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Do guys only care about chest size?

 
 

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Why are guys so fascinated with breasts? How does a less-developed girl get a guy’s attention?
 
Bill: Specific female body parts can be merely attention-grabbing objects to fuel our misguided macho desires. Sooner or later, most guys realize breasts don’t make the girl, and they eventually learn to appreciate other amazing features. A girl who is less developed physically doesn’t need to do anything to get a guy’s attention – she needs to find more mentally developed guys.
 
Dave: The girl a guy ogles may not be the girl a guy wants to date. Too much pressure! A girl who shows some interest in me is going to fascinate me (in real life) a lot more than a Baywatch babe who wants to hang out with a rock star. Show some interest – that attracts most guys who are worth attracting.
 
 
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Trust me girl, you do not want a large chest. I'm 34c/d and it sucks! I feel like a walking sex object and its horrible! Guys look down my shirt when I speak to them and I wear baggy shirts and shapeless and not-so-cute things to draw the attention away, but it's really traumatic. I'm only in eighth grade and its disgusting. And girls like me- it's not your fault! It's the Media's fault for creating this image of women being just beauty objects and it shouldn't be our problem at our age to try and close of our objectification. It makes me so angry! Frown(

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by Lolzy8484 on 4/17/2013 1:13:21 PM

 
 




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SO there is this dude who started flirting with me the first day we met and of course I flirted back. So now we talk almost everyday and I sorta grew feelings for him BUT he has a girlfriend and now I feel bad for flirting with him because his girlfriend seems nice. How do I cut out the flirting?

 

 Hey iloverds_143, just keep thinking of his girlfriend. Tell him you can't talk with him (unless it's as a friend) until he's single. If he is a faithful boyfriend he should understand that. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile


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by ilove_nerds143 on 4/16/2013 5:33:38 PM

 
 



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So this guy zack and I use to like each other a lot, we never dated we just flirted and well the relationship just never worked out. He got a girl friend and for a while he would pretend or play like he liked me and me being a dummy fell for it. When I finally got over him we went our separate ways and never did talk any more. Recently I have started dating his best friend and I can tell something's bothering zack. At times I'll catch him staring at me but its not like a flirty glance more like an upset or disappointed look. Which I don't understand because he was over me! And he played me!! What's the deal?? This the 1st time I've dated someone, so could he now realize what he had but then lost, especially to his best friend who he is not as close to anymore? Sorry it's so long but thanks!!

Hey girl, if you're dating someone else, then why worry about an old crush?  He might feel bummed that he missed his opportunity to ask you out, but you can't be sure.  If you're happy with your current BF, then focus on the present.  Good luck! 


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by Reba22:22 on 4/16/2013 3:47:22 PM

 
 



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I'm not tying to brag but a LOT of guys stare at but I'm so shy and awkward that I usually look the other way but the thing is that the guys who are starring are usually older
like 18 21 maybe sometimes even 30 and 50 year olds I'm 15 but I look older still
30 and 50 year old men should not be starring at me that's so gross
one time at old navy there was this guy working at the cashier
I'll admit he was cute but he was older maybe in
his early twenties it seemed like he was flirting with me he kept
smirking and whispering things what should I do? it's so awkward having old men gawk at you

Hey girl, hold your head high and walk confidently.  If you're directly speaking with someone, look them in the eye which should remind them not to be looking elsewhere.  Do your best to ignore their unwanted stares.  Good luck, chica. 


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by redvelvetluv on 4/16/2013 9:50:33 AM

 
 



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Hey! I know I probably asked this once (I can't remember which article I was on). Well, my boyfriend had apendicitis, and he had surgery on Sunday night/Monday morning. They released him from the hospital last night at 6:00. I was very scared. I cried myself to sleep after his mama told me what was happenning. Well, after we had texted for a little while, I decided that I was going to surprise him with candy, a card, and a baloon. I'm going to give it to him this afternooon. I'm kinda clueless on what to say to his parents. I know I'm going to thank his mom, but what do I say to his sisters and his dad? If it helps, I haven't had the chance to meet his family yet... Sorry it's so long! Thanks for your help!

Hey girl, all you have to do is look them in the eye and say that it's nice to meet them.  A nice handshake and saying "hi, my name is..." would be great too.  All you have to do is be polite and friendly, and they'll love ya.  Good luck! 


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