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Ok so I really want to know if this guy likes me. Lately he seems so be smiling at me in class a lot and we make eye contact. But he's sort of shy so we've never really talked one-on-one before. Once I went to the school basketball game and at halftime he jokingly took my phone as he walked by. Then I took it back before he could do anything with it. I don't know what to do?? He's kind of cute and I really want to know if he does like me. I'm kinda quite myself so I'd never make any huge move first or anything.

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by mns_10_14 on 1/19/2012 1:41:10 AM

 
 

HeybPece*Love*Converse*, aww man you don have a lot going on right now. First thing first, take a ling deep breath. Close your eyes, breathe in handout, and release everything. Next it sounds like you need a break. Let your parents know you don't want to be in the middle of their feuding. Whenever one tries to talk to you about the other tell them to stop or ignore them. I bet the reason youre having these crazy mood swings is because of all th drama. I'm sure your bf wants to be there for you through all this, but if you can't really handle being in a relationship right now let him know. I'm sure he'll understand. Try meditating to balance your moods. Go to a quiet place in your house, sit with your legs crossed, clear your thoughts, close your eyes and rest like that for at least 5 minutes. Once all th stress is out your life you'll feel better. Hope this helps! Xoxo



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Plz answer this. My world is falling apart. I can't trust my parents w/ anything. They fight all the time. My mom has lied 2 me and tells me not 2 trust my dad. My dad says not 2 trust my mom. Idk who 2 trust. Also, my moods r going up and down like crazy, and it's NOT normal. Sometimes I'm so happy and then the next day I can barely get out of bed. I went thru this awful low where I stayed in my room almost all day 4 2 weeks during x-mas break. I get so depressed that I feel like it's never gonna get better. I hide it from my friends but it is so hard 2 put on a smile in the mornings when I'd rather just break down and cry. My BGF recently turned into my BF. He is the only 1 who knows all of this. I like him so much, but I feel like I'm a sad excuse 4 a GF. My parents won't let us hang out outside of school so I only c him on the bus. I know he rly likes me 2 and it would break his heart if we broke up but I can't handle a relationship rite now. Plz help! Lynae P.

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by Peace*Love*Converse on 1/18/2012 8:44:30 PM

 
 

Hey proarchergal, we can't really control the feelings of others. There's nothing you can do but be yourself. If he likes you back, then great and if he doesn't he's not the only guy out there. Just contiue getting to know him more and see where it takes you. Hope this helps! Xoxo



MOD MOD MOD MOD I really like my best guy friend, and he thinks I'm really nice and one of the only people he can truly expression his feelings too. But he doesn't like me the same way I like him, and he knows I like him and he's okay with it. Actually since he found out he has wanted to get to know me more and hang out with me more. How can I make it easier for him to like me back??? Do you think he will ever like me?? Lynae P.

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by proarchergal42 on 1/18/2012 8:29:09 PM

 
 

Hey cludsoda, click the links to articles from GL that help with flirting. Xoxo

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/06/07/Is-there-a-way-to-flirt-without-being-obvious.aspx?cp=all

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/05/16/The-Science-of-Flirting.aspx?cp=all

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/12/20/Mixed-signals-Why-your-crush-is-flirting-in-the-friend-zone.aspx?cp=all



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Hey, ok so i know you've probably heard million of these but i have guy issues. So the guy I like just broke up with his girlfriend and now hes changed the end of our handshake into a hug instead of just half hug. I've liked him for a really long time and I have absolutely NO idea how to flirt. Can you give me some not too obvious but good flirts? Also how can I know if a guy flirts and if I'm friend zoned? Thanks!
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by claudsoda on 1/18/2012 7:47:02 PM

 
 

Hey jollymoemoe, no I don't think you should confront him. If he wanted to take it further I think he'd let you know. But it is weird that he told everyon else that he likes you, mhmm I don't know. Let him come to you if he wants to take it further. Hope this helps! Xoxo



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My crush told me he liked me and I told him I like him. I've been waiting for 2 months for him to ask me out but now he says he doesn't want to ruin our friendship by going out. I think he is just trying to let me down easy and likes me just as friends. The problem is that he told his 2 best friends he likes me just as a friend and everyone else that he likes me. I'm not sure what to do ? Should I confront him? Lynae P.

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