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My BF dropped the L-bomb too soon


 

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. The other day he told me he loves me, and all I said was, “Thanks, that’s sweet.” I just didn’t know how to respond. I really like him, but what should I say back?
 

Dear Love Bug,

It’s a terrible move to tell someone you love him if you’re not feeling it. Even though your conversation was awkward, you were smart not to echo his words and pretend to feel more serious than you actually do. If he says it again, it’s OK to just smile or say, “I care about you too.” Time will tell whether your relationship grows or fizzles so, for now, why rush to label it?
 
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 3/21/2012 12:00:00 AM

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MOD MOD MOD HELP NOW !! A guy i used to go to school with texted me a week ago and then after wards he said if i asked you out would you say yes and i said yes now he keeps saying when can you ? Then a DAY after telling him I like him to he dropped the " L BOMB " And I just sent him a smiley face then i asked him what he was doing and he said talking to someone Sexy and Fyi thats you ... I just said o .... Later he said Hey beautiful and I said I'm not and he said Always no matter what ... He called me babe last night and keeps telling me that he loves me ... How do i tell him that hes moving to fast !? I think he thinks he is my bf .. We havn't even been on a date yet ! WHAT DO I DO ?




Hey girl!

Sounds like you're dealing with a pretty forward guy. He's pretty eager to see you. Before you go on the date, make it clear how you feel about him. Say, "I'm super psyched about getting to know you better, but I think you're moving way too fast". Tell him that words like "sexy" and "babe" make you uncomfortable. If he crosses anymore boundaries, you should definitely nix him. Move onto the next!


 
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by barngirl on 5/11/2012 1:35:28 PM

 
 

Sorry this prov isn't the greatest place to ask this, but y do people put 'MOD' on their comments? I'm so confused.

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by British-IrishBoybands<3 on 4/17/2012 10:54:46 AM

 
 

I hate labeling things...and sadly thats exactly what the word love does. While I have never been in love, I personally think that most people in HS or younger are not in actual, real, honest to god love. Most girls I know my age are hardly mature enough to flirt with a boy, let alone actually be in love with one. Dont rush anything-we have our whole lives to fall in love!

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by **Summergirl** on 4/9/2012 7:03:29 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!!!! so my boyfriend has like 13 people in his family and they don't have any home phones... only cell phones i'm afraid to call because someone else might answer. so what should i say when someone answers the phone? and what should i do?!

 

Hey! Just politely ask to speak to your boyfriend, you don't have to be nervous, it's perfectly ok for you to call the guy Smile 


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by peace happiness on 4/6/2012 3:38:41 PM

 
 

This is really awkward but............... I M IN MY PARTY MOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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by misstomboy1 on 4/1/2012 11:12:52 PM

 
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