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Uh-oh, babe, this should definitely send up a warning signal for you. Considering he told you without her knowing, and then also tossed out there that you shouldn’t tell her either, it sounds to me like he’s hiding some secrets. As her BFF, you don’t want him hiding things from her, do you? I know you don’t want her getting hurt!

Before you decide what to do about the situation you need to tackle a feel questions for yourself: Do you feel the same way about him? Is he still trustworthy? Is it still safe for your bff to be investing her heart in this boy if he’s keeping secrets?

What makes these situations most tricky is when you have some underlying feelings for him. It also brings up some red flags on his part. When he can have a secret as serious as liking his girlfriend’s best friend, what’s that say about what other things he may be hiding from her?

You have three options here: One, you could tell your best friend. Let her know that it may be harmless but that you’re always considering her first. Two, you could sit him down and talk it out. Make sure he doesn’t have any other secrets like this and that he cares for her. Then tell him that you enjoy being friends but you’d never consider getting involved in a love triangle with your best gal. Three, you can ignore it and hope that it never evolves into anything damaging.

Give this some real thought, chica.  This could have all kinds of problems if gone about poorly.
 
 

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MOD MOD MOD!!!!
Ok I need help RIGHT now my crush wants to know who likes him and its me. He likes me too but I'm having a hard time admitting my feelings. what is wrong with me????? Also my other friend likes him too and she is going to be sooo mad! Help!




Hey girlie,

Nothing is wrong with you! It can be really hard to open up and admit you like someone because you have a chance of getting hurt if he turns you down. But if he likes you, then that should give you confidence! Be straight with him and don't play games. That's the best way to get closer to him and see if something works out! Smile As for your friend, you really need to talk to her after this and let her know what's happening. Especially if you and your crush decide to date, you should clue her in and tell her you love her as a friend, but you and your crush have a mutual thing going on and you want to see where that goes. Try to be honest and also sensitive around her - she might be a little mad, but it's important you treat her with respect and tell her before she finds out from someone else!
Lauren C.

by hermionegirl12 on 5/3/2012 7:38:36 PM

 
 

OMG!!!! I have a huge crush on this dude and we started talking like maybe A month ago and i really think he is so cute and he has a girl friend thats what everyone is telling me and im scared if i ask him if he has a girlfriend he will be like yea and then i be so sad and i dont know what to do. i really like him. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

by PoohBear:) on 5/1/2012 10:58:13 AM

 
 



Mod! Mod! Mod! How do I ask my crush who he likes? Also me & him want to hang out Saturday like just going to the movies or something and it's not a date. How do I ask my parents if I can go?




Hey Girl,

Just confront him and ask if there's anybody that he likes (and who it is)! I know it's kinda risky, but I would just go for it! As far as Saturday concerns, ask your parents if they are okay with the idea that you're going to the movies with your crush. Explain to them that it's not a date but that you'd really like to hang out with him! Hope this helps Smile 
alicia m.

by Polkadot2312 on 4/18/2012 11:01:31 PM

 
 

OK, so I have a prob. I liked this kid @ my church last summer, but he goes to a different school. he is also a grade behind me, and the only time i see him is church a youth group. Now, I like this guy, N, and he is in my grade and goes to my school. I liked him last school year, and i didnt really like the first guy, M, anymore. Now N is my BF and is super loyal, but now i think M likes ME now and now every time i see him it is really awkward at church and stuff. And what is super sad is that he obviously likes me and im not sure wether he is flirting or not. I am dateing N stedily, and M knows because i have told him on multipul occasions. and i am 99% positive that i like N more than M, but what do i do to get M to stop flirting/acting like a love struck dimwit?
PS he knows that i USED TO like him.

by 3m2016 on 4/16/2012 6:33:47 PM

 
 

I really like this guy and he knows I like him. He always has a girlfriend though. We use to talk everyday and were friends but since he found out he wont talk to me and I am way to nervous to talk to him. Plus one day he was texting my friend and said he would go out with me if he was single. But now he said he lied just to not hurt my feelings last month. Now this week he was smiling at me a ton and kept staring at me. Should I ask him to spring fling or not. I'm confused and need help please.

by presleyns on 4/5/2012 5:23:20 PM

 
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