But EVERYBODY knew i liked him, and many people still do. But there was a guy before that...lets name him Tyler...who i had liked for a long time, then stopped. One of my newer close friends liked Tyler while i liked the other guy, and now that i dont like the other guy anymore (which got around school) Tyler figured out because he is one of my old crushes' best friends that i dont like him, and has been flirting with me, so i kinda like him again. But i cant tell my friend because honestly, she is OBSESSED with tyler and has her heart set on the fact that they are soulmates...Tyler has never even looked her way....I dont know what to do when she brings him up, and tries to get me to help her figure out who he likes....WHAT DO I DO?




I think the next time she asks you to help her find who he likes you should break it to her that tyler most likely likes you. See how she reacts. If shes super upset, then you shouldnt do anything with tyler. that will just break her heart. Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by nerdsrock427 on 12/25/2011 7:20:32 PM

 
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