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Tease, tease, tease: Turn your nervousness into flirtatiousness



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I really like this guy, but I always start conversations with things like, "you are an idiot," or "wow, you are strange." I don't know why I keep doing it, but I really want to stop so that he will start to like me!

Sounds like you just get a bit nervous, chica. It’s entirely normal to be on top of your game and then accidentally blurt something out that you wish you hadn’t. This guy gets to you, so generally you can lock up for a second and lose your normal attitude toward him. Instead of being a cute, playful flirt, you’ve taken up the mantle of a different flirt style. Lucky for you, what you have going on here can be turned into nothing more than a little teasing now and then.

Remember way back in say, Elementary School, when the boys would show that they like you by kicking some dirt after you, splashing you in the pool, or calling you some silly name? A lot like your situation, dontcha think?

 

That’s right, babe, he used to flirt in the exact same way. Wanna know why that’s actually an advantage for you? He gets that. Because he used to react to girls he likes in the same way, he’ll have a little radar for when you’re flirting the same way. You just have to hone your skills a bit and then give it a little nudge.

It’s all about the tone of your voice when you say things like that. If you’re leaning more toward sounding sarcastic and you say it with a little giggle or a smile, then you easily become a Grade A flirt. Stray away from any seriousness when you toss out those comments, and don’t forget to throw in some cutesy signs of affection like hugs or eye contact and things of the sort. 
 
 
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ok so the guy i like told me that he liked me the other day. but im not sure how to take it..i had just got through telling his best friend how i didnt think he liked me and then right after they were talking he randomly came up to me and said "i do like you" i was confused by the "do" and sooo i kinda just looked at him like i didnt believe him and then looked at my hands and said "I really need to paint my nails" and then changed the subject.i feel so bad for not saying it back! i wasnt sure if he was saying he like liked me but.. idk what to do now! im afraid he will think i dont like him but i dont know how to tell him i like him! plus i dont get to see him for another week! sorry for the long post but please help!


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Okay, so there's this guy that I really like that might like me back and I just found out that one of my best friends has liked him for a year and a half. He knows that my friend likes him, but he only likes her as a friend. My friend said that she's okay with it if we go out. What should I do?


 


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ok so i kinda have a similar situation. the guy i like sometimes calls me stupid and idiot when we are texting. i think that he is joking but sometimes he sounds serious. also the other day he called me retarted because i was having a moment. that kinda offended me but he said it with a grin so idk if he was joking of not. i am 13 and he is 16. i know that im too young for him but thats a different story. is he a jerk or is he flirting? please help im so confused!!


 


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On the daily give aways, can someone win more than once in a week? Or at all?(: thanks


 


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