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Why your guy is acting distant after your first kiss

 
 
I have been with my BF for a while but ever since our first kiss he has been kind of funny. He says he enjoyed it but he just doesn't seem as into me. What should I do?

 

I think the best way to know what he is thinking and why he is acting funny is to have a talk with him. You should approach him and ask to speak in private. Maintain a cool and calm tone during this conversation. You don’t want him to feel like you are trying to start a fight.

 

Begin by pointing out that you have noticed he has been distant towards you and be prepared to give him example of when he has done this because he will likely ask.  Let him know how you felt those when he was acting this distant way and why his distance is becoming a concern for you. Remind him that you care about him and just want for the two of you to be the best couple that you could possibly be.

 

He could just be nervous about making kissing a new and continual part of your relationship. He also could have had something personal happen to him around the same time of your first kiss. You will never know until you ask. Good luck, girl!
 
 

BY AMANDA POOLE ON 4/1/2012 12:00:00 AM

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oh never mind

by hermionegirl12 on 5/19/2012 8:31:55 PM

 
 

Oh btw that mod down there that I wrote? my parents r divorced so my dad dont know she dosnt know

by hermionegirl12 on 5/19/2012 8:27:57 PM

 
 

MOD! So, I’m a little old to be using this, but I’m 15. I really like this guy who goes to my church youth group. He’s 17. We’re definitely only acquaintances, but there a certain things he does that makes me think he likes me. He’s very friendly, teases me all of the time, and is always kind. We text occasionally. We have so much in common. Unfortunately, he doesn’t go to my school, so I only see him Sundays. I guess what I am asking is, he’s going to be 18 soon. Next year, he’ll be leaving for college, and if I talked about my feelings, and we did end up dating, would it be worth it? I truly know he is the kind of guy I would marry, (I’m not stupid and he’d still be around since he goes to my church but should I speak up?




Hey babe,

I say give it a shot!  Who knows, maybe he'll end up going to college in state?  Or even if not, you'd still have a full year of time to spend being happy with him.
Jordan S.

by solosinger7 on 5/14/2012 3:49:37 PM

 
 

never mind i kissed him on last thursday

by teshla21 on 4/24/2012 10:33:53 PM

 
 



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Okay my bffs boyfriend likes me and I don't know what to do!!! I sorta like him but I don't want to hurt her feelings. Like when we are all in a group talking and her bf comes over he ends up talking to me and we have this one class together and last week he made me a "birthday card" but my birthday isn't until October!! I have had his friends tell me he likes me and other girls in the grade have even told me he likes me! I sorta like him and they are still going out but I think he is going to break up with her and ask me out. What should I do!!!!!!!!




Hey girlie,

You KNOW the answer to this one - he is off limits, babe! First off, he's in a relationship. So even if he wasn't dating your BFF, he wouldn't be on the market. That means no flirting or crossing that line between friends and more-than-friends. You wouldn't want someone to do that to YOUR BF, so respect their relationship and try to just be friends. Now, the sticky part... he's dating your BFF. It's a personal choice, but you gotta decide whether your friendship is important or if you want to see what could happen with this guy. Personally, I would definitely NOT date him right after they break up. If he asked, I would tell him I was interested but that I wanted to wait until my bestie was totally over it and moved on so I didn't hurt her. Then, I'd focus on her and making sure she knew how supportive I was and that I was always there for her. Then, once time has passed and she has clearly moved on, if I still liked him, I'd start talking to him again and see where it led. But I would never do anything without talking to my bestie first about it, to make sure it didn't hurt her! Also, something to keep in mind... if he broke up with her for another girl, he could 100% do the same to you.
Lauren C.

by DanceLover1027 on 4/14/2012 10:54:27 PM

 
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