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Bored with my besties

 

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Whenever my best friend comes over, she doesn’t like doing anything. I like her, but I’m always bored.

 

Dear Bored Bud,

Make a list of stuff you like to do—alone and with other friends. Get creative, adding everything from playing Scrabble by the fireplace to making peanut butter brownies. Instead of asking, “What do you want to do?” and getting a shoulder shrug, throw out some suggestions. Or list your top-three faves and pick together.

 

Maybe she just hates making decisions or being put on the spot. If you make it easy for her, she might jump right in. If she isn’t the least bit interested in your ideas and doesn’t offer her own, it doesn’t mean she’s a bad friend. But, you also don’t have to invite a wet blanket over when you’re looking for some fun over winter break. Maybe she’s a good lunch buddy or phone pal. Surely, you have other friends who’d love to come over and hang out.
 
 

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 3/2/2012 12:00:00 AM

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I've had that happen but my big problem is my friend doesn't talk. So what do I do about that? Because I LOVE to talk!

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by Lexer-Lynn on 3/2/2012 6:28:12 PM

 
 



mod mod mod soooo, I have this friend who's kinda shy and nervousish ( kinda like me Tong). we get along great, but sometimes when we can't think of anything to day, there's a really awkward pause and if i look her in he eye, waiting for what to say, its uncomfortable and if i look away i think it hurts her feelings. also, the last couple times we've hung out, i've been the one inviting her over. should i wait for her to invite me before having her over or hanging out again??? thank you so much!!!

 

hey! If you run out of things to say you can always start asking her questions about her day, or interests that you share, that usually sparks conversation. You don't have to wait to have her over again either Smile 

 


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by Kstar101 on 3/2/2012 6:26:28 PM

 
 

Also, you're just really bored with most of your friends, branch out to new ones. Reach to many friends with lots of different personalities- that way you can't be bored!!


Join my club, 'Orchestra Nerds and Band Geeks.' It's a loose and fun club where we talk about anything and everything- But especially music Smile Go to my profile to join!! svds

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by svds on 3/2/2012 6:24:20 PM

 
 

good advice!
** hey everyone! join my club, funky hats club, if u hav a cool hat or like hats!!! we discuss fashion and beauty, hair, and did i mention hats? awesome! join pls! Smile**

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by beaglegal on 3/2/2012 4:35:39 PM

 
 

That's exactly like my best friend. Everytime I ask her if she wants to hang out , she's either too lazy to or just makes up a lame excuse.

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by michipie205 on 3/2/2012 3:57:36 PM

 
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