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Tease, tease, tease: Turn your nervousness into flirtatiousness



I really like this guy, but I always start conversations with things like, "you are an idiot," or "wow, you are strange." I don't know why I keep doing it, but I really want to stop so that he will start to like me!

Sounds like you just get a bit nervous, chica. It’s entirely normal to be on top of your game and then accidentally blurt something out that you wish you hadn’t. This guy gets to you, so generally you can lock up for a second and lose your normal attitude toward him. Instead of being a cute, playful flirt, you’ve taken up the mantle of a different flirt style. Lucky for you, what you have going on here can be turned into nothing more than a little teasing now and then.

Remember way back in say, Elementary School, when the boys would show that they like you by kicking some dirt after you, splashing you in the pool, or calling you some silly name? A lot like your situation, dontcha think?

 

That’s right, babe, he used to flirt in the exact same way. Wanna know why that’s actually an advantage for you? He gets that. Because he used to react to girls he likes in the same way, he’ll have a little radar for when you’re flirting the same way. You just have to hone your skills a bit and then give it a little nudge.

It’s all about the tone of your voice when you say things like that. If you’re leaning more toward sounding sarcastic and you say it with a little giggle or a smile, then you easily become a Grade A flirt. Stray away from any seriousness when you toss out those comments, and don’t forget to throw in some cutesy signs of affection like hugs or eye contact and things of the sort. 
 
 

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ok so i like this guy and he is like my best guy friend! he knows i like him but he has a girl friend but they never hang out! my friends asked him if he like me but he said no and walked away but he acted differently to all the other guys my friends asked! he always talks to me and calls me his best friend and gets my attention and then smiles and stares into my eyes! how can i get him to like me more or does he like me and what should i talk to him about?

Hey girl,

If he has a girlfriend, you can't make a move, even if it seems like they're not getting along. For now, stay friends with him, and if they do break up down the road, maybe you two could date then, but you can't interfere with someone else's relationship. Would you want him to act that way if you were his gf?

Meghan D.

by kendall4003930 on 5/25/2012 11:20:08 PM

 
 



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Ok,so there is this kid at my school and I really like him, but I don't know if he likes me back. Yesterday we were in class and he shot a rubber band at me. I turn around (he sits behind me) and he smiles and waves and I glare at him. Then two seconds later, we're laughing like crazy. So to get back at him I hit him with a ball in P.E.. I know for a fact it didnt hurt, but he was laughing and saying "he was gonna get me back for that". Now every time I see him he'll stop and say "I'm still thinking of what kind of revenge I can get on you." and then we'll both start laughing. Also, after he hit me with the rubber band he apologized like 10 times and once and a while he will come up to me and say "You remember that time with the rubber band? I didn't hurt you right? I mean, you WERE laughing." And when I say im fine he looks really happy. So, do you think he likes me? Or at least has an interest? Btw, I'm kind of shy and not too good at flirting. Tong




Hey girlie,

He's totally flirting! He clearly enjoys your company and likes teasing you, which is a great sign Smile Even though you think you're shy and you're not good at flirting, go along with what he does and try to tease him back/flirt back. It sounds like you're doing an awesome job already! The point is to keep talking to him, keep flirting, and keep up that contact - because that's how you grow closer to him and see where things go <3
Lauren C.

by Vannah R. on 5/17/2012 5:03:08 PM

 
 

my friend has the same problem she and him have fun in class teasing each other and flirting but never talk out side of class. we all know he likes her but she just won't beleif us.

by saysay18 on 5/13/2012 10:45:55 AM

 
 

This always happens !!! I try to start a conversion and it just comes out and i feel so embaresed . I try to say something cute but its to late he is talking to someone else.

by alliebear12 on 4/18/2012 11:16:08 PM

 
 

This always happens to me. I get so nervous around cute boys that I try to be all tough and I think I scare them off...So i changed my ways. I try to be more subtle and flirty. More boys have been talking to me...some have even been flirting a little...too bad lots of guys in my grade are short... Smile haha

by BabyDahl13 on 4/16/2012 4:40:28 PM

 
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