Looking to snag your crush in the new year? Not quite getting
the attention of that boy across the room? For you girlies with
a New Year's resolution to hone your flirting skills, we've put
together a list of six no-fail tips. The best part? These are the
rules that generally slip your mind.
He's just as shy as you
are. Walking up and starting convo or making a move
on a girl is a real feat for him. By not always forcing him to
be the one to do those things, you automatically stand out from all of
the rest.
It's all in the body language. The majority of your
flirting masterpieces are things you aren't even aware of. When
you're genuinely interested in somebody, your body reacts differently
on it's own. Oddly enough, his body will pick up on these
signals and react the same way if he's into you as well. Next
time you see yourself leaning toward him or facing him all the time,
just let it happen, chica.
Never close off. There's no bigger stop sign for a boy
than when you clam up and shut down. So, those things you do instinctively, like crossing your arms, turning your body away, or not
speaking much, are taking you out of the game before you could even
cross the starting line.
Work with what you've got. Each girl has a different style to
work with. Some of us can really pull off the coy thing, or the
best friend thing. Or maybe you're an outgoing flirt or a subtle
flirt. Find out what style you do best and master it.
Keep the ball rolling. Flirting is like ping pong game. It's all about the back and forth. You can't have a good game if
he's not into it, just like he can't really play without you volleying
some moves back at him.
Eye contact. Eye contact is the number one most important rule
for grabbing the eye of that special boy. It's enough to spark
some intrigue when he catches you holding his gaze from a few seats
away. It's enough to get him to lean in for the kiss when you're
finally alone. Holding a few seconds of eye contact shows your
interest better than anything else. Just don't let it go on for
more the four or five seconds, or else he'll start to wonder if he has
something in his teeth.
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BY JORDAN SARNOVSKY ON 1/1/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN holiday, new year's, guys, how to get a BF, how to flirt, crush crash course, get his attention now