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How do I get this guy to stop flirting with me?


 
A boy in my class always flirts with me and everybody says that he likes me. The truth is that he is the most annoying boy in school. He always brags about how rich he is and is very self-centered. I don't like him back and I want him to stop flirting with me. But, I don't know how to tell him without hurting his feelings.

 

His Answer: “Flirting doesn’t really mean much for every guy,” says Eric, 16, “some guys are just natural flirts, so he may not even like you.”

 

Decoded: He may just be a flirty dude so there is no reason for you to be worried that he may like you. Even if he is flirting with only you, it doesn’t mean that it has to go anywhere past that.

 

Your Move: Make sure you are making your own opinions of him and not just listening to what your friends say. If you are for sure not into him though, make sure you are not flirting back and giving him the wrong idea. Keep in mind that he can still be your friend so don’t cut him out completely. 

 
 

BY ANA D’AMBROGI ON 3/23/2012 12:00:00 AM

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So I liked this guy and he liked me. About like a few weeks ago he told me he relized that he doesn't like me anymore. I still have feelings for him a bit but I don't think he has any left for me. I sit right in the back of him and he is all ways asking the teacher when we can switch seats. How do I get this guy out of my mind? When he sai that he didn't like me anymore he also said "... I don't wanna date or like anyone right now" but I started to relize that he's going back to his very 1st girlfriend at the starting of the year. I always see him and her laughing together but she also dates alot of guys but doesn't stay in a relashionship longer than 1 month. Ik that he derserves best. What do I do?

Hey girl,

If he's not ready for a relationship (or at least says he's not), it sounds like you should move on to another guy, and whether he gets back with his other girlfriend or not is his decision. Since the summer is coming up and you likely won't see him as much anyway, use your time off from school as a way to scope out some new cuties and focus on your hobbies and spending time with your friends, not on guys! You'll have so much fun that you'll forget him in no time Smile

Meghan D.

by Jazzalyn12 on 5/20/2012 2:24:04 AM

 
 



Mod mod! There's this boy in my global and English class that is starting to freak me out. Last week in English we were doing a scene from Romeo and Juliet, and my seat was facing him and I turned my head and he was staring right at me. So I put my book in front of my face and casually looked over it and he was still staring at me. 5 five minutes later he looked away but a minute later he started in at it again. And the look he had in his face kinda like a stalker. I told my friend who isn't in my English class but in my global class and she said he'd been doing that for 4 weeks. Does he like me? I have nothing against him but Id prefer to date guys taller than me (I'm 5 foot 7) if not a few inches shorter, but hes like 1 foot and 1/2 shorter than me. HELP PLEASE

 

Hey chica!

I'd say try to not let him staring at you distract you. If after a few days he doesn't stop, calmly confront him and ask why he prolongedly stares at you and say how it makes you feel uncomfortable. Although there is nothing wrong with girls being taller than their boyfriends (many couples are that way), it's a good idea not to date him if you feel from the start that he's not the guy for you. You probably don't have to fret about turning him down until he actually asks you, which he might not do unless he feels encouraged. <3 


Krupali D.

by ladyinlike on 4/3/2012 6:38:28 AM

 
 

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Okay so I dated this guy a couple weeks ago but I broke up with him. Now he is still being creepily nice to me. It's not that I want to be mean to him but is it a little weird that he is soooo niiiiiice. What does this mean??
Please help!!



It likely means that he wants you back, babe. Jordan S.

by katekatekate14 on 4/2/2012 8:00:12 PM

 
 



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For some reason, all the nerds in my grade like me. I want to tell them that their not my type, but how do i do that? I tried last year, but he was so crushed he wouldn't quit annoying me. Help?




Hey girl,

First off, you definitely can't get all the nerds together and give them a speech that starts off with, "Please stop liking me..." It's not gonna end that way! Instead of that, try to get to know them all personally. Enjoy the attention, chat in a friendly way while in class, and know that you don't have to be friends with these guys - just don't shut them down before giving them a chance. (Duh, nerds rock!) Chatting with you and flirting is kinda normal and you don't need to jump down their throats for giving you a bit of attention. But if one of them starts flirting too much or even asks you out, then you can let them down gently - "Thanks so much for asking, you're such a great guy but I think we're better as friends. I'm really sorry." That way, you're able to keep his feelings in mind while telling the truth. <3
Lauren C.

by BeautyQueen10 on 4/1/2012 10:20:56 AM

 
 

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About 2 months ago I liked this guy. Nobody knew that I liked him but he dropped a lot of hints that he liked me. I didn't do anything about it. Now, he's starting dating one of my best friends. I barely have feelings for him anymore, they're almost completely gone. But every time I hear that something good happened between them, I get a pang in my stomach that lasts for hours. How do I finally get completely over this guy and just start being happy for their relationship?

 

Hey girl!  Try focusing on a new guy, or keep yourself busy with activities and schoolwork.  Before you know it, you'll say "who?"  Good luck chica!


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Channa R.

by funinthesun4ever on 3/27/2012 3:55:30 PM

 
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