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Do guys like shy/quiet girls? I'm a quiet girl and it just seems like all the guys like the loud girls better.

His Answer: “We tend to like girls who are similar to our own personalities and,” says Jesse, 14, “so if we are loud and energetic, generally we like girls who are as well.”

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BY ANA D’AMBROGI ON 3/2/2012 9:00:00 AM

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hi er...i`ve never gone on one of these sites before but i would REALLY appreciate some advice. See there`s this guy i used to like (last year) who stopped talking to me after he moved up a set in science and i got over him after a while because i found out he has a girlfriend. But lately i sometimes catch him looking at me and i think he sometimes is about to talk to me but someone always cuts in (mostly girls). And whenever im near him he always brags about his NEW girlfriend (he broke up with the one he went out with when i used to like him). Whats going on? Do you think he likes me or wants to makes sure i DONT like him? If you could tell me what his possibly thinking and how i should act i would really appreciate it! Thanks!
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by blue98 on 4/6/2012 2:53:32 PM

In my case, opposites attract.

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by Gabriella123 on 3/15/2012 8:57:33 PM

first if you like the guy who kept flowing you hang out with him at the BBQ get to know him better then tell him you like him

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by turtles121400 on 3/9/2012 8:17:07 PM

i am going insane!!!! my life is totally mixed up , i am homeschooled and my only friends are a lot older than i am so i do not do much with them , but i was at a convention a few weeks ago and there was a really sweet guy that was following me and i know his gramma so i was talking to her and just as she was saying " oh my , you've gotten so pretty!!" sam walks up and starts talking to her he never talks directly to me but he always is staring at me, i turned around and he was pointing me out to his older bro!!! then i spotted him staring at me ! it get worse!! his family and my family are going to have a big BBQ on may 6 ,,, what do i do?

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by dani domo kun on 3/7/2012 7:00:59 PM

Dear Mod,
I have never been asked out before so therefore have never had a boyfriend or a first kiss and so on but there is this boy that seems to REALLY like me and my friends heard him talking about asking me out. I'm totally terrified because i have no idea what to say or what to do if he does ask me out. I'm not sure if i would say yes because i have no idea how i would tell my parents I'm dating someone especially because my dad is like my best friend who thinks I'm a strong independent girl. I also don't know if I would say yes because,well I'm completely terrified because i have absolutely no clue what you are supposed to do when you have a boyfriend like who's friends do you hang out with, what room to hang out in at home or even just how to act around him. I was never one of those popular girls that hangs around with boys 24/7 so i have no idea how to act in any way. Please help me!!

Hey girlie,

You can still be a strong, independent girl while enjoying getting to know a guy. It doesn't make you "weak" or a lesser person to date someone! It's also NOT smart to say no to something just because you're afraid. Sure it's a strange situation - you don't know what to do, what to say, or how to act because you've never done it before. But that doesn't mean you should let yourself freak out and run away from it. The only way you'll get better at it and more comfy with it is if you EMBRACE it and give it a try! First off, if he asks you out and you want to go out with him... there's no complex way to answer him. Tell him, "Sure, I'd love to." then follow it with a smile. As for telling your parents, let them know you've been getting to know this guy and he's great - he treats you with respect, he's sweet and smart, and you'd really like to get to know him better. He asked you to the movies (for example) and you'd really like to go, so you wanted to tell them first and make sure they're ok with it. Be honest! <3

Honestly, with most of it, you'll learn as you go along. Don't stress about whose friends you hang out with and little stuff like that - it's all about balance! You'll spend time with your friends and his, as well as time "just the two of you." If you're at home with him, chances are your parents will tell you to stay in the family room or on the porch - I wouldn't push it and try to hang out in the bedroom. Just treat him like a close friend who you can talk to, ask questions, and be yourself around! Let things happen naturally and just focus on enjoying your time together. You'll figure it out