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BY CAROL WESTON ON 3/16/2012 4:11:00 PM
POSTED IN puberty, how to talk to parents, dear carol, therapy, advice from Carol Weston
by fantastic8805 on 12/3/2012 6:39:41 PM
by twilight1001 on 7/10/2012 7:44:31 PM
by British-IrishBoybands<3 on 7/3/2012 4:27:32 PM
by candycanes on 6/14/2012 9:08:06 PM
by KatieBieber on 5/10/2012 8:48:49 PM
by mangagirl41789 on 5/9/2012 8:23:05 PM
I have a huge problem. I can't understand if i am fat or not. I am 11 years old, i am about 5 feet tall, and i weigh 124 lbs. IS THIS NORMAL?! Whenever i ask my friends if i'm fat, they try really hard to avoid the subject. WHAT THE HECK????!!!!
by mangagirl41789 on 5/9/2012 8:18:09 PM
I'm so sorry. I know how it feels! sometimes I do that to!
Maybe, you could ask all the people that know to keep quiet about it. I hope you feel better.
by stylish873 on 4/17/2012 8:22:54 PM
It is so ok maybe your just going through a phase. U might just be going through puberty. If it's not I used to cry constantly for no reason! So I got a diary. Hope this helps!
by BaileyStar32 on 4/11/2012 6:07:22 PM
by 732miley on 4/9/2012 3:10:48 PM
Their is nothing wrong with asking for help. I was having some issues last year and ended up seeing a therapist and she helped me alot. There is no reason to feel dorky going to the counselor. You deserve to be happy!
by fm11 on 4/7/2012 9:42:39 PM
i used to cry at school all the time when someone made fun of continuously, then i whent to the guidence counsler at my school. she made it stop, and when the bully stopped so did my crying but i sometimes cry to myself quietly when i got a bad grade on my test. but that stopped to because i just write in my diary.
by bfirework on 4/6/2012 10:16:10 AM
yeah same... so confusing!!
by <3skiing<3 on 4/3/2012 5:33:04 PM
ya. for some reason i do that too. just lately though.
by Yigyaggirl on 3/30/2012 6:21:54 PM
Its ok!!! I sometimes do that, but its only when Im feeling mixed emotions and when I remember memories. Dont be afriad to talk to your councelor unless shes anything like mine... but dont be afraid to do that.. you could also talk to your friends or a good teacher that you feel is close enough to be your friend. Its not an embarrassing thing, its something that if you talk about it, it may stop.
by BRIDES_MAID72 on 3/28/2012 11:15:44 PM
ok please help me i just got done dumping this guy 4 cheating on me and then he started to date my bff well i already had a boy friend by then and i told 3 people that they where dating and he started telling everybody i was jelous and im NOT and i told him that and he said "now u no how it feels" wat does that mean and the next day i stood up 4 myself and told him agian that i wasent jelous but he called me a b**** OMG HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by kybrowniegirl on 3/27/2012 6:13:49 PM
i have the same crying problem, but only around my period. i get terrible mood swings before and after my period so whenever something a little sad or bad happens to me a feel like screaming and crying my eyes out. if something good happens i get super excited. this issue is so annoying and i just can't stand it anymore. is there any way i can get these mood swings to lessen up?
by ashambjor on 3/24/2012 3:32:56 PM
by WhoAmI? on 3/24/2012 12:01:34 PM
by emandemf on 3/23/2012 11:28:51 PM
HELP!!! My mom and i argue over EVERYTHING, all the time. Now, i spend most of my time in my room, and we argue over that, too! I feel REALLY embarressed when i talk to her about anything even close to personal, but she's way to argumenative and overprotective! How do i tell her what i need: makeup, which she thinks im too young to wear, or short shorts, which are SO in, or anything else without feeling ashamed?
by WhoAmI? on 3/23/2012 7:06:16 PM
by Peace*Love*Converse on 3/18/2012 12:49:39 AM
by music191 on 3/17/2012 10:35:43 AM
by MusicalMe on 3/17/2012 10:16:43 AM
by Emilicious on 3/17/2012 12:57:47 AM
I do this sometimes still. I think i do it when i am stressed and dont admit it because when you cry your tears release a chemical that soothes stress. Meghan D.
by oreolover123 on 3/17/2012 12:02:36 AM
by Haileygab on 3/17/2012 12:01:53 AM
Thank you, Meghan D.!
by DaNcInGQu33N9812 on 3/16/2012 11:55:54 PM
by DaNcInGQu33N9812 on 3/16/2012 11:40:30 PM
I cry at night all the time too. It helps me sleep, which is an advantage, but crying is no fun, especially if it's for a particular reason. I'd feel strange too if I had to talk to a counselor.
by 1corinthiansgurl on 3/16/2012 11:11:51 PM
by InsideOutKid on 3/16/2012 9:30:01 PM
I know exactly what you mean. My last boyfriend says that I get too emotional too eaisily. I think that he's right. I am always either super happy, super depressed, super angry, or super out of it. I don't know why I am this way. if anyone has an answer, or even a suggestion as to why I have these extreme emotions, please write me back.
by MollyMoster on 3/16/2012 9:15:10 PM
by quest6c on 3/16/2012 8:16:36 PM
I do the same thing, and then after that I feel better about myself. I have no idea why.
by dancingirl1613 on 3/16/2012 8:08:10 PM
by fungirl123 on 3/16/2012 5:36:33 PM
I do the same thing. I cry for absolutely no reason, and if I do have a reason, I'm not able to sleep until I pass out.
by msharkgirl on 3/16/2012 5:09:51 PM
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