I’ve
been with my boyfriend for almost a year, but I’m just not that
into our relationship anymore. Should I see if things get better
since we’ve been together for so long, or just break up with him?
Hey
girl! If you’re not into your relationship, there’s no reason to
stay in it. You’re still super young, and you’ll have the chance
to meet tons more guys down the road. Plus, if you end things with
your BF on a good note, there’s still a chance you can get back
together again later.
Since
it seems like you two get along pretty well but you’re not sure if
you’re interested in him romantically anymore, there’s no harm in
staying friends with him after the breakup, as long as he’s okay
with that. If you both decide you want to get back together, you’ll
still have that option, and if not, you won’t have lost someone you
were so close with.
You
don’t have to jump back into the dating pool right away since you
were together for so long, but there’s no harm in scoping out some
new guys, either! Without a relationship, you’ll probably have a
lot more time to spend with your friends, both girls and guys, so if
that leads to a new cutie, go for it! Otherwise, enjoy the single
life, and romance will work itself out when you’re ready for a
relationship.
BY MEGHAN DEMARIA ON 1/15/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, dealing with a breakup, ex boyfriend Q & A