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I liked this guy since last year, when he wasn't even close to being popular. We were friends but now that he's popular it's harder to talk to him! How do I deal?


Hey girly! Teenage years can be hard because social status’ change and people think that it should change how they act and who they hang out with. Try chatting him up online or find him when he is walking alone from school. By himself he doesn’t have his crew to dictate him and he can make him own decisions.


When people suddenly become popular they don’t know how to deal and think that it is okay to only talk to their new friends, and they forget about their old ones. Remind him how close you two were and build that friendship back up before you move beyond that. If he still seems to blow you off then maybe he has changed, and not for the better

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Hi again, The guy that I've liked and known for 2 years I asked about before well we've been dating for 2 weeks now. We've both finally realized that our feelings for each other are stronger than we thought. Everyone says we will be together forever, but forever might end this summer because were both going to completely different high schools. The good thing is that I could go to his high school if I use my dads address, but the bad thing is I just got accepted into the College prep program for my high school. When I got the letter my parents were excited but I was dying on the inside. I told my mother I wanted to go to the high school for my dads address but I didn't tell her why. Should I give up the College prep program for the guy I love or Give up the guy I love for the College prep program??? Please Help

Hey girl,

It sounds like a lot to give up a good high school program for a guy you've only been dating for two weeks. What did your mom say? Your parents' advice is super important on this one! How far apart are your high schools? It will be tough to not go to the same school as your boyfriend, but if you can still hang out on weekends and stay in touch through facebook and the phone during the week, it would probably be better to go to the college prep program, but that doesn't mean you can't still be with your bf!

Meghan D.

by xxCityGalxx on 4/28/2012 12:42:55 PM

 
 

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I've liked this guy for a long time and i told him. He told his friend he liked me a lot to. My bff told me hes gonna ask me out on Monday, but i never know what to talk about or say to him. I guess its nervousness, when this happens i just feel like an idiot. Im afraid if we date it will be hard for me to talk to him even more. Hes the one who always starts the convos and i dont want him to think im not interested cuz believe me i am, Any advice???



Hey babe,

Don't feel pressured to ask him out.  Obviously you're not fully comfortable around him if you're worried that you won't know what to say to him.  Try to focus on getting closer to him, and once the conversations start to feel effortless and just flow, then ask him out. Jordan S.

by xxCityGalxx on 4/14/2012 4:18:12 PM

 
 

Blarrrgh the popular ones USUALLY aren't even worth the trouble. They tend to be kind of egotistical and judgemental. I'm not saying ALL popular boys are bad!

by brownichick on 3/13/2012 8:31:09 PM

 
 

This is just like a thing that happened to my friend. She liked a guy last year when he was "sweet",(I am new, that is just what she told me) and now he is popular -and not very sweet- and she doesn't like him. Such a shame. They would be a cute couple. Tong

by Glitterheart16 on 3/3/2012 12:32:53 AM

 
 

Ok so there's this guy I like in my math class and he's really funny but annoying to others. He's loud and a troublemaker. I really like him. I know for a fact he likes me AND my BFF.

by Lanilulu on 3/1/2012 10:40:28 PM

 
 



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Please help me. I like this guy hes kinda popular, and i think he might like me back. I am also pretty shy, what should i do?!




Hey girlie,

Even though you're shy, you gotta muster up the courage and TALK TO HIM! Since he's popular, try chatting him up online or catch him one-on-one at his locker, when he's walking home from school, etc. When he's alone, you won't have the pressure of impressing his crew...and HE won't be thinking about what they'd do. He can make his own decisions and talk to you more honestly Smile Talk to him about his hobbies, your hobbies, a class you're both in, or something else you think he'd like to chat about. Give it a try - over time, you'll grow closer and closer... it'll get easier!
Lauren C.

by Mags3405 on 3/1/2012 5:04:32 PM

 
 

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So I like this guy in my launguage arts class. He sits next to me and we are also both in the school play. I have a HUGE crush on him and I think he kinda likes me back. We both are really shy around new people though so we don't talk very often. He is also a lot more popular than me. WHat should I do should I just admire him from a distance or make a move?

Hey girl,

If you think he might like you, you could go for it and see what happens -- he might be totally into you, too! If you're still feelin' shy, keep hanging out with him as friends and see where things go. Maybe he'll make a move!

Meghan D.

by Catty13 on 2/25/2012 3:58:30 AM

 
 



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Okay. So I like this guy and we talk everyday and even email each other! (he doesnt have a phone) We walk home everyday too! But the problem is I kind of dated him last year (I'm not allowed to date) and he dated my bestest friend (not really my best friend anymore) and another one of my friends!! He seems to like me too!! He is also everything I want in a guy! I'm not sure if I should go after him or just stay away cuz he dated so many of my friends? Please help!




Hey girlie,

If he seems to like you, respects you, makes you happy, has a great sense of humor, and has all the other stuff you're looking for... don't count him out! But I think the biggest problem here is that you're not allowed to date. So you'd go for him, and if things work out...then what? Try having a chat with your parents and figuring out how long that rule will last. That can help you decide. If it's gonna be another year or so before you can date, try to enjoy his company as a friend and flirt without hoping for it to turn into a BF situation. If you can date and turn this friendship into something more, then give it a try! Smile
Lauren C.

by jnndrt on 2/24/2012 9:07:33 PM

 
 



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I like this popular guy at my school , and we hug every day but thats it .. I like him alot but we never really just talk .. We hug and walk off . How can I change that ?




Hey girlie,

The fact that you hug every day is a great start! Next time, hug and ask him a question - "how are you!" or "what's up!" are good ways to start a short convo. On Thursdays or Fridays, ask him if he has any fun weekend plans. On days after a big test in a class you have together, ask him how he thinks he did. Think about what you have in common or what would be interesting to him - and ask him while you've got your arms wrapped around him! Smile
Lauren C.

by RaininLuv on 2/23/2012 1:32:13 PM

 
 

Just talk to him. Make him YOUR friend. Or al least make him think ofnunas a friend. Get to know him and talk to him during class. Than, I'd he is hanging out with the "popular crowd" than you can totally just go up to him and say,"Hey!! How's it goin?" Smile

by JessiJo77 on 2/22/2012 9:35:06 PM

 
 

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

by mybubblegum on 2/22/2012 5:45:12 PM

 
 

At my school most of the popular guys are jerks, and then there's one whose super nice!!! I don't have anything against popular kids but at my school, most of them are super mean.

by hermione&ron on 2/21/2012 4:14:01 PM

 
 

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

by madisklogg on 2/21/2012 10:29:03 AM

 
 

Yeah I always end up liking popular guys and they flirt back, and then I find out two months later that they have a girlfriend and have had one for a month and a half. Here's to bad taste in guys!

by romanticbookworm13 on 2/20/2012 9:50:50 AM

 
 



Mod, Mod, Mod! So I really like this guy. I'm not sure if he likes me back, but for once, that isn't the problem (crazy, right? Haha Laughing). So what is the problem? This girl has a huge crush on him. She follows him EVERYWHERE and doesn't ever let him talk to other girls. He told me it freaks him out and then asked if I would go to the dance with him to ward her off (can anyone say "friend zone"?). Now she's super mad at me and won't let me anywhere near him at school. Even better, she's eating with us (and a group of friends) before the dance. Any advice for dealing with her? Thanks a million! Smile




Hey babe,

Ugh, how annoying! But when you say "she doesn't let me anywhere near him," how exactly is she doing that? You should be able to be firm and tell her, "I'm allowed to speak to my friends. You need to get out of my way." Then, go for it! Don't let her run your life. If she's just constantly talking to him and not physically blocking you from him, go over and be bold - ask him if you can steal him away to hang out for a bit. Make eye contact with him and completely ignore her. It might drive her crazy, but he'll be thankful you gave him a break from her - and you'll get to talk to him. It's a win-win! As for dinner before the dance, he invited you "to ward her off"...so that basically gives you permission to be around him most of the night. Go get your food together, choose a spot where you can sit together (preferably on a small chair or with someone else already sitting on the other side of him - that way, she can't get in there) and chat the whole time, asking each other questions and having a good time. Try to push her out of your mind so you don't worry about her, but you might need to stand your ground at first so she knows it's your territory for the night. It might even be fun for you both to sneakily "plot" ways to get away from her. It'll be like a game, which is a totally flirty way to enjoy your time together!
Lauren C.

by writer_gal on 2/17/2012 9:35:06 PM

 
 



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So there is this guy I liked and he used to like me back, but at the time I didn't knw it so I really wasn't flirty with him. I do like him though. We texted alittle but haven't in a long time (4 months). He doesn't seem to notice me anymore. I want to get his attention so would pretending to accidentally text him be a subtle and sneaky way to get his attention and get the conversation started?




Hey girlie,

Sure! If you're comfy making the move that way, I say go for it. What matters is that you start the convo, ask him how he's been, and keep it going this time! <3 Good luck!
Lauren C.

by madicadaby on 2/16/2012 7:37:44 PM

 
 



Mod! Mod! i really like this one popular guy and i text him all the time. The prob is I text him first every single time. And he goes from girl to girl. I'm not very popular. I'm amazed he is even texting me! What do I do to catch his eye???




Hey girlie,

Try making eye contact and smiling at him as you pass him in the halls. If you're feeling confident, you could even throw in a little wave or a casual "Hey." This will make him feel a little more comfortable with in person contact - which is totally different from texting. That's the best way to take this to the next level - texting is awesome, but you should try to have short convos in person (in the halls, at his locker, before/after class) too! <3 Be flirty and confident in those situations - it'll definitely show him that you're strong, interesting, and someone worth texting!
Lauren C.

by Smileyperson on 2/16/2012 6:34:34 PM

 
 

Okay. So I need an Advise!!! Like all my friends have had boyfriends or been asked out but not me. I guess i'm a little young but i still dont get why i havent had a boyfriend yet. I've liked guys before, but i didn't really think that much about having a boyfriend but now i'm older and get stronger feelings. I really like this guy, but i'm not sure if he likes me back. He knows I like him, and when he found out he started to act really weirs, like he was heigh on something. He was jumping around and was all happy but I still dont think he likes me. What do you think? I really need this advise, nobody has ever liked me before, and I a starting to think that im too fat and ugly even though my friends say that i'm perfect! I'm just starting too feel really bad about myself and I dont ever think I'm pretty enough. So yeah, well thats it. Hope to hear from you soon!

 



Hey ardismarin, sounds like that guy may have been really excited that you liked him. It's really important that you love yourself before you can love someone else. You have to feel confident, because if you don't your insecurity could ruin your relationship. So once you feel good about yourself make a move on your crush. So instead of trying to find a guy, try to find happiness and higher self esteem. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

by ardismarin on 2/15/2012 6:47:42 PM

 
 



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Please help!There's this guy he's one of my close friends and seatmate we talk like almost all the time anyway I liked him last year but when school started this year I didn't like him.but now school is ending(I'm not from US btw) I sorta like him again.but I don't know if he likes me back.One of my friends actually asked him if he likes me all he told her was I was taller than him.I actually caught him staring at me 1or 2x(or so I thought).does he sound like he likes me?
P.S. Can u post ur answers on my profile.




Sorry I have to post my answer here. I think if he avoided answering the question then he does not like you. Boys can be very intimidated by girls who are taller than them and I think that is the situation here.  
Amanda P.

by FaithPrincess23 on 2/15/2012 6:17:04 AM

 
 

i went to a dance with my friends and saw this really cute guy. me and my friend went to got talk to him and we got his number. im really starting to like him, but i have a feeling he isnt in to me. when i txt him, he only sends one letter word and sounds bored. i dont know what he is thinking. is he into me or not????????

by sandy92972 on 2/14/2012 7:02:22 PM

 
 



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Hi i need help or advice..or both......Im alone for valentines day once again. i have never had a boyfriend and i am really getting down about it. all my friends have boyfriends and have plans with them on Valentines Day. I am so lonely. i never get asked out by guys and im almost positive no one likes me. im and over weight person and im not affraid to admit it and i know hat it is one thing that pushes guys away form me. I wish just someone would give me a little sign of hope for me to get a boyfriend. i want to experience the feeling of really loving someone that my friends talk about. what i want to ask is do you have any advice for me about how i can cope with my depression on V-day? and what is some advice for getting noticed by guys...i really hope to hear back from you soon because i just have lost up all hope and i need someone to help me get through this romantic time of the year.

 

Honey Valentines day is stupid. Its just a holiday where candy and card companies try to make money. It took me a suuuper long time to get a boyfriend. I was 17 when I had my first kiss. So theres nothing wrong with being single at your age. Its better for it to take a while and have it be real then to have a ton of worthless relationships ya know? This is how you cope with Valentines day - put on your favorite music and dance all around your room. Youll get a good work out and it will make you feel better. You dont need a boy to feel good about yourself. Focus on you hon. The rest will fall into place. xoxo kerra 


Kerra S.

by Katiegirl773 on 2/12/2012 5:58:22 PM

 
 



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ok, so my BGF, who is also my crush, asked me to go see a movie. i thought it was just as friends, but hes telling all his friends that we are going out on a date. is that weird?

 

Well it does sound like thats supposed be a date. I would ask him about it and see what hes thinking. He may just like you. xoxo kerra 


Kerra S.

by abbysea on 2/12/2012 5:21:47 PM

 
 



Thank you so much!! Your advice really helped me!! Laughing




You're welcome! <3 Glad to help!!!
Lauren C.

by Ruffian10 on 2/12/2012 10:39:22 AM

 
 



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There was this guy that I liked in 8th grade, & once he found out, 4 the rest of the year he was either rly mean when he talked 2 me, or just completely ignored me. By beginning of freshman year I was completely over him. I was walking to bio last Thurs, & I have 2 pass his locker to get there. I was planning on walking right by as usual, but then he looks up & says hey watsup? At first I was thinking wait are u talking 2 me? Cuz I still thought he hated me. But I chatted with him 4 like 3 or 4 minutes that day & we had a normal, perfectly nice convo. I even briefly apologized 4 last year cuz we rly didn't get off on the right foot. He said he didn't even remember what happened, & not to worry about it. Also he looks at me whenever I walk by his locker, but I nvr paid much attention to that until now. Do u think he might like me? I think he might, but I'm scared to start anything bcuz of how last year went...




Hey babe,

Ouch! I don't blame you, that totally hurts to be snubbed by a guy after you put all your feelings out there. It sounds like he's interested again though - whether it's as a friend or a crush. It's hard to tell based on a few glances and one convo, so just take things slow and see what happens over time. He might start flirting with you, talking to you even more often, glancing at you...or this might have just been a "social" day for him. No one can tell right now! So pay attention to his actions while also being casual about the whole thing. The more contact you have with him, the better idea you'll get of his feelings for you Smile 
Lauren C.

by Ruffian10 on 2/12/2012 10:21:09 AM

 
 



MOD! I've been sorta dating a guy for a while now but we haven't talked about what's going on with us. I really want him to meet my friends because I've met almost all of his. Any ideas on what to do to get people together?




Hey girlie,

Try saying something like, "I have an idea! We should try out that new pizza place this weekend. I'm gonna ask Julie and Ashley - wanna ask your friends too?" Just make it like a casual group thing - not an intense "IT'S TIME TO MEET MY FRIENDS SO DON'T BE NERVOUS OK" event, ya know? ;) It's your relationship too, so give it a try and make it happen! 
Lauren C.

by e-lo on 2/11/2012 10:21:35 PM

 
 



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There's this guy,who's actually my crush,that likes me. I catch him looking at me a lot,he's super shy around me,laughs at my jokes,and I over-heard him talking to his friends saying my hair smells like bubblegum. But here's the thing,he's a shy guy and I'm not really a shy girl so I don't want to intimidate him but I want to ask him out. Or at least for his number...any tips?? Thanks so much Smile




Hey girl,

Instead of asking him out right away, try easing into it so you don't freak him out. Since he's shy, you wanna go slow! Talk to him in person and get to know him a little better. Be patient and give this some time. Then, take the next step by chatting online or adding him on Facebook. Then, after some time passes, you could ask him for his number (or get it from a friend). You get the idea. Let everything happen naturally and pay attention to how he responds to you - if he feels uncomfy, be more friendly and less flirty. If he seems into it, work those flirting moves! Smile
Lauren C.

by iluvmusic♥ on 2/11/2012 10:14:21 PM

 
 

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by iluvmusic♥ on 2/11/2012 10:09:19 PM

 
 

Why on earth would someone want to talk to a popular guy? They're all arrogant, rude, and immature. Eww.

by jackieluvz on 2/11/2012 10:03:02 PM

 
 



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I really need help. Lately i've been feeling super depressed & unhappy. I feel like all my friends would rather hang out with our other friends than me. My mom & everyone in my family hates me & my mom doesnt trust me anymore so my parents are super strict on me. & the worst part is i dated the guy i really really liked & then he broke up with me(i still like him) & like 4 days after he broke up with me he got with another chick & i see them 2gether alot & it makes me really upset i want him back so bad. I often feel like going to sleep and never waking up or dieing. I dont know what do with my life cause i hate it soo much. Plz help me!! Cry on friday in the middle of class i started crying!




Hey girl,

It's totally normal to go through rough patches in life. But dying is so permanent - life gets BETTER and you want to be around to see it! Since you're feeling unhappy about things right now, the first step is to talk to someone about this. I know you might not believe it, but your parents wouldn't be so strict if they hated you - if they did hate you, they wouldn't care what you did. They care and, if you sat down with them to talk seriously about how you're feeling without getting angry or defensive towards them, they would listen. If you don't feel comfy with that, talk to a school counselor or trusted teacher. The important thing is that you DON'T hold this stuff inside - it'll grow bigger and bigger if you don't let it out. 




And honestly girl, I know breakups are hard but a guy who broke your heart is NOT worth all the tears. It's hard to see right now, but you deserve someone who will be there for you all the time. If he left you, he's not the right one. Someday, a guy will be with you and will think this one was CRAZY to let you go <3 
Lauren C.

by tpowell11 on 2/11/2012 10:00:35 PM

 
 



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I'm always worrying about pimples that suddenly pop up on my face. Do boys really care about them?




Hey girlie,

Boys have pimples too, ya know! They're totally annoying and I've been embarrassed by some of mine too, but the truth is there isn't much we can do. Try not to worry! Just wash your face once a day with a good gentle cleanser, try not to touch it too often so you don't transfer oils from your hands, and carry a little tube of concealer in your purse for quick touchups on the go Smile And relax! 
Lauren C.

by §♥greyson_chance♥§ on 2/11/2012 9:50:49 PM

 
 



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sorry i leave alot of this stuff. okay, i dont want to sound desperate or anything but i really want a bf. ive been crushing on this guy since the beginig of the year and only one other person knows(just recently told her)he used to seem really interested in me but ever since i told my friend, hes been acting different around me.she swears she didnt tell. ive been getting really mixed signals. how do i know if he is interested in me or not and if he is tell him? i want to let him know how i feel but the problem is, its my best friends twin brother and im afraid she will totally freak. please help!
lots of luv, laney




Hey Laney,

No worries, that's what we're here for Smile As for this issue, try talking to him a little more. Don't dwell on the whole "Does he know? Does he know?" thing because we gotta trust your bestie when she says she didn't tell - just get to know him better as friends and keep things casual so he doesn't feel awkward. Let him grow more comfy around you and try to figure out those signals. Over time, you can sense whether you should spill the beans or give it more time Smile
Lauren C.

by socestar8 on 2/11/2012 7:18:53 PM

 
 

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by iluvmusic♥ on 2/11/2012 7:15:46 PM

 
 



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My crush knows I like him so it's really awkward to talk to him.
My bgf, who is one of his good friends told him he should ask me out, and the rest of their friends agreed. They told me he didn't object at all and didn't really say anything. I catch him looking at me occasionally and he looks away when I make eye contact. He says he doesn't like anyone and he only talks to girls when they start the conversation. He said he strongly dislikes me but always kinda blushes and smiles a little. Could he like me? Thanks so much!




Hey girl,

It's possible he likes you! Either way though, he might feel awkward because he doesn't know how to act around you after learning "the news." Nothing to worry about just yet Smile Try getting your BGF on board and having him help ya hang out with him more often (in a group, for example), get to know him better, and get chances to flirt. It could be a great way to get closer to him!
Lauren C.

by Nmun2000 on 2/11/2012 7:14:34 PM

 
 

Good advice, I don't like it when 'popular' people are stuck up b/c they think they're better. I don't think popularity should exist b/c it can be bias and hurtful.

Join my club, 'Orchestra Nerds and Band Geeks.' It's a loose and fun club where we talk about anything and everything- But especially music Smile Go to my profile to join!! svds

by svds on 2/11/2012 6:58:24 PM

 
 



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So I just started going out with someone last night and I was wondering if I should get him anything for valentine's day? Also he likes to show a lot of pda and it sometimes makes me uncomfortable. What should I do? I don't wanna hurt his feelings. Thanks!




Hey girlie,

If you're going out with someone, you should feel comfy talking to him about how you feel. If you're not huge on PDA, tell him! Tell him you really like dating him and think he's awesome, but you're not a huge fan of holding hands/kissing in public. In private, it's a different story...but in public, it just makes you feel a little weird. Be honest and make sure he knows you care about him. He'll understand! Smile As for V-Day, it's tough because he might not get you something in return, but it's the thought that matters. Just try making him some tasty cookies or brownies - that'll put a smile on his face for sure!
Lauren C.

by mememe6 on 2/11/2012 6:03:56 PM

 
 



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so my best friend likes this guy, and we found out from his mother that he likes her too!! they are both really shy tho, and he is one of the most popular guys in our school, but she isnt popular Frown he said hi to her in the hallway, but she just looked at him and her face got red so she walked away, and i had to tell him a lie so he wouldnt think she doesnt like him. how can i get her to talk to him?? help please!!!
xo jocey




Hey Jocey,

Try being the ice breaker yourself! Start a convo with him, then bring her into it. You could even plan a group get together with your friends and his so she doesn't feel super intimidated. She could also chat online or via text with him to get more comfy, if you think that would help! Either way, definitely try to help her out at first. Once she realizes he's a normal person and she can handle a conversation, she'll calm down! <3
Lauren C.

by dancerjj13 on 2/11/2012 6:00:42 PM

 
 



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hi thankyou. so im a freshman and i kinda like this guy who's a junior. he literally the sweetest thing in the world to me. we're not good friends by any means but we're very friendly. do you think thats a weird age difference? we swim together on our school team but how can i keep in some sort of contact with him when swim ends? thanks!! x




Hey girlie,

I think we usually draw the line at 3 years - anything more than that is a little too much. But this is still possible, if you get to know him very well and find you have a lot in common! Try adding him as a friend on Facebook or scoring his digits now while swim season is still going on. That way, afterwards you can stay in touch! Smile 
Lauren C.

by rocknrollx3o on 2/11/2012 5:58:47 PM

 
 



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I have a big crush on this person in my class. I told him I liked him yesterday, and all he said was okay. There's also another person in my class who REALLY loves him. I'm not exactly friends with her, but not exactly enemies either. But she is really obsessed with my crush. She follows him, hugs him, says "I love you" to him, and etc. My crush said he liked her back,before, but right now everybody thinks he doesn't like her anymore. And, The boys rated the girls in the class, and my crush had rated me a 9/10. He wrote down I don't know for the other girl that likes him. And in art class, my crush and his friend both jokingly asked me if I wanted to go out with them. I bluntly said no to his friend, but I said nothing when my crush asked. But my best friend said that I said no to him, too. Which I didn't say! After school I saw him hugging the other girl, which he also did to me earlier. Was it because I said no to him? Or did does that mean he doesn't like me? Help!




Hey girl,

He hugged her, but he hugged you too! He also joked around about dating (aka being flirty), clearly likes you a little (to rank you a 9/10), and doesn't seem like he's offended by the rumor or anything. Personally, I'd try to brush this off and just keep talking to him off-and-on. Don't come on too strong, but it's important to grow closer as friends and flirt so you can stay on his mind. If he totally doesn't seem interested after talking to him a few times, it might be a smart idea to let it go. But if you have good convos and he enjoys it, see where it goes! 
Lauren C.

by cloudyday on 2/11/2012 5:48:46 PM

 
 



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okayy so this one guy (lets call him jake) i know has had a crush on me since last year. my mom and jakes mom are friends and my mom figured out that he likes me and wants me to date him. but i dont like jake back at all. my mom REALLY wants me to go out with him but i seriously am annoyed with my mom becuz she forces me into everything she wants and she'll make me go with him even though i dont want to. so 2 questions: how do i get my mom to let me choose for myself? and how can i get jake to stop liking me becuz hes really annoying at times and i dont like him? thx <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
<3,
Katie<3

 

Hey girl, honestly the best thing to do is talk to them. Just be honest with your mom that you don't like him, but you appreciate her looking out for you. but if you're uncomfortable with talking to Jake, maybe you should just either write him a letter, or just keep your distance while still being friendly? 


lauren r.

by katiekakes8 on 2/11/2012 4:50:27 PM

 
 

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by Princess Keziyah on 2/11/2012 4:26:16 PM

 
 



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help me k so i told my friend my guy friend was kinda bothering me cause he always likes everything i post on facebook even if its like really stupid and has nothing to do with him and has something to do with my other friends so i told my friend and she sent him a message telling him he was bothering me but she made it sound so much worse. the only reason hes bothering me is because people keep saying he likes me and i don't want him to how can i fix all this so he doesn't totally hate me? sorry this is so long

 

Hey girl, I think the best thing to do would be to write him a letter or talk to him face to face about what has really been bothering you. Don't be afraid to tell him yourself. =] 


lauren r.

by sparkle and shop on 2/11/2012 3:46:40 PM

 
 



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I just recently got a boyfriend. He is super sweet and he already knows what he is going to get me for Valentines day. I want to get him something but I don't know what. I think I might write him a sweet letter, but I want to get him a little gift too. What should I get him?(not something expensive though)
-Cremecake

 

Hey girl, I think you should make him something! Definitely look online for some DIY Valentine's Day gifts. There are a lot of cute ideas out there and tutorials on how to make super cute cards. Or you could make him a nice card and just give him a little bag of VDay goodies from the dollar store? That's always cute! 


lauren r.

by cremecake on 2/11/2012 3:43:43 PM

 
 



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I have always been very shy, socially awkward, and quiet. I have never been popular in my life because of this and i hate my personality. Everywhere i go i'm known as the weird quiet girl and i'm so sick of it. How can i be more charismatic, charming, and friendly? please help, i'm 15 and i feel like i have no life because of this!

 

Hey girl, I was the same way growing up. It's okay, you'll grow out of it! The best way is to surround yourself with people that are super outgoing and don't mind being loud. That way you kind of just adapt to it while being around them. Just be relaxed, laugh and don't worry too much about anything...just be yourself. That's the key! Being shy is okay. I'm still shy sometimes!  


lauren r.

by msindependent on 2/11/2012 3:14:08 PM

 
 

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by iluvmusic♥ on 2/11/2012 1:00:26 PM

 
 

I think its really great advice. When you cant talk to someone in person because you are nervous the best way to to chat online with them. You can even be a little flirty and see if he responds back in a flirty way. Nothing is better than looking in his eyes to see what he is thinking but that is a good way to break the ice.

Believe me you can get a guy interested online and then go for it when you see him in person.

by luckykel on 2/11/2012 12:53:05 PM

 
 

wow thats a hard one. but good advice.

by j4zm09 on 2/11/2012 11:19:29 AM

 
 

MOD! I have a problem!
So I think my crush likes me back. The only problem... THERE'S ANOTHER GIRL HE ALSO LIKES. What can I do to get his attention? HELP

Hey girl,

Try talking to him and hanging out with him as friends and just see where things go!

Meghan D.

by Maddie Style on 2/11/2012 11:14:08 AM

 
 

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Okay so I have liked this guy from the beginning of the year but finally I am able to talk to him and he talks to me but there is this other my friend who talks to him to and vice versa. the problem is he read a note that we wrote about him, but it wasn't that bad. Anyways he read looked at my friend and dash away when the bell rang. was he sad to fine out that my friend had a BF or is he upset that I don't like or what??? P.S. I really like him!

Hey girl,

Unless one of you talks to him, there's no real way to tell what upset him -- he might have just been embarrassed to find out that you were talking about him. Give him a couple of days and then try talking to him casually and see what he says!

Meghan D.

by BlueHeart on 2/11/2012 11:10:31 AM

 
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