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BY CAROL WESTON ON 4/3/2013 10:00:00 AM

Hey LissieLou, yeah it's only been two days so give him a little more time. Some people wait a whole week before calling or texting someone they just met. if he doesn't contact you within two weeks then you should send him a message on facebook. Hope this helps! Xoxo

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OK! So last year, i met a really cool guy at winter camp. We talked a bit and i have seen him about six other times last year. In october, we hit it off really well and we joked around a lot and developed a pretty good friendship. This year, I saw him at winter camp again and we really really hit it off. We were hanging out the whole time and we have a lot in common. I have now got the biggest crush ever on him. I gave him my number, but i didnt have my phone with me so i didnt get his. This was just two days ago, how long should i wait for him to text me? I can get his number easily, but I want to see if he will text me soon first. ALSO, he is my friend on facebook, if he doesnt text me soon should i send him a fb message? Thanks

Lynae P.

good advice.

by Iceskater7 on 1/18/2012 6:20:23 PM

Hey caligirl99, yup that's what it usually means!!! Xoxo

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When you catch your crush looking at you multiple times does that mean that he likes you? Lynae P.

by caligirl99 on 1/18/2012 6:10:53 PM

no offense carol, but been there- heard that! please give us some deep stuff, not just the cheese of "oh-he-will-love-who-you-are-just-smile" its vicious out there!

by hobo23 on 1/18/2012 5:49:18 PM

Smart, I completely agree.

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by svds on 1/18/2012 5:29:57 PM

by LissieLou on 1/18/2012 5:21:01 PM

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