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Tease, tease, tease: Turn your nervousness into flirtatiousness



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I really like this guy, but I always start conversations with things like, "you are an idiot," or "wow, you are strange." I don't know why I keep doing it, but I really want to stop so that he will start to like me!

Sounds like you just get a bit nervous, chica. It’s entirely normal to be on top of your game and then accidentally blurt something out that you wish you hadn’t. This guy gets to you, so generally you can lock up for a second and lose your normal attitude toward him. Instead of being a cute, playful flirt, you’ve taken up the mantle of a different flirt style. Lucky for you, what you have going on here can be turned into nothing more than a little teasing now and then.

Remember way back in say, Elementary School, when the boys would show that they like you by kicking some dirt after you, splashing you in the pool, or calling you some silly name? A lot like your situation, dontcha think?

 

That’s right, babe, he used to flirt in the exact same way. Wanna know why that’s actually an advantage for you? He gets that. Because he used to react to girls he likes in the same way, he’ll have a little radar for when you’re flirting the same way. You just have to hone your skills a bit and then give it a little nudge.

It’s all about the tone of your voice when you say things like that. If you’re leaning more toward sounding sarcastic and you say it with a little giggle or a smile, then you easily become a Grade A flirt. Stray away from any seriousness when you toss out those comments, and don’t forget to throw in some cutesy signs of affection like hugs or eye contact and things of the sort. 
 
 
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Thanks Laughing that was really good advice! i will do that!

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by pinktastic4ever on 2/25/2012 8:59:31 PM

 
 

Hey soccerdiva722, I think he's just joking especially since he smiles when he says it. Try calling him those names back so he can see what it feels like. Hope this helps! Xoxo (I responded to you a while ago, but none of my answers are posting grr)

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by Lynae P. on 2/25/2012 8:11:52 PM

 
 

Hey guycrazyctgirl160, I think you should make a move. Since you friend is okay with it try talking to him. Maybe see if he has a friend for your best friend. Don't know why my responses aren't posting. Hope this helps! Xoxo

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by Lynae P. on 2/25/2012 8:10:21 PM

 
 

Hey sparklysharpie, sorry my answer didn't post. What I wrote before was that different guys show their affections in different ways. Some boys will avoid talking to you, and others will want to do nothing but chat with you. Some like to compliment, joke around, get physical by hugging or play fighting. So just pay attention to the guy and see if you can figure out if he's interested. One of the biggest clues is that he will start acting differently towards you. Hope this helps! Xoxo

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by Lynae P. on 2/25/2012 8:08:46 PM

 
 

Hey pinktastic4ever, I think you should tell him the same way he told you. Go right up to him, apologize for not saying anything the other day and let him know you feel the same way. He'll probably be so happy that the feeling is mutual, he won't care how you say it. You have a week to go over what you want to say. So get your words together, so when you see him you'll be ready. Hope this helps! Sorry it didn't post before, I don't know what happened. Xoxo

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