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So I had this thing with this guy who already had a girlfriend. He would text me sweet things calling me beautiful and stuff, but I always shrugged it off or changed the subject. He had a girlfriend and I didn't feel comfortable with that stuff while they were dating! Eventually they broke up and a week later he asked me out. I said yes. Any-who, we started going out and everything changed: we hardly texted, talked to each other, or even saw each other at school. Finally I called it off. Three days I see his ex-gf Skylar and we start talking. We bonded and she even showed me a text of him telling her that he still missed her and thought she was beautiful while WE were supposed to be going out! I was shocked and quickly showed her the texts he send me saying the same thing to me while he and Skylar were going out. We stood in shock as we compared the near identical texts side by side. Such a player! Three days later he texts me, "I don't get why you broke up with me."

"We hardly talked anymore and you're a player," I responded.

"How am I a player?" He asked.

"You texted Skylar you missed her and still liked her and stuff while we were dating!" I texted him back angrily.

Finally he responded, "And that makes me a player? Well, excuse me for window shopping!"

Let just say that that was one purchase I gladly returned.

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BY GL READER ON 1/19/2012 8:00:00 AM

Hey Peace*Love*Converse, you just need to talk to him girl. I know this will be hard to do but you can't give up. If he won't talk with you face to face, send him a text or leave a note in his locker. Tell him everything you just told me, and after you've reached out to him give him time to take everything in. When he's ready he'll talk to you. Hope this helps! Xoxo

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Plz answer this! My BGF recently turned into my BF. We could tell each other anything and we both rly liked each other. But I broke up w/ him. I felt like my life was spinning out of control. I had so much drama going on w/ my parents, my friends and myself. I started 2 hate myself 4 being so depressed all the time but I couldn't help it. Everything was falling apart. We barely got 2 c each other and I thought he deserved better than some1 was constantly sad. The only explanation I gave him was that I couldn't handle a relationship rite now and I needed him 2 just b my friend. I think I broke his heart. He won't talk 2 me and he was so upset when I broke up w/ him. I feel horrible 4 doing that 2 him and I miss him so much. I just want things back the way they were b4. I need him in my life. What can I do 2 fix this? Lynae P.

Window Shopping for guys:Looking at other girls while dating
What he did was cheating.

by CrazyCutie131 on 9/8/2012 2:42:41 PM

OMG for those ppl who keep saying this was like good luck charlie and it didnt happen to me can u like please stop it! its really rude cuz its this real did happen i have the texts to prove it and yes her name is skylar too, but guess what THIS skylar is actually real as supposed to the actress and the story writing on a script. and shes blonde for crying out loud! And the guys name started with an A not S like spencer. Just spaying -_-

by sammy14ever on 8/12/2012 3:16:57 AM

NO, that's not wut happened to you that's wut happened to teddy on good luck charlie (well somthing similar, a little too similar indeed)

by crosbygal87 on 5/7/2012 7:10:13 PM

How rude wat a jerk

by doglover463 on 3/2/2012 11:28:55 PM

trick me once, shame on you
trick me twice, shame on me

thats kinda what i see when he did that. He really needs to learn some manners and not be afraid to commit

by Band_Nerd4life_14 on 2/19/2012 10:41:03 AM

He's a player..and I have a guy we talk a bit, text, & chat but even though we don't talk much in person (cause its secret) everyone he likes me and they say he's crazy for me so idk if he does or doesn't..but I do like him

by dancer0014 on 2/18/2012 3:42:21 PM

WINDOW SHOPPING?!?! WHAT A JERK!!!!!!!!!!!!! I THINK THIS MAKES HIM 1/2 OF A CHEATER TOO

by swearias on 2/11/2012 9:34:21 PM

This guy is a total idiot!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If I knew this guy, this would not go down just like that. All I have to say is i'm so sorry.

by LouLou Monkey on 2/1/2012 7:57:29 PM

My ex crush is a player too! lol Players SUCK trust me...do NOT fall for one they will shatter your heart (along with many others) to pieces.

by maggie183 on 1/28/2012 4:57:20 PM

Thank you!!

by maddiescar97 on 1/28/2012 4:30:31 PM

Hey maddiescar97, if he still has a girlfriend I don't think you should reach out to him. If he's single I don't think it would hurt to send him a text. Hope this helps! Xoxo

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So i've been thinking about this for a while but i can't seem to figure it out. so i had a little thing with a guy too, only he lived in a different state and came to visit and only stayed for the weekend. well, he was the first guy i had ever had a thing with and apparently he's already had some experience. when he went away, he only texted me once first and was all flirty and stuff but that was almost 2 months ago. then i found out he had a girlfriend. it kinda hurts that he hasn't wanted to talk to me or anything. i've been wanting to talk to him but i'm afraid of it being weird. should i keep waiting for him? Lynae P.

by maddiescar97 on 1/27/2012 8:15:33 PM

Umm...Can someone say J-E-R-K!

by katgrace11 on 1/27/2012 3:39:19 PM

what a completely irresponsible little jerk you were completely and utterly right to dump him when you did.

by star53 on 1/24/2012 5:50:08 PM

MODMODMODMODMOD!!! There is this ah-dorkable(cutely-geeky) guy in 8th grade I like and I know he likes me (we flirt with each other) my bestest friend asked me if we were dating, which we aren't. Should I wait for him to make a move or should I make one? Thnx in advance!!!

Maybe wait to give him a chance. Flirt tons and see what it gets you. xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

by lavlo on 1/22/2012 6:33:01 PM

Mod mod mod (lauren c) So i have a problem i can watch shows like blue bloods and ncis but at night i will ocassionally get scared to death about murder and i get scared about someone breaking into mh house to kill be

Hey girl,

I totally understand! I absolutely looooove NCIS but every once in a while, a storyline will freak me out. Just remember that most of the time, the people in those shows are involved in some "bad business" that causes them to be hurt, you know? Whether it's drugs, a crazy argument, gambling, etc....they kind of brought it on themselves. So remind yourself that you're a good person and you aren't getting yourself in any bad situations! You also have a safe home where the doors lock, you have a family in the house to protect you, and these shows - even though they seem real - are fiction. <3333 If it really bothers you when you're going to sleep, try recording the shows and watching them in the morning instead!

Lauren C.

by ladyinlike on 1/21/2012 10:08:02 PM

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by krazykotabug on 1/21/2012 7:06:07 PM

MOD Well this guy named D figured out that I like him and he said he didn't like me that way. Is there a way that I can possibly try to make him like me? Not like forcing him or anything tho
Thanks in advance!

You can't change someone's feelings, so if he told you he doesn't like you, why not scope out a new guy?

Meghan D.

by cucu4cocopuffs2246 on 1/21/2012 12:23:45 PM

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there's this guy that i was really close friends with until i moved in 3rd grade. He started texting me a while back, and he says he wants to hang out at some point. the problem is, i heard that he's kind of a player. should i trust him, and say ok?

You should trust him and not rumors, so if he's nice to you, why not give him a chance? Just be careful!

by merlbookworm on 1/21/2012 12:21:31 PM

You go gurrrl!!! He doesn't deserve you!

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by artistchic99 on 1/20/2012 9:27:44 PM

How can he not see how hes acting?!?!

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by bubblerain on 1/20/2012 8:27:51 PM

Hey mckey10, just take a few deep breaths and tell yourself "calm down". If you aren't completely calm, pretend to be. Fake it until you make it. And yup I thin, he mikes you girl! Hope his helps! Xoxo

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when im around the kid i like i get WAY to hyper! how can i calm down? Also i like this kid but hes mean to me in a flirty way like he smiles and laughs and stuff and i never take it offensivly and i always catch him looking at me! do you think he likes me? Lynae P.

by mckey101 on 1/20/2012 7:16:52 PM

by Peace*Love*Converse on 1/20/2012 7:16:34 PM

Hey zoey_27, aw man this is a toughie. I wouldn't make a move unless he did. So until he makes it clear to you that he's interested again, I don't think you should bring up your feelings for him. Hope this helps! xoxo

by Lynae P. on 1/20/2012 7:03:56 PM

@12allie honestly I didnt. first off all he wasnt dating me and Skylar at the same time and GLC had nothing to do with text messages it had to do with smoothies lol And the skylar thing is just a coincidence, my name is Samanta and thats nothing like Teddy and the guys name (Ill spare u it cuz i hate to say it) is def not spencer lol. and my bffs name is ally

by Sammy14ever on 1/20/2012 6:27:55 PM

@michipie205 umm not really lol it had nothing to do with text messages lol it had to do with smoothies lol

by Sammy14ever on 1/20/2012 6:18:12 PM

@girygirl22werock I wish it was a story ANd its terrible how cliche it is! What does that tell us about guys? Not good stuff for sure. Skylar was really heartbroke becuz she had her first kiss with him. I fortunely saved my lips for later lol

by Sammy14ever on 1/20/2012 6:12:15 PM

Hey cucuforcocopuffs246, before you make a move be sure your friend is okay with it. They went out twice so maybe your pal likes them too. If that's th case, you don't want to cause any drama. If you get the ok, send him little flirty signals. Compliment him once in a while, maybe play wrestle or mess with his air, and call and text him. Always ask about his interests and what he's up to. Eventually he'll get the point. Hope this helps! Xoxo

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I really like this one guy that I;ll call D. When we were younger we would always hang out and we even pretended to be married. () But know he has gone out with my friend twice, which is not good. And I dont know if he likes me back. I think he might kind of, but is there a subtle way I can both flirt with him and find out if he likes me back?
Thanks in advance
<3Leigh Lynae P.

by cucu4cocopuffs2246 on 1/20/2012 5:27:21 PM

>=( Window shopping?!

by §♥greyson_chance♥§ on 1/20/2012 5:14:48 PM

Window shopping? Really? Thats just sad.

by yumasauras on 1/20/2012 5:13:45 PM

I'm so sorry this happened to you. That guy must be a real jerk

by Slytherin2012 on 1/20/2012 5:06:12 PM

i think she copied this from good luck charlie.

by 12allie on 1/20/2012 5:03:51 PM

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I've liked my bgf for a really long time (and when I say really long, i mean REALLY long). We were together a couple years ago, but we both freaked out and quickly called it off before we reached the point where it's either bf/gf or nothing, and we're still best friends. But i still like him! He tells me about this girl he likes and how he visits her at work, but lately he's been talking to me a lot more, giving me lots of compliments, and hasn't brought her up at all. I hate how he's pulling on my heart like this. What do I do?

Lynae P.

by zoey_27 on 1/20/2012 5:03:10 PM

I love how guys dont get it...

by sunnybubbles on 1/20/2012 4:41:54 PM

Notice how this same exact thing happened on Good Luck Charlie and the girl's name was Skylar xD

by michipie205 on 1/20/2012 3:47:43 PM

That is so rude, you deserve way better than that jerk. I mean seriously window shopping! What does he think you are a video game or something?!

by sparkletastic1022 on 1/20/2012 1:34:20 PM

OMG!!!!! What type of guy would do that, he is an idiot for hurting you two girls

by amileofroses on 1/19/2012 10:34:42 PM

MOD MOD MOD i have the biggest crush on this guy. a few days ago i found out he likes girls with "nice legs". i thought about that and even though i was already happy with my body, i started exercising more and eating healthier. Now i find myself worrying about WHY i'm doing this. is this the right thing to do even if it's for a guy?

Hey girlie,

Usually, it's not a great idea to CHANGE yourself for a guy. But when it's something that makes you healthier, more proud of your body and your life choices, and more confident... well, I think we can let that one slide You might be working on your bod to catch his attention, but it will only have good effects on your own self-esteem and health. Just make sure you don't take this too far - exercise and diet in only healthy ways, never deprive yourself, and never force yourself to do things/like things that don't feel natural. But for these particular changes, which your body will thank you for... keep it up!

by PuppyCT on 1/19/2012 9:24:34 PM

Sorry to hear that

by luv2tumble$$ on 1/19/2012 9:09:24 PM

You go girl! (That's sounds..cheesy)

by Katisha on 1/19/2012 8:52:29 PM

Jerk!

by briannam911 on 1/19/2012 8:41:01 PM

Jerk alert! I hate guys like that

by rubyeve13 on 1/19/2012 8:36:16 PM

I'd go to his house and slap him in the face and scream at him, how dare he?!?!?!? Yeah, I wish I was that confident, but I would if I really wanted to...

by clem10 on 1/19/2012 8:26:56 PM

Gasp! That is so player-ish! The guy needs to 1, apologize and 2, get a life and a brain!!

by HelenaPS on 1/19/2012 8:11:55 PM

this story or something along the same lines is pretty cliche.

by girlygirl22werock on 1/19/2012 8:05:26 PM

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I know prom is a couple months away, but it never hurts to find a date early, right? I have 2 possible dates. They are both sweet, yet I find one (Z) more of a friend than the other (D). I went out with D previously and haven't seen him since October. On the other hand, I see Z about every Sunday. I don't know who to ask! Help!

Have you talked to D at all since October? If not, he might not be as much of an option as you'd think...that's a long time! Try talking to him again and catching up to see if there are still sparks there. Z is always a solid choice - since you're friends, you KNOW you'll have an amazing and fun time! <3

by crush2010 on 1/19/2012 7:30:25 PM

He's sooo messed up

by wxyz22 on 1/19/2012 7:19:53 PM

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I only have 2 classes with my crush this year and i barley talk to him. do you have any ideas on how to talk to him more?

Hey babe,

Try friending him on Facebook or chatting on AIM! You could start the convo with "hey whats up?", or go one step further and ask him something like a homework question or something about one of his hobbies. Then just hang on and see where the conversation goes! Get to know him better that way first. Then you could try joining a club he's in, or using a mutual friend to hang out with him, or even just smiling/saying hello in the hallways or chatting at his locker. Be patient and let your friendship build, just like any normal friendship! <3

by wxyz22 on 1/19/2012 7:18:27 PM

MODMODMODMOD!!!!!!!! ok. so i like this guy. he was my bgf and i recently asked him to the dance coming up and now everything is really awkward. What should i do?

Whether he said yes or no to your question doesn't even matter here. You gotta set an example for how you want your friendship to be! If you act warm and friendly to avoid the awkwardness, he'll take the cue and do the same. It's only awkward if you let it get that way! So instead of acting weird around him, try to loosen up and go back to normal. It'll take some time, but he'll be able to relax too once he sees that you aren't taking it too seriously <3

by rocketwriter5 on 1/19/2012 6:25:00 PM

@Chloe<3 lol not really. Its just spaced weird and makes it look longer.

by Sammy14ever on 1/19/2012 6:02:15 PM

Um yeah he's a player!! That dude needs to take a hint!

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by LudaKrys on 1/19/2012 5:33:23 PM

Jeez what a jerk!!

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by svds on 1/19/2012 5:11:30 PM

Hey this is my story anyway he really is. So over him

by Sammy14ever on 1/19/2012 4:56:46 PM

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Do you have a boyfriend? If so, how long have you been going out? What age do you think people should start dating? And how should you tell your parents your dating?
If you want to answer be sure to answer on my profile!

by Joe7197 on 1/19/2012 4:48:44 PM

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I have 2 things:
So I have a question about this guy (real original right?) and he likes to mess with me and he's really nice to me and all, he always greats me and tries to talk to me and just jokes around with me and stuff and he tries to show off, so I'm not sure what to do with him.
Second thing, so I have this other guy friend that I talk to a lot and we joke around and stuff, but I think this guy likes me as just a friend, nothing more, (like I like his friend not him), but I just don't know how he really feels about me. I mean we talk about a wide range of stuff, there isn't a lot to hide when I'm around him.

Hey lovely,

Hmm the first guy might just like the attention, so you most likely won't know his feelings for you until he tells ya. And as for the second, you might be right. When guys like you and want to date you, they ask you out, so make the most of enjoying your friends' company, being a student and your interests.

Krupali D.

by stary20008 on 1/19/2012 4:44:17 PM

omg i would KILL him

by paxetcaritas101 on 1/19/2012 4:29:07 PM

WOW! he's a big jerk! i am so sorry

by susper on 1/19/2012 3:38:24 PM

Ehh too much to read.

by Chloe<3 on 1/19/2012 3:16:57 PM

Ew! Total jerk alert!
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So this guy that I liked last year told a close friend of mines that he likes me. I said, No way, he didn't like me! And my friend said, He didn't say he *liked* you. He said he *likes* you, as in, now! And I was totally shocked cuz last year, when I liked him, he was being like cool with it and was laughing it off! So it's so weird that he likes me now! What should I do!

Hey girl!

Sounds like he's flip flopping a bit. Regardless of what he tells others, you should respond to him after he talks to you. That way you know if he really does and if he likes you enough to be your boyfriend (if you are of age appropriate to date, of course). So, I would say chill about it for now and pay attention to your interests, studies and having fun!

by ekatia217 on 1/19/2012 2:58:48 PM

Whoa such a jerk!

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P.S. He's a TOTAL JERK!!!!!!

by Princess Keziyah on 1/19/2012 10:48:09 AM

wow what a jerk!

by j4zm09 on 1/19/2012 9:19:17 AM

Becca G.

is modding

Lauren R.

is modding

Lynae P.

is modding

Buyer's remorse

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