My boyfriend, who used to be my BGF before we started
dating, broke up with me and asked my best friend out. The thing is, she said
yes!! Should I still be their friend after they did that to me?
This is a messy situation you have on your hands, chica.
Before you go and dump two people out of your life for good I think you should
have a private talk with your best friend. Ask her why she would date your ex
right after he broke up with you. There is a chance that she might have thought
it would not hurt your feelings. You need to express to her that your feelings
are indeed hurt. If she is sorry and expresses her concerns for what she has
done then I think it is OK to keep her as a best friend.
As far as your ex goes, it is probably best to cut him out
of the picture at least for a little while. You need time to get over him. Also
he should have known that dating your best friend would crush you. That was
really rude of him to ask her out right after breaking up with you, whether he
has real feelings for her or not.
BY AMANDA POOLE ON 4/8/2012 12:00:00 AM
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