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He's got a new GF! Still smitten, or just jealous?


 
I recently broke up with a guy that I can't get over. He got a new girlfriend the day after I broke up with him, but now I feel like I want to get back together with him, without hurting his new girlfriend's feelings. What should I do?


Breaking up is never fun and the decision to do so can be very difficult to make. It can be super hard to get over you ex, especially when they move on to someone else quickly and you do not.


I think in your particular case, you actually made the right decision in breaking up with your boyfriend. If he had a new girlfriend the very next day after you broke up one of two things is going on: 1. he is trying to make you jealous or 2. he was not fully invested in the relationship to begin with. Either way it sounds as though he is very immature. Jumping to a new girl right after you two broke up shows he had no respect for your relationship.


While it is very nice that you don’t want to hurt the new girl’s feelings, it's probably smart not to get back together with him. Occupy your time with a fun new hobby and delving into you schoolwork to keep your mind off of him, and before you know it you will be over him. There are plenty of nice guys who would respect the relationship you have with them, so take a break from guys for a while until you find a sweet guy to crush on.
 
 

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i broke up with my ex 7 months ago and we talk to each other but when he told me that he has a new girlfriend. i dont know if am jealous or i still like him what should i do?




Hey girlie,

Try to remind yourself of the reasons you broke up. The relationship wasn't working so breaking up was the right thing for both of you! It's hard being friends with an ex for this very reason - it doesn't mean you want to get back with the person, but it's completely natural to feel jealous if they move on and get a new GF. (Duh, it's always ok to move on when YOU'RE ready but it's crazy-shocking when THEY move on. It happens to all of us and we can't explain why we feel this way - but we do!) Try to take deep breaths and focus on other things. Hang out with your gals and do something that you love. Talk to a potential crush. Pick up a new hobby. Get your mind off your ex and let it sink in that he's moved on, you can move on, and it will all be ok. You weren't meant to be together - you broke up for a reason! <3
Lauren C.

by enstana on 8/16/2012 10:10:11 PM

 
 

plaese go to my clue: Boys being mean get back at they get fit.
i miss spelled the name of my clue soooo the name i was going for is: Boys being mean get back at them get fit.
Luv. Schoneboom<3

by schoneboom on 2/28/2012 3:11:39 AM

 
 

MOD MOD!! There's a group of guys and a few of them want to ask me and my friends to banquet and one of the guys in that group is taking one of the popular girls. Do you think that all the other guys will suddenly not want to go with us since one of their friends is going with the popular girl? That one guy is the only guy in that group who talks to the populars. But I don't know what I should do because I want to go to banquet with this guy and I don't want the popular girls and the one guy to change the other guys minds!! Please help!!

Hey girl,

Hopefully your guy isn't superficial enough to be influenced by someone else's decision -- what the other guy does shouldn't affect your night! If he changes his plans because of someone else, he's probably not worth your time anyway! But if he hasn't said anything now, then he's probably still planning on going with you, so relax and have fun!

Meghan D.

by SnowBoarder88 on 2/25/2012 11:16:48 AM

 
 

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i cant get over my ex. right when he broke up with me he asked out my bff on facebook i really love him, and i cant stop thinking about him. i know i should stay away from him... but i cant let go

Hey girl,

Sorry to hear things didn't work out with your bf  -- it hurts when the person you like asks out someone else. But if he's moved on, then you should too -- are there any other cuties in your class or clubs that might be interested? Try focusing your efforts on a new guy, and soon enough you'll forget about your ex! Check out this post for more tips. http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/10/12/How-can-I-get-over-my-ex.aspx


 
Meghan D.

by biebersnumber1 on 2/25/2012 1:22:49 AM

 
 

Theres this guy that i dated, and he cheated on me! But he still likes me, and wants to get back together. should i trust him???

by jojo542000 on 2/23/2012 5:35:55 PM

 
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