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I always like a guy for a long time, no matter what. I just got over someone, and now I like a new guy. I’m afraid to show my interest because I’ll keep liking him even if he doesn’t like me back. He’s popular; I’m not. Should I go for it or try to move on?
 

Dear Afraid to Love Again,

Here’s what you should not do: stalk him in the hall, IM him 24/7, put his cell number on your speed dial, or tell friends to get the word out that you’re ready when he is. But feel free to smile in his direction, say “hi,” ask a friendly question, and maybe even compliment him on his winning goal or class presentation. Take tiny steps to gauge the warmth of his reaction. As for declaring that, once you like someone, you’re stuck liking him for life? Surprise yourself by changing your ways. This boy is only one of thousands in your community. If he’s nice and attentive, he may hold your interest. If not, you have the power to get out of a one-way crush.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 3/28/2012 12:00:00 AM

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I definitey agree! Just remember though.. guys are definitely NOT everything.. so don't make your crush you TOP priority!Smile

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by LAS625 on 3/29/2012 1:10:24 AM

 
 



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Heyy so i'm pretty athletic i guess, i play basketball and volleyball. But now some girls have been telling me i should play soccer because there house and rep teams dont have enough players. I'm not really sure if i should try it or not.. ive never played soccer on a team before and these girls have played for years already together.

 

If you like sports then I say do it! Youll meet new people and have a good time Smile good luck! xoxo kerra 


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by Im.Unique.YAY! on 3/28/2012 10:43:04 PM

 
 

Please join my club: club us its a really cool and its great way to make new friends pls join now!
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by Dansu on 3/28/2012 10:39:18 PM

 
 



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So I have this group of friends that told me that I have changed a lot this year, but none of them can really tell me how. All that they are telling me is that I am hanging out with the guys a lot more and that I am not the same as I used to be. They told me that I am not keeping my "priorities straight" when it comes to my guy friends and girl friends. My best friend is the one who is the most irritated with me and I don't know what I am supposed to do. I absolutely hate being in the middle of drama and this has been going on for a while. I have tried to talk to her and after we talk she says we are fine and then doesn't talk to me. I know that people grow apart and everything, but I just don't feel excepted by her and my other friends anymore because they think that I have changed and no one knows why. If you could help me by giving me some advice that would be amazing. Thank you so much!

 

Hey girl, just talk to her. She's probably just jealous! They most likely just want to spend more time with you! 


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by smile8) on 3/28/2012 8:10:53 PM

 
 

SO sorry about your crush chaos, it sounds troubling. If it were me, I would just try to let him go. Sorry again!

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by skyfashions123 on 3/28/2012 7:52:19 PM

 
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