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My crush thinks I'm annoying!


 
 
Hey girl! Did he tell you that he thinks you’re annoying? If he did, ouch! Are you sure you want to be with someone who says blunt, unkind things like that? Of course, there’s also the very slight possibility that he said you were annoying because he does like you – the way that you would tease someone so they won’t know you’ve got a crush. But if it seemed like he said that in a mean way, not a playful one, he isn't worth your time.
 
If he didn’t say that, but he’s giving you the impression that you’re bothering him, why not give him some space? That way, if he does like you, he’ll realize that he misses your company and wants to spend more time with you.
 
And if he doesn’t come back and want to hang out again after you’ve spent some time apart, well, you may want to consider some other options. You’re still young, so don’t sweat it if one guy isn’t into you, because there will be tons of others to come your way! It’s his loss, and it’s not your fault if he doesn’t see how amazing you are.

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MOD MOD MOD !! My Cursh/Ex-Boyfriend Lets Call Him ( D ) Always Flirts With Me ... Like In A Foolish Way By Bugging Me... And We Are Friends Even Through We Broke Up But Now There's A Rumor Going around saying I Still Like Him .. He Asked Me If Its true and ever since he has been very nice to me !? Idk If He Likes Me Still or not...( The Reason We Sorta Broke Up Was Because It was Uncomfortable Like I Couldn't be myself Because we were Forced into dating ) Now I Miss Him Alot And I Don't Know if i should tell him i like him or stay on friends!? Whats Your Opinon ?




Hey Girl,

If you still really like him, and it seems that way, I think you should tell him! Plus, it seems that he's sending signs that he's still into you as well! Just go for it, chica! 
alicia m.

by mozilla10 on 3/29/2012 7:30:10 AM

 
 



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the guy i like is kind of quiet, not shy, but just doesn't talk much. whenever my friends talk to him they seem to have so much to talk about, but i have no clue what to talk about with him :xxxx i dont want to seem like im trying too hard to talk to him, but i want to get closer to him >< i already tried the whole asking him questions thing, i dont want to ask any more questions then i already did, i might seem nosy ><
also, i think he likes my friend, i'll keep trying, but my friend made him a pipe cleaner bracelet for fun 2 weeks ago, and he's still wearing it. i can't help but be jealous DDD:

 

 

Hey girl! Tell this cutie a situation you're in and ask what he thinks you should do! He will love that you are clueing him in on a part of your life and want his opinion! It will tots make him feel important..and like who doesn't want to feel important? If he responds in a totally lame way...well, HIS LOSS! Good luck girl! xo, Erin M.  


erin m.

by lucky_sunshine101 on 3/15/2012 1:59:11 PM

 
 

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Ok,so,me and my crush are becoming (almost)best friends.We were talking yesterday on Facebook,and he said that he liked this one girl,then he told me he didn't.I was ok with it,until I figured out it hurt my friend.She was crying in class yeaterday because he already told her.I like him and all,but should I give up all of it for my friend to go out with him?

Hey girl,

It's tricky to choose between a friend and a boy, but is it really worth risking a friendship for a chance to date someone? Talk to your friend and see if she'd be okay with you two going out or not. If she says no, you'll have to decide which relationship is more important to you.

Meghan D.

by mathgeek221 on 3/10/2012 10:14:01 AM

 
 

ok, a week ago.. my crush thought i texted him too much.. so i didnt text him that whole week... so my friend asked him if he likes me.. he said we dont talk that much in person... HOW DO I TALK TO HIMMM?!!:/

by love4321 on 3/6/2012 5:35:22 PM

 
 

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okay i know for a fact that my crush likes me
and you don't want to know the whole story since it will take up about 5 pages
any way, my BFF thinks i should at least talk to him ( WICH I DO!)but now shes moved on to trying to convince me to get him a easter present anonymously. I'm kind of scared couse we only flirt with each other most of the time
do you think i should take the plunge or wait till were more "friends"?

Hey girl,

It's up to you whether you want to give your crush a gift, but if you do it anonymously, how will he know it's from you to help your relationship? If you want to become better friends before making a move (probably a good idea!) why not hang out in a group or just keep having conversations and see where things go?

Meghan D.

by Pinkcupcakekitties on 3/2/2012 10:17:12 PM

 
 

Hi girls how ever seas the newest Q pleas tell give advise thank you!!!!!!!

by sandra 2 on 2/25/2012 11:06:41 PM

 
 

Hi girls the guy that I like has seen me with out glasses and I think he likes me now I have glasses and I'm thinking he won't like me any more? What should do????

by sandra 2 on 2/25/2012 10:52:57 PM

 
 

mod mod mod
how do you know if you really like someone or if your in love with them?




hey girl! Finding the difference between like and love is sometimes very hard. Also, lust can sometimes get confused with love when at a young age and you have yet to experience what true love is. Generally you like someone then over time you grow to love them. When you can trust a person completely and can tell them anything, then love may be something that you can consider.  
Ana D.

by swazyelover2497 on 2/24/2012 1:56:49 AM

 
 



Mod, Mod, Mod! So I was invited to this dance (our school's sort-of prom) and I was super excited at first. The guy is so sweet, all of my friends are going, and I had a beautiful dress. But as the dance approaches, I'm less sure. I don't like big crowds or parties and the guy who ask me is acting weird lately (distant, cold, etc). Not to mention, my friends are all fighting (I'm not even sure about WHAT now) and this girl who has a mega crush on my date is now going to dinner with us. Ah! I've even been getting nightmares about it. This whole thing is totally stressing me out. What should I do?




Hey girlie,

Phew, when you put all those things together in a paragraph, of COURSE it sounds overwhelming! But tackle each problem one at a time. First, your date. He's acting distant and stuff, so try texting or chatting in school - start off with a fun and friendly "Hey! What's up?", then focus on making the convo fun and relaxed. Who knows what's going on with him, but you should totally make an effort to warm things up again Smile Next, your friends. You know not to get involved in friend drama if it isn't your own argument, so try to tell them all you support them and want them all to have a good time at the dance. You don't have to ALL hang out in a huge group together - you can have just as much fun in smaller groups that are getting along, laughing and smiling, and enjoying the night. Smile It will all be FINE!!!! <3
Lauren C.

by writer_gal on 2/17/2012 9:19:33 PM

 
 

Mod mod Mod so I told the guy I like that i like him, and he said that he doesnt like me in a romantic way, and he sees me as a friend, not a girlfriend. I am very upset about this, do you have anything that could cheer me up? Also, how should i act around him now that he knows?

 

Hey LissieLou, aww don't feel bad. There are so many good things that come with being someone's friend. You get to know them on a deep level, they're able to tell you things they may not be able to tell their partner, and friendships sometimes last longer than relationships. Just act normal. Remeber there's nothing to be embarassed about so treat him the way you always did. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

by LissieLou on 2/17/2012 6:41:17 PM

 
 

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I need help with how to text a guy. My friends say he can be very crazy and interesting and funny but when i texted him he seemed bored. Any advice????

Hey girl,

You could text him about school, or tv / movies / music, or your weekend plans! If he doesn't respond, don't overload him with texts, though! You can also try talking to him in person!

Meghan D.

by Taffy18 on 2/11/2012 11:03:25 AM

 
 

My crush does the same thing, but i have called him annoying too! Haha, I guess it's in a playful way. :/

by dancer2998 on 1/25/2012 5:20:06 PM

 
 



MOD! MOD! MOD! this really doesnt have to do with crushes but it does have to do with guys. my parents dont really let me hang out with my guy friends. i cant even say a guys name without them getting all weird. i went to the movies once with one of my guy friends and my other friend and my mom told my dad i was going with a guy and he kept asking if i liked him or if it was a date. its really annoying! because of this i never ask if i can go anywhere with a guy. what can i do to make them not freak out? and btw im 14 so its not like im young or anything. thanks in advance!




Hey girlie,

They're probably just trying to make sure you aren't lying about it or joking around about you "growing up" and "liking boys." It's kinda annoying, but nothing you can't get over! Try hanging out in larger groups where you can tell mom and dad, "It'll be a bunch of my girl friends and a couple guy friends, no big deal." If it keeps happening though and they keep getting too dramatic about it, sit down and calmly ask them to take it easy. Tell them you're 14 now and you have friends that are girls and friends that are guys. It's just the way it is and you like it better, because you feel like you have a really well-rounded social life. It doesn't mean you're going to date every guy you know! They might just need a reminder that you are 14 and are growing up - and that the constant joking around/grilling about your love life isn't fun <3 
Lauren C.

by polkadot2312 on 1/22/2012 10:47:02 AM

 
 



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I was talking to the guy I really like today. And someone we got onto the topic of how annoying my brother is (my brother is 15 btw). And he was like he's afraid of girls isn't he? and I was like yeah... kinda joking, but kinda not. and he was like wow your bro really annoys you. then gtg bye. I didn't mean to offend my brother. do you think this guy thinks that I am really a jerk like that to my brother? cause I didn't mean to make fun of him. is it wrong to tease my brother? I meant nothing out of it. or do you think I'm making a big deal out of nothing? sorry I'm just paranoid. I don't want to be a jerk. this always seems to happen. thanks sooo much.




Hey girlie,

Nah, I don't think you have anything to worry about. Especially if he has siblings himself, he'll totally understand where you're coming from - it's natural to get frustrated and annoyed sometimes! It doesn't mean you're a jerk and he'll probably totally forget about it! <3 If you are worried about it though, next time you're chatting with him you could say something playful like, "Don't worry - I'm in a wayyy better mood now than I was the last time we talked, haha. Sorry to sound so mean last time!" That way, you keep things light but you also get to let him know you aren't always like that.  
Lauren C.

by swimgrl911 on 1/21/2012 10:38:13 PM

 
 

Yeah, this one guy who is currently my crush and I'm pretty sure he likes me, one time pretended to be hurt so I could ask him if he was okay. Well I didn't say anything and I would really change that moment in my life if I could.

by Gabriella123 on 1/21/2012 8:21:20 PM

 
 

Mod mod mod!!!! Hey, so three of my friends keep telling me this guy who I thought had a crush on, that he doesn't like me anymore. But yesterday he told me he does or did. I'm really confused! Any advice?

Hey girl,

He told you that he does...or did? If he's open enough to tell you that, you have a right to ask which one it is, because that makes a pretty huge difference! The only way to know whether or not he likes you is to ask.

Meghan D.

by coldplay12 on 1/21/2012 1:30:01 AM

 
 

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I sit next to my crush in one of my classes. Since the semester is ending and I may not see him very much throughout the school day, I want to get his number. Any suggestions how to ask him without sounding desperate or awkward? ThanksSmile

 

Hey girl,

Tell him about a party you're going to over the weekend, or a mall/movie get-together a bunch of your friends are partaking in, and say "you should totally come! i'll text you about it! oh wait, I just realized I don't have your number" and that will be his cue to give you his number. Good luck girl Smile

Kathryn S.

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by Fashion designer on 1/16/2012 3:17:09 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
There's this guy that always sits by me in class. I think I like him and I think he likes me too. He does things like whisper in my ear, take my pencil away from me, and share my textbook with me. Problem is, I'm not sure how to respond to his flirting. I end up ignoring what he does and I'm afraid that he'll misunderstand my actions as rejection. What kind of flirty comebacks can I make?

 

Hey girl,

Copy his moves- share his textbook with him and whisper to him. He will know right away that you're flirting back with him. Also, try making small talk with him like asking him how his weekend was.

Kathryn S.

by Browniej12 on 1/16/2012 2:43:43 PM

 
 

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When I was in 6th grade I found out this guy liked me. I liked him but I was scared of being in a relationship that early. I'm in 8th grade now and I still really like him. I used to have his phone number but I lost it when I got a new phone. He used to text me a lot, but I didn't text back because my phone would frezze. I want his number again. We aren't in the same class. Could I message him on facebook and say I lost it? I don't see a problem with asking him over facebook. I mean, I never gave him my number; he got it from one of my friends.
thank you!! Smile

 

 

Hey girl,

Yeah I would ask him thru facebook for his number. Just say "Hey_____, i just got a new phone and lost all my contacts, could I have your number again?" 

Kathryn S.

by Georgie 4 on 1/16/2012 1:59:16 PM

 
 

Too bad he didn't say anything else, it's kinda vague.

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by svds on 1/16/2012 11:59:39 AM

 
 

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So,yesterday this guy asked me out. I knew he was already expecting for me to say no, and I also knew he was kinda sad because of this stupid drama one of my other guy friends started. So I said yes. Now I'm not sure how to tell my parents... I know my mom probably wouldn't mind,but I don't know how my dad would take it.... Help? Thanks! Smile

 

Hey girl,

Your parents are going to find out sooner or later if you have a bf, so the best thing you can do is to tell them now.Just be straight up and say "Hey mom and dad, _____asked me out and I said yes!" Hopefully your parents will be supportive of you dating your new bf. Good luck! Smile




Kathryn S.

by cougargirl on 1/16/2012 6:35:37 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! Well a couple months ago a guy and me had this huge issue. He was gonna ask me out but he didnt & other stuff happened & things got super awkward. We havent talked since the issue. Last friday he went up to my friend who i was hanging out with & i started to walk away & he was like "Wait. Heyyy!!" i was like "um, hi" and then he started following me to the bathroom & we were kinda talking; not really & a few seconds later he left. Well now ive realized that more than anything i want to resume the awesome friend ship we had before the issue. Is this possible? HOW?!? sorry its so long; i need help!

by paramoregurl on 1/16/2012 12:22:50 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! Well a couple months ago a guy and me had this huge issue. He was gonna ask me out but he didnt & other stuff happened & things got super awkward. We havent talked since the issue. Last friday he went up to my friend who i was hanging out with & i started to walk away & he was like "Wait. Heyyy!!" i was like "um, hi" and then he started following me to the bathroom & we were kinda talking; not really & a few seconds later he left. Well now ive realized that more than anything i want to resume the awesome friend ship we had before the issue. Is this possible? HOW?!? sorry its so long; i need help!

by paramoregurl on 1/16/2012 12:21:39 AM

 
 



MOD MOD! I posted a comment a few days ago and yall said this guy i like definitely likes me because he wants to take me to the 8th grade banquet but on friday in science (we sit at the same table) we were doin a group activity thing and i was asking what we write down and the person i was asking didnt answer me so i asked again and he said "Dude its A 1 A" i was like "o sorry" because it didnt sound like he was just telling me it was like almost annoyed or somethin i was like uhh nd i dnt get y he did tht if he wants to take me to 8th grade banquet! Could it be since im really shy and so is he cud that have been an excuse to talk to me and it came out the wrong way?? Im scared nnow i hope he still likes me! and i have another issue my bff wants to move to his office aid and she likes to flirt with a lot of guys and im scared if she switches to his office aid he'll end up liking her because shes more talkative and closer to his height than me im 5ft4 shes 5ft7 and hes 5ft11. Thanks!Smile




Hey girlie,

Just because he might like you doesn't mean you get a free pass - he can still get annoyed by things you do and he will still have bad days, where he feels frustrated or not himself. Don't let it get you down! Just try to forget about him snapping at you and, instead, talk to him and get to know him even better without this getting in the way. You know now that repeating things over and over (or maybe asking something over and over) could bug him, so try not to do that. Just try to move on!




As for your other issue, it's possible she could flirt with him and he could end up liking her. Heights have nothing to do with it though - it all depends who grows closer to him and makes him feel liked, accepted, etc. That's why you gotta talk to him more and maybe even ask him to hang out. You have to make an effort so he can get to know you - that way, your friend will have a harder time swooping in and stealing him.
Lauren C.

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by GeenieD on 1/14/2012 10:46:13 PM

 
 



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Hi ok I was wondering if you have any tips how to whiten teeth fast without whitening strips and stuff? Thanks!




Hey girlie,

Read these articles about your teeth whitening options! 

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/01/I-just-got-my-braces-off-and-my-teeth-are-straight2c-but-they-are-also-yellow!-I-tried-brushing-three-times-a-day-Is-there-anything-that-will-help-whiten-your-teeth.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/07/25/BEAUTY-101-Whiten-Your-SmileWithout-Spending-a-Fortune.aspx 
Lauren C.

by Dancer1846 on 1/14/2012 10:42:32 PM

 
 



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So this girl that's my crush's best girl friend keeps acting really flirty around him. What should I do?




Hey girlie,

Use this as motivation to step up your game! His bestie is getting flirty...so you need to get flirty too. Try to talk to him, get to know him better and make yourself a "regular" in his life. You won't become his BFF overnight, but you need to try to grow closer so you give her some competition. Don't just sit by and watch her snatch him up! Even if he eventually decides he wants to date her, you'll know you didn't give up without giving it your best try Smile
Lauren C.

by animelvr1245 on 1/14/2012 10:20:35 PM

 
 



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Hey, do you have some ideas for an ANONYMOUS valentine? and how to get it to that person? my crush's locker is right outside the office, so i cant really put it on his locker. any ideas? thanks(:




Hey girlie,

You could give it to a friend, who could give it to a friend, who could give it to a friend, who could give it to him...but you don't have any control over them keeping your secret. It could be cute, but not your best bet! The locker is really the smartest - just tape it to the front and stick around (but in secret) to make sure he gets it! Unless you left it on his desk in class before anyone gets there? <3
Lauren C.

by baileybluu on 1/14/2012 10:17:56 PM

 
 



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My crush likes me and BFF. He likes my BFF more than me, and I fell like she will steal him from me... Acctually I feel like every girl will steal him from me.... I get jealous badly. What should I do?
Thanks,
Katie




Hey Katie,

Being jealous is totally normal, but you gotta use that jealousy as motivation to grow closer to him! Every girl will steal your crushes if you feel insecure and sit by quietly while they flirt, charm, and chat their way into your crushes' lives. You gotta let your crush get to know you better - show him all your amazing qualities, ask him questions about his interests and background, share some of his favorite activities with him (beat him at his fave video game, ask him to teach you how to shoot three-pointers, etc.), and flirt. That way, you're showing him you're interested and making an effort. Even if he does end up choosing another girl, you'll know you tried your hardest and opened up - that's success!
Lauren C.

by kt_catlover on 1/14/2012 10:17:54 PM

 
 



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(Seventh grade)
I liked this guy who just moved here for two years. He liked me. We never dated
(Ninth grade)
We grew apart that Summer. I fell in love, i turned pretty and went to the lake and didn't see him. A new girl in their neighborhood moved in and he started dating her. I was heartbroken, because even though I liked another guy and he liked me we never dated!
But that's not the reason I'm upset!!! I'm upset because during seventh and eighth grade I tormented his elementary crush on facebook just like his new girlfriend is doing to me. How do I get rid of this drama???




Hey girlie,

Ouch... getting a taste of your own medicine, right? Yuck. Seeing your crush move on and date someone else is NEVER fun, so you need to do something to distract yourself and help you move on too. Surround yourself with your besties who make you happy, focus on clubs/classes that you love, and try seeking out a new crush by getting a part time job, meeting some friends-of-friends, joining a new sport/club, etc. Branching out is such a great goal - you'll have new experiences, meet new people, grow as a person, and feel SO MUCH BETTER because you won't need your crush to feel happy. You can do this! 
Lauren C.

by ButterflyGirl18 on 1/14/2012 10:10:29 PM

 
 



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So i already posted something about this but now i have a new question! Ok, so basically there is this boy that i REALLY like, and im pretty sure he likes me. But i was chatting with him on FB becuz i heard that my friend was talking to him. And i asked him what she said and he was like, "She practically begging me to ask you out." Anyway, he had told my other friend that he wanted to ask me out, but now that my one friend is doing this, I'm afraid that he won't. Also, I'm going to see him tomorrow at my club. I'm afraid that its going to be awkward. What if he brings it up? What do I say to him?!?!?!




Hey girl,

Just stay calm! Be friendly and treat him totally normal. He'll take your cue and, even if he feels weird at first, he'll realize you're laid back and will try to be the same. It'll only be awkward if you let it get that way! You could bring up your friend and say something like, "I'm sorry she was bugging you, that's so annoying. I feel bad!" That way, he knows you weren't involved and don't approve of her behavior. But otherwise, don't talk about it or dwell on it too much. Just keep things light-hearted and he won't be freaked out Smile
Lauren C.

by ell08 on 1/14/2012 9:55:18 PM

 
 



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I was texting the guy I like, and we tease each other a lot. So I was jokingly calling him a shrimp, and he was like wow way to be mean. I was like sorry that's my talent Laughing and he responded back you should really be nicer. and I thought he was joking. so i texted back jokingly haha fine I'll try, but no promises I'll like it. and now he's not texting me back! Do you think he is really mad? and do you think he thinks I'm a you know what? cause he told my friend that he doesn't like me back, but he still wants to be friends. I'm afraid he doesn't like me cause I'm a jerk. I feel really bad! should I text him back? I don't want him to think I'm a jerk or a creeper! thanks.




Hey babe,

Give him some time to himself, then text tomorrow and say something like - "Hey! Sorry if you were really upset last night, I was just teasing. Don't want you to feel bad Smile"  That way, you apologize while also telling him what you thought was going on...and you get to be a little flirty, too! <3
Lauren C.

by swimgrl911 on 1/14/2012 9:39:30 PM

 
 



mod
ok so i have a few questions-
1. i just got off my period a few ddays ago and now i'm really cranky and always in a bad mood. does it have something to do with my period like whiplash or something?
2. i like this guy who is a senior (i'm a sophmore) and the other day we were texting and i said that i wasn't 16 yet (we were talking about jobs) and he acted really shocked and then just stopped texting me. can that small of an age difference freak some people out? because we're really close.
3. i really really REALLY want to be a play and musical director. and writer. people say that that's a really uncommon occupation to pursue. are they right and should i do something else?
thanks Smile
-a




Hey A,

1. It's possible that you could feel moody/emotional because of your hormones! Most people experience PMS before their periods, but feeling kinda crabby afterwards is normal too. Just try to perk yourself up by taking time for yourself and reminding yourself you can totally choose to be positive and happy, even if your hormones are making it hard to smile Smile

2. Even though the age difference seems small for you (and really isn't that much, when you think about it), it can totally freak someone out if they aren't comfy with it. Give him some time and then try to start talking again, to prove to him that you're still the same person and you still have lots of stuff in common! It might be a deal breaker for him, but you should at least try before you give up for good.

3. It's definitely an uncommon profession, but that doesn't mean you should stop! I think being a theater director would be SO COOL! You'll have to be dedicated to getting theater experience, write a lot, and make connections in the industry. Go to school for theater (and possibly film/media production) and work really, really hard. It's not going to be easy, but nothing is easy if it's worth it Smile If it's your dream, DO IT!!
Lauren C.

by rupertgrint014 on 1/14/2012 9:11:22 PM

 
 

If he told you this, he is off the list. =D

by katgrace11 on 1/14/2012 9:00:43 PM

 
 

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I'm trying to get my advice club out there so please check it out!
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by Makeup Artist #1 on 1/14/2012 8:52:15 PM

 
 

Her Tay12zdot, yeah ask him who it is. She could just be a close friend, but just find out anyway. Hope this helps! Xoxo



Mod mod mod mod!!! So my bf has a Facebook and so do I and Im not the kind of gf that creeps on his wall or anything but when I did yesterday, I saw this girl posted a really long status on his wall saying that she loved him so much and he's the only person she would go to for advice and she hopes he feels the same way and she put a bunch of hearts and smiley faces and winkey faces. Then went on to say that he's "so freakin' cuteSmile" should I ask him about it??? I don't even know this girl and he's never mentioned her as one of his friends. Should I be worried? Lynae P.

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by cutiecayley333 on 1/14/2012 6:22:15 PM

 
 

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by Princess Keziyah on 1/14/2012 5:39:55 PM

 
 

Honestly, you may have been annoying and the guy didn't know how to handle it. It's funny how we freak out when the double standard is against girls, but when its for us we are just fine. If the situation was reversed half of the girls on here would say "lol good for you!"

by Mikah D. on 1/14/2012 4:59:34 PM

 
 

Hey ladyinlike, you should talk to him and apologize for your friends behavior. Let him know it was your friend who slammed the lunchbox. As long as he knows it's not you, everything should be okay. Hope this helps! Xoxo



Mod mod mod! So my crush knows I like him cause my friends are just like that but yesterday one of them went toooo far. We sat behind him on the bus ride home which was a bad idea cause she kept wanting to poke him and say hi but I wouldn't let her then she picked up her lunch box and I begged her not to do anything, then looked down and she slammed her lunch box on the seat right near his head. And though she says he turned around im afraid he'll think I did it which worries me cause I'm already getting randomly looked at by him and his friends. What do I do? Lynae P.

by ladyinlike on 1/14/2012 4:21:00 PM

 
 

Hey pokerface16, use the class to talk to him. Maybe ask him for a pencil, how he did on the last test or project, or if he would mind lending you notes or helping you study. Anything you can think of to get the convo started. Hope this helps! Xoxo



MODMODMOD ok i sit by my crush in a class and i would like to be able to start a covo with him but i dont know how and its really awkward because my friend told him i liked him Lynae P.

by pokerface16 on 1/14/2012 1:44:32 PM

 
 

Hey stary20008, from what you're telling me it sounds like hes into you. Boys don't pay attention to any random girl, they only spend time and focus on the ones they like. So take it a step further and ask for his number and if he'd like to hang out sometime. Hope this helps! Xoxo



MOD MOD MOD
Well the guy that I like, him and his friends like to mess with me a lot, like joke around and stuff like that, and it's funny and all because I mess with them too, but sometimes I wonder...is there something more to it? Because they seem to pay a lot of attention to me and my BFF, like a LOT of attention. They are always looking at us and laughing at stupid things we do. Lynae P.

by stary20008 on 1/14/2012 1:06:54 PM

 
 

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by krazykotabug on 1/14/2012 1:01:33 PM

 
 

lol one time the most ANNOYING girl had a crush on my guyfriend... i felt so bad for him and when he sed he wasn't interested because she was so annoying (and also pretty mean) she thought he liked her (andd harrassed him even more) then when she finally got the point, she went off like he was the biggest jerk ever.. sometimes it's the girls problem, it's not always the guy's fault, maybe the girl should think about her own actions before deeming the guy she has a crush on a total jerk.

by guitargirl7321 on 1/14/2012 12:58:09 PM

 
 

I'm not afraid to tell someone there annoying. You probably are, sweetie! Smile

by fungirl123 on 1/14/2012 12:46:56 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD !!!
Hey, So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and a half so far, but we've been bestfriends for almost a year, and we stay up all night talking to each other on the phone, but sometimes we have these awkward pauses and the both of us keep silent and don't know what to say and he keeps telling me why are you quite, or talk or someting like that and i get kinda nervous and that i have nothing to talk about although we do have a lot in common and we are not JUST getting to know each other but what should i do in those moments ???

Hey girl,

It's natural to be awkward in that type of situation -- you can make a joke about it to break the silence, or change the conversation to a new topic. Once you get more comfortable, it should be less awkward!

Meghan D.

by rolapa on 1/14/2012 12:42:09 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
A lot of the things my friends talk about is inappropriate and sometimes it makes me feel uncomfortable. Especially when this certain girl sits with us she only talks about inappropriate stuff and almost all my friends are friends with her. I have no idea what to do, i cant sit with other people because there my only friends. There really nice and listen when i have any other problems and give really good advice and sometimes when it gets to much one of them will say "You guys i think she is feeling uncomfortable maybe we should change the subject" But thats only when it gets to much. Only a couple of my friends dont say gross stuff. Next time they say something gross should i just say ewwww? What do i do?

Hey girl,

If your friends are talking about stuff that makes you feel uncomfortable, let them know you're not interested in those conversations. You can tell them you're not interested in those things, or that you'd prefer they talk about that stuff when you're not there. It sounds like they're open to changing the subject for you, but if convos get too uncomfortable, try hanging out with different girls.

Meghan D.

by iluvcupcakes8 on 1/14/2012 12:25:52 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
The guy that I have loved my entire life is now going out with a girl a year older than us. I'm so heartbroken. Now they're been in like the "honeymoon phase" on facebook. I'm going to see him tonight at a party. I'm not sure if his girlfriend will be there, too. How do I deal?

Hey girl,

It stinks when crushes don't like you back, but why not use the party as a time to meet some awesome new guys, or hang out with your friends? Try and avoid him if it makes you uncomfortable, and talk to other people. Have fun!

Meghan D.

by scooby239 on 1/14/2012 11:59:37 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
Okay here is the thing, there's this guy who has a locker right next mine and everyday he calls me baby and the other day he said, "I missed you sexy." I do have a boyfriend though, and I'm not really into him like that. So how do I tell him to "back-down" at least for now? HELP!!

Hey girl,

If he's using the word "sexy" and is saying these things to you even though you have a boyfriend, you need to get away from this guy! Tell him you have a bf and that you're not interested, and if he doesn't stop saying these things, tell a trusted adult at your school, like a teacher or guidance counselor.

Meghan D.

by LudaKrys on 1/14/2012 11:27:03 AM

 
 

well was he laughing/playing around? or was serious? cause i would go from that.

by j4zm09 on 1/14/2012 11:15:22 AM

 
 

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by 4202_luver on 1/14/2012 11:11:09 AM

 
 

Mod!
Okay so I always see this guy in the halls at my school and he is by far the most adorable thing I've ever seen. I've never talked to him in my life, and I don't know anyone of my friends who knows him. And ideas on how I can start talking to him?
I mean, I only see him during passing time, so I don't really know what to do!
Thanks<3

Hey girl,

Check out this post for tons of great suggestions on how to talk to him. Good luck! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/01/26/100-cute-things-to-say-and-do-around-guys.aspx

Meghan D.

by Lonnie on 1/14/2012 10:59:32 AM

 
 

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by theatergirl341 on 1/14/2012 8:43:26 AM

 
 

I would probably b offended and not talk to him.... Ya I'm kinda dramatic lol

by girlygirl22werock on 1/14/2012 8:30:27 AM

 
 

MODMODMOD. I have to climb the ropes in gym on Wednesday and I was wondering if you guys have any upper body strength workouts and tips for.me

Hey girl,

Our workout page has tons of awesome tips and resources for all parts of your body. Good luck! http://www.girlslife.com/category/workouts.aspx

Meghan D.

by snowver11 on 1/14/2012 8:23:33 AM

 
 

Best advice Forget him you get to much anymore unless you are anoying ask your Galfiends if they agree and or dont leave him in the dust

by Apaul1025 on 1/14/2012 7:35:44 AM

 
 

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by xthisgirl13x on 1/14/2012 7:26:42 AM

 
 

MOD MOD! So I like this one guy. So he and I aren't really friends, but I am friends with a lot of his friends. So a lot of these guy friends keep telling me that he does like me and that we will go out someday, but I know he doesn't like me because A.) I'm a dork and he is popular and B.) I can tell when a guy likes me or not. So now I can't get him out of my head and I'm really starting to get upset at the guys that are doing this to me. Also could you tell me some tips to get him to notice me. I can't talk to him because I don't see him very often and I either stutter or go COMPLETELY red when I see him.

Hey girl,

Don't be so hard on yourself -- people have misconceptions of who's popular all the time, so you can't rule him out just because of what a few people think. If you want him to notice you, try talking to him about something light, like schoolwork or TV. If you use a topic you're comfortable talking about, you might be more comfortable. Or invite him to hang out in a group with some of your other friends, so that you won't have to make conversation by yourselves, since you're already friends with his pals anyway!

Meghan D.

by HungerGamesRox99 on 1/14/2012 7:21:23 AM

 
 

The best advice is what they said, "youre still young, so dont sweat it if one guy isnt into you, because there will be tons of others to come your way". That is so true, dont be crushed by one crush, you will be suprised how many others you will like and who will like you.

by luckykel on 1/14/2012 12:32:32 AM

 
 



MOD!MOD!MOD! Ok so this guy i really liked just moved away, i cant get over it i keep crying i cant help but think of him. But anther problem is i like this guy and he likes me so what do I do with that?




Hey babe,

First off, your crush moving away isn't the end of the world! You liked him enough to crush on him, so you can still at least be friends by emailing, being friends on Facebook, chatting on AIM, texting, etc. You don't have to totally lose touch! <3 As for the guy who likes ya back, try getting to know him better. Talk to him, work on homework together, hang out in a group. All these things will help you get comfy around each other. If you ever get nervous, remind yourself - he likes you back. That's a total confidence booster! Laughing 
Lauren C.

by miz99 on 1/14/2012 12:27:41 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD
My crush notices when I do something new to my hair or comments on my sweater. This happens almost everyday. We aren't to close of friends but we do talk sometimes. I think he might be flirting. The problem is that he has a girlfriend. So how do I know if he is interested in me or is just very friendly?




Hey babe,

It's totally possible those are flirty moves! Compliments are a key way to show someone you're paying attention to them. But he's off limits right now because he isn't single - you know that! If he keeps it up, I'd probably say something like, "That's so sweet...but I feel kinda awkward, I dunno if your GF would be happy with you complimenting me :\" That way, you let him know you appreciate the compliment but at the same time, you aren't gonna go along with it because it isn't right. Get closer as friends for now - then, when he's on the market again, you can unleash those flirting skills! <3
Lauren C.

by Kamalini908 on 1/14/2012 12:25:00 AM

 
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