boyfriend just asked me recently if I would ever kiss him. I just
told him that I don't know. Then I asked him if he would ever kiss
me. He said yes. I felt all awkward. I kept thinking to myself, "What
if he tries to kiss me when I'm not expecting it? What if something
goes terribly wrong? What if I totally embarrass myself?" All
these things were going through my head. What do I do to calm my
Hey girly! Don’t fret too much about
your first kiss. Every girl – and guy – wants it to be perfect
and special, and it will be, but in its own way. There is no reason
to over think it and plan out every last detail – the more
spontaneous it is the more memorable it will be!
Even though your boyfriend says he is
ready now, you don’t have to be. Everyone matures at his or her own
pace and may need some more time to prepare for the next step in the
relationship. The first kiss is a big moment in a girl’s life, so
there is absolutely no need to rush in to it. And if your boyfriend
just can’t understand that you are not ready, then maybe he doesn’t
deserve to be your first kiss.
Take all the time that you need to take
the next step and only go for it when you are positive that you are
ready. But remember that it doesn’t have to be planned ahead of
time to be perfect and memorable.
BY ANA D’AMBROGI ON 2/26/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, kissing crash course, first-kiss freak-out, I'm not ready to kiss, pressure to get physical, too far too fast