Okay, so I have a
boyfriend and he's AMAZING when he's not around this girl in my grade
who's rather flirty. She won't leave him alone and always flirts but
if I go anywhere near my boyfriend, she casually "walks away"
but when it's just me and him, he's totally fine and sweet. What's
going on?
Uh-oh, chica. Sounds like this girl is starting to encroach on your
man. As for right now, she's definitely towing the line between "okay" and "not cool."
Is your boyfriend actually doing anything wrong? Or is it all
this girl's doing? Is it harmless flirting? Or is it serious
macking on your man flirting? There are a lot of little factors that
are just as important in finding out what's going down here.
Either way, you're going to need to have a face-to-face chat with
somebody. If you're boyfriend is an active participant in all of
the flirtatiousness, then he needs to own up to it. Let him know
that it makes you uncomfortable. If he's a good BF worth keeping
around and there's really nothing suspicious happening behind your
back, then he'll understand without making a fuss.
On the other hand, if he's not the real problem, and instead it's
simply this chick getting involved where she doesn't belong, then
you've gotta' go right to the source. Pull her aside next time
you see her and let her know that you have no problem with her being
friends with your boy, but you'd really appreciate it if she'd step
back a bit with the flirting.
BY JORDAN SARNOVSKY ON 1/8/2012 12:00:00 AM
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