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Why your guy is acting distant after your first kiss

 
 

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I have been with my BF for a while but ever since our first kiss he has been kind of funny. He says he enjoyed it but he just doesn't seem as into me. What should I do?

 

I think the best way to know what he is thinking and why he is acting funny is to have a talk with him. You should approach him and ask to speak in private. Maintain a cool and calm tone during this conversation. You don’t want him to feel like you are trying to start a fight.

 

Begin by pointing out that you have noticed he has been distant towards you and be prepared to give him example of when he has done this because he will likely ask.  Let him know how you felt those when he was acting this distant way and why his distance is becoming a concern for you. Remind him that you care about him and just want for the two of you to be the best couple that you could possibly be.

 

He could just be nervous about making kissing a new and continual part of your relationship. He also could have had something personal happen to him around the same time of your first kiss. You will never know until you ask. Good luck, girl!
 
 
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BY AMANDA POOLE ON 4/1/2012 12:00:00 AM

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Okay well since I've turned 13 I've been getting..compliments and a ton of flirting from guys my age.I know it doesnt seem like a big deal but everytime it happens I get uncomfortable and my tummy turns into knots! I for sure am NOT ready for dating but is there anyway I can calm down,not make a big deal about it and accept it? I NEVER in my whole life have been flirted with or have been given compliments.It actually scaries me a bit when I think about having a boyfriend and dating and being alone with the guy!

 

Hey! when it happens just take a breath, smile and say thank you. That's the perfect way to deal without making yourself uncomfortable. You go girl! 


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by Super8fangirl98 on 4/13/2012 6:22:40 PM

 
 

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my friends bf and her hav been dating 4 at year on sat. and shes rly excited. a few nites ago, i asked him if he was thinking of breaking up w/ her and he said yes. his reason is tht he doesn't like her anymor and he doesnt wanna stay w/ her out of pity, but some1 else told me tht its cuz he wants 2 b single so he can flirt w/ girls (which hes already doing) and cuz he doesnt wanna date some1 4 a whole year. thing is, idk if i shud tell her about the flirting so tht she can possibly break up w/ him and save herself from humilition, or if i shud tell her about it after he breaks up w/ her so tht it helps her healing process. if i do the first option, some1 mite find out tht i told her and get mad. plus, she mite regret breaking up w/ him and feel bad if she still liked him. the 2nd option cud b bad cuz she mite get mad @ me 4 not telling her sooner, and some1 mite still get mad @ me. he's such a jerk and doesnt deserve her or any1- wut do i do???




Hey girlie,

This is tricky.  I think you should tell her that he said he was considering breaking up with her as well as that he didn't like her as much anymore.  No girl should have to stay in a relationship where the guy doesn't feel anything for her, you know?

You're her friend before anything else, it doesn't matter if anyone finds out that you told.
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by pinkninja64 on 4/9/2012 5:36:27 PM

 
 



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ok so i went out with my bgf back in october, and after 3 weeks i broke up with him cuz i wasnt ready. now i like him again and he likes me. but he hasnt made a move, and its been a month. how do i subtley hint that?
and does this sound like a good idea? he's a great guy, and a good bf but im just wondering if my parents will be disappointed. i just need some advice on what to do.
i know this rly doesnt make sense but i appreciate the help.
thanks




Hey girlie,

Since you broke up with him last time, I think YOU should make the move this time. He might be afraid to ask you out again since he got rejected last time. Show him you want to try again by asking him to a movie or dinner sometime. Don't worry about what your parents or friends will think - if it feels right to give it another chance and he's a respectful/trustworthy guy, go with your heart <3
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by abby.luv16 on 4/5/2012 8:33:56 PM

 
 

hey!!!!! something similar is happening to me!!! so i have been dating this guy for like to months and we still haven't kissed! and the worst part is that he wants to kiss me and i want kiss him, but that has not even come close to happening! what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please help me before i DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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by teshla21 on 4/2/2012 8:15:07 PM

 
 

Me and my BGF(I am in love with himm), had our first kiss yesterday.<3

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by Goldfish123 on 4/2/2012 7:41:21 PM

 
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