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BY CAROL WESTON ON 3/2/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN bust my bestie problem, dear carol solves BFF probs, growing apart, boredom buster, advice from Carol Weston
by peacenluv22 on 3/16/2012 10:14:51 PM
by iRokkin on 3/15/2012 8:15:09 PM
MOD MOD I have had this BFF for 8 years and I suddenly found out she told one of my deepest secrets to another girl who hated me for it. And she felt completely justified in doing it. I have so many things she has told me that I am ashamed t even hear, and she goes and says something I didn't mean and only said out of anger. I'm hurt and I want to trust her but I can't. I talked to her about it, and now she thinks it's all normal. I told her who I liked but I won't talk to her about things now because I am afraid to trust her.
I'd watch your words around her for a bit. Don't tell her anything until she wins back your trust. Jordan S.
by romanticbookworm13 on 3/12/2012 7:55:40 PM
MOD MOD MOD! Ok, so I really need advice. My Best Friend has a friend that is a boy, and he bullies me. I try to be nice to him, but he is mad at me because I told the school psychologist that he was cutting himself, which he was, and now he hates me and is really mad at me, but even worse, he is trying to ruin my BFF and I's friendship. What should I do!?
You should try to go to her first. Let your BFF know your worries before things really start to get affected by him. Get in there before he has a chance to and head him off. Talk to her about what she wants you to do if things start to change, so that way in times of doubt, you have a go-to plan.
It's likely that he feels like you're against him for now. So, you can also try and talk to him about why he feels this way about you, and let him know that you want to try and repair the relationship.
Good luck, chica! Jordan S.
by Allicat13 on 3/10/2012 2:24:30 PM
by gingeriscute22 on 3/10/2012 11:21:32 AM
by nyagross on 3/9/2012 11:42:05 PM
by DivaD01 on 3/9/2012 6:29:34 PM
by Nmun2000 on 3/8/2012 8:47:28 PM
by softballismyBFF on 3/8/2012 7:30:53 PM
by honeycakes on 3/8/2012 3:33:24 PM
by rainyseattlegirl on 3/8/2012 1:45:07 PM
by tomatos97 on 3/8/2012 11:19:06 AM
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by smiles48 on 3/7/2012 6:45:06 PM
by lizziefizzie on 3/6/2012 1:36:40 PM
MOD MOD MOD!!! I have a bf and some really great bff's and I'm a swimmer so like last weekend i had a swim competition that was 2 days (Saturday and Sunday morning) so my bff invited her to a birthday party sleep over type of thing and i told her that i can't be there for all of it but i will try to make it for a couple hours saturday. well i had to call and cancel with her cuz i had to go back to the pool that night my mom set me up to stay at my bf's house for the night there was no issue cuz hes a swimmer to. so monday when my friend asked where i was i said at a swim comp and she said i know it didn't go til 10 and when she found out by another girl where i was she was was furious i tried to explain but she still isn't talking to me i fear that i have lost one of my bff's and i'm not willing to break up with my bf for her what should i do it wasn't even my fault my mom set it up i really need some help please!!!
by hayley**98 on 3/5/2012 5:11:42 PM
help! i'm totally freaked out about high school next year! how do i know if i make the right friends? any tips on what i could do to start off the year on the right foot? THX
by myfatsquirrel on 3/4/2012 5:58:34 PM
by Madisklogg on 3/3/2012 10:30:30 PM
Softball6, i disagree with the moderator. Use the curler FIRST!!! If you dont, the curler gets full of mascara. Use the curler at the tip, then mildde, and longest at the bottom of your eyelashes!
by Danerka on 3/3/2012 8:13:15 PM
by Danerka on 3/3/2012 8:09:24 PM
by beautiful nerd! on 3/3/2012 5:54:58 PM
by cloudyday on 3/3/2012 4:57:56 PM
Sometimes this happens to me.
by amileofroses on 3/2/2012 11:28:43 PM
by Malia23 on 3/2/2012 11:14:58 PM
my bff moved to new york this summer(i live in california)and we were like totally inseperatable. she is coming back this summer but im having a really hard time at school without her. ive made some frends but the main person i hang out with is brittney and she can be really mean and ive come home crying so many times this year. shes really funny and and she makes me laugh all the time. but i feel like im not myself at all with her. and when im not all happy and acting crazy she gets all mad and shes always telling me u better be fun in history today!!! my sister hates her and has told me from the start that she doesnt like her but i keep going back to her cuz shes like my security blanket and i dont know where else to go even though my frend francine is soo nice and cool. help!! and brittney is in almost all my classes and i sit right next to her in all of them!! what do i do? sorry its so long!
by fearless;) on 3/2/2012 7:58:45 PM
by buzzingbee on 3/2/2012 7:03:23 PM
I've had that happen but my big problem is my friend doesn't talk. So what do I do about that? Because I LOVE to talk!
by Lexer-Lynn on 3/2/2012 6:28:12 PM
by Kstar101 on 3/2/2012 6:26:28 PM
Also, you're just really bored with most of your friends, branch out to new ones. Reach to many friends with lots of different personalities- that way you can't be bored!!
Join my club, 'Orchestra Nerds and Band Geeks.' It's a loose and fun club where we talk about anything and everything- But especially music Go to my profile to join!! svds
by svds on 3/2/2012 6:24:20 PM
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by beaglegal on 3/2/2012 4:35:39 PM
That's exactly like my best friend. Everytime I ask her if she wants to hang out , she's either too lazy to or just makes up a lame excuse.
by michipie205 on 3/2/2012 3:57:36 PM
by softball6 on 3/2/2012 3:12:43 PM
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