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For about five months I had a thing with a guy from a different school, and we were going out because of the difference in schools. One night I wrote on his Facebook wall that I miss him. Another girl commented, "What the heck..." So I immediately knew what was going on. He messaged me a couple minutes later and asked if I was mad. I said yeah, and he was like, "About?" So I said, "I'll let you figure that out". He hasn't talked to me in a couple weeks after that. One night, my friend called me and put him on the phone and he kept saying he missed me and asked how I was. He still didn't realize that I was mad that he was playing me for 5 months. That same night, my friend was the first to tell me that he had a girlfriend.
 
 
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I know the feeling. I've had this happen wayy too many times before.
One time I liked this guy, Jake. And he was one of my very best friends. I'd known him for a long time, and we basically told each other EVERYTHING. And he texted me ALOT. And he was really sweetSmile He always said stuff like "I love you so much, beautiful." and "you are so amazing. Youre my favorite girl in the world" He flirted ALL the time with me. I thought he liked me. I had no idea until one of HIS guy friends called me and said "I don't want you to get your heart broken. Jake has a girlfriend. I thought you should know before you guys got serious with your relationship." I was so mad!! He ever even told me he had a girlfriend. CHEATER. PLAYER. JERK. Frown

Anyways. Sorry this happened to you, too, girl!

by PLL86 on 7/12/2012 9:25:04 PM

 
 

i would've ditched him then told his girlfriend 2 do the same

by shana399 on 3/16/2012 4:23:45 PM

 
 

guys are idiots...i think we can all agree that that guys was a complete idiot!

by pink10167811 on 3/12/2012 7:12:52 PM

 
 

he didn't know wat was going on, wow u deserve better girly

by doglover463 on 3/2/2012 11:34:49 PM

 
 

All I have is one word...P-L-A-Y-E-R!!!!!!!!=( I am so sorry for you girl. The best thing you can do is tell him good-bye & move on.

by LouLou Monkey on 2/1/2012 7:49:08 PM

 
 

You should've picked a better bf. ur fault....

by angelicjade on 1/10/2012 4:33:52 PM

 
 

So rude! At least you didn't come back.

by iluvmusic♥ on 1/5/2012 3:00:23 PM

 
 

That's soooo mean!

by hermione&ron on 12/30/2011 11:12:27 AM

 
 

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okay well i dont know if this guy is playing me or just scared to say he likes me. well me and this guy are really good friends and i really like him and everybody (including me) thinks he likes me! well one day someone asked him if he liked me and he said no. i'm confused. he was really leading me on. and hes always around me when he can be! so what does this mean??!? thanks




Hey Doll,

I don't know the specifics, so I'm not 100 percent sure, but it sounds like he is just scared. But do you really want to be with a guy who is scared to tell people he likes you? Think about talking to him to get the real story, but there's a chance he could be just a jerk who is leading you on. Proceed with caution! 
Rachel N.

by RedZebraCakes on 12/28/2011 3:01:28 PM

 
 



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I liked this guy for like 3 months already but found out he had a girlfriend AND a crush, but none of them is me. His crush is a girl and he hangs out with her and her best friend at school and this girl told him that i liked him. He still acts very normally around me and I dont think he likes me.
Yesterday i texted him 'I told your crush you're madly in love with her!' and 'arent you freakin out coz she knows?' and 'whats the first message i sent u? wat did it say?' but all his replies were: 'wat?' and then he never answered the last question. Im totally broken because it seems like he thinks im a pest. WHAT DO I DO NOW????? Tell him im sorry for telling his crush that he was madly in love or what? Frown Frown Frown




Hey girlie,

I think I would let this one go. Since he acted kinda awkward when you texted him and he hasn't shown any signs of crushing on you, it's not worth contacting him again so soon and freaking him out. You'll totally seem like you're coming on too strong! Instead, try to give it some time. Focus on other things, surround yourself with friends, and keep an open mind to other potential crushes Smile Then after some time passes, you could always get in touch with him to catch up. But you don't wanna overdo it...you'd rather things be friendly (even if he doesn't like ya back) than push him away, right? Smile
Lauren C.

by xxglitterxx on 12/23/2011 11:20:33 PM

 
 

Wow! I agree with fungirl123...

by caligirl99 on 12/23/2011 6:32:58 PM

 
 

my boyfriend goes to a different school. hope it works out, so wish me luck!

by filaluvva on 12/23/2011 5:07:56 PM

 
 

well i like this guy and he's my friend my friend asked me if he liked me he said yes but he doesnt now me. At my class party for christmas he was hanging out with me the whole time my friend told me he was tring to know me but he also likes this other girl and she is a slut she'd say yes to who ever asks her out and i think that he nows i like him because he was acting wierd i want to ask him out but what if he likes the other girl more i dont know what to do HELP MEEEEEE

by meme_flower13 on 12/23/2011 12:38:34 PM

 
 

That cuts deep but hey we all have to go through some kind of insane heart break sometime in out lives. But the world gets better after that. It always will.

by star53 on 12/23/2011 9:31:01 AM

 
 

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My bgf/sorta bf died of carbon monoxide poisoning last year. We were super close and liked eachother a whole lot and even kissed a few times. But i can't get over him. It makes me sad to think about how we were perfect for eachother but now i will never get the chance. Please help.




Hey girly! Unfortunately there is nothing that you can do to change what happened in the past, but to help get over him and move on, try remembering him in a good way but as a friend and as a part of your past.  
Ana D.

by Pinklife on 12/23/2011 3:06:44 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!! Well theres is a really cute guy who im kinda friends with and i really like him...but the prob is he likes one of my close friends ALOT! Hes liked her for 3 years and asked her out but she says no. I like him alot and i want him to notice me more. So what im asking is... i need some really good flirting techniques for this guy to notice me!!!!!! Do you think i should even go for him????? PLEASE HELP ME!! <3




Hey girl,

Of course you should go for him! You should at least try Smile Since you already know he likes someone else (or at least he liked her in the past), try getting to know him better as friends first. Grow closer by talking, chatting online, studying together/asking homework questions, going to basketball games together, etc. Become friends first - then try flirting more. That way, you'll know him better and will be able to observe his actions...and interpret what they mean about his feelings <3 Plus, you'll let him get to know you better - which might help him see that you're totally crush worthy!
Lauren C.

by paramoregurl on 12/23/2011 12:47:22 AM

 
 

Ouch. What a jerk. Sorry you had to go though that.


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by Malgal22 on 12/23/2011 12:27:50 AM

 
 

No offense but, I don't think this comment's very nice to 7th graders who need/seek knowledge and 9th graders who have fresh experience and wisdom to share with people. It's kinda excluding.:-(.

by lavlo on 12/22/2011 11:20:09 PM

 
 



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i like this guy but hes mean to me... sometimes the other day i asked him i was like do you hate me? and he was like more then i like you... and i was like on a scale of 1-10 how much do u hate me and he said 10 hes nice to everyone else though! like so nice he got an award from our principal! only one kid in each grade gets one! my friends think he likes me ? because hes mean to me and another girl but when hes mean to me he always smiles and laughs but when hes mean to another girl he glares and you can actually tell he hates her.. and i used to express myself around guys by being mean to them, ive grown out of that now but maybe ha hasnt? please tell me what you think!




Hey girlie,

Well, guys do mature slower than girls do.... so it's really possible! Teasing, mean comments, and "hating" on a girl could be mean-spirited bullying, but it could also be a sign of a crush. Guys have a weird way of showing their crushes (or maybe they do this because they're uncomfy with admitting their crush) - who knows why they do it. But it's definitely possible that he's doing this because he likes you. The only way to know for sure (or at least be a little more certain) is to get to know him better, talk more, and grow closer as friends. You could even be the opposite - suuuuper, sugary nice to him. Or dish the teasing right back at him with playful insults or jokes. Make him laugh! Smile
Lauren C.

by mckey101 on 12/22/2011 10:20:04 PM

 
 



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hey can you help me out? So for the last two years I have liked this guy. At one point we were somewhat close, well we were decent friends. Anyway, I really like him, and I am pretty sure that at some point he has liked me. Now we are barley friends. We talk somewhat, but it is different. I feel like we had something going for us, but I think I messed it up. I don't know what to do. I know I need to move on, but I can't, I don't know what to do. Can you help me? Thanks. P.S. happy holidays!




Hey girlie,

I think it would probably help to give it ONE last try before telling yourself to move on. You've drifted apart, which is totally natural and happens to lots of people - friends, crushes, etc. - over time. It's no one's fault! Try messaging him online or sending a text saying something like, "Hey! It's been forever, how are you?" See if you can catch up a little bit...then, if you can, don't let this new contact go to waste! Try to stay in touch a couple times a week. As time passes, you can talk more and more. Then see what happens from there! If things don't quite work out like this though, at least you know you tried to rekindle that crush and it just didn't work out. You won't ever have to wonder "What if...?" because you'll know you took that chance - which is satisfying in itself and something you should be proud of Smile Some things just aren't meant to be, so you'll be able to put this behind you and be excited about what's to come <3
Lauren C.

by sgn_dancer on 12/22/2011 9:55:41 PM

 
 

wow that guy is dumb

by basketballcutie11 on 12/22/2011 9:19:51 PM

 
 

Wait... He actually didn't know what was wrong?! What a jerk!

by kayla9 on 12/22/2011 9:14:47 PM

 
 



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What is something cute to get my two friends for christmas? we are hanging out tomorrow and will prob exchange gifts. its has to be cheap since i will be paying for it. my mom said that she could go shopping while im at school for it tomorrow but i need to find something tonight. it needs to be special because these two are my bffls.
Thanks and happy holidays!




Hey girlie,

Try some of these ideas! I think you'll find something that totally works!

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/12/10/5-best-buys-for-a-bookworm-bestie.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/12/01/Tricks-for-picking-out-perfect-presents.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/12/09/Gifts-that-give-back-round-1.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/12/09/Gifts-that-give-back-round-2.aspx 
Lauren C.

by rosietoes4ever on 12/22/2011 8:59:13 PM

 
 



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well my BF said he was gonna kiss me tomorrow and now i am really nervous about it. what can i do to help me calm down? and what if i am a bad kisser? im kinda freaking out
Thanks Smile




Hey girlie,

This is the BEST kissing guide we have on GL.com - definitely read up  Smile And don't forget to relax!
Lauren C.

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by ButterflyGirl18 on 12/22/2011 8:32:16 PM

 
 

Good for you for not telling him what was wrong, you shouldn't have had to.

Join my club, 'Orchestra Nerds and Band Geeks.' It's a loose and fun club where we talk about anything and everything- But especially music Smile Go to my profile to join!! svds

by svds on 12/22/2011 8:19:56 PM

 
 

That is SO mean...sorta reminds me of my ex crush lol Honestly there should be a picture of this guy I used to like right next to the word JERK in the dictionary. Soo we've all fallen for some losers in our lives right? But at least we can learn from our mistakes and figure out a way to get on the right path before going to far down the wrong one (like I did for the past couple years).

Wow I have a million storys about him I could write in as Meanies lol
Good guys to exist tho...they are just very VERY hard to find and take a lot of time and patience.

by maggie183 on 12/22/2011 7:39:52 PM

 
 

I wonder if he ACTUALLY THOUGHT that he wasn't doing anything wrong.

by christineah111 on 12/22/2011 7:39:34 PM

 
 

wow! He's a player you deserve better girl! :p

by kaylarocks2000 on 12/22/2011 6:36:13 PM

 
 

Really...he didn't know what was wrong? You go girl!

by amileofroses on 12/22/2011 5:49:43 PM

 
 

you dont deserve him at all! you deserve way better.

by volley_ball2341 on 12/22/2011 5:48:26 PM

 
 

I've never heard a story about such a dumb dude! Smile

by fungirl123 on 12/22/2011 5:38:38 PM

 
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